Social Security survivor benefits - will my wife get my full $55K yearly benefit if I die before her?
I've been researching Social Security survivor benefits and can't seem to find a clear answer to my specific situation. My financial advisor just showed me some projections that got me thinking about this. Here's our situation: - I'm planning to collect SS until age 80, currently receiving about $55,000 annually (started at age 70) - My wife is 74 and has been collecting spousal benefits (50% of my FRA benefit) since she was 67 - She qualified for spousal benefits because her own SS benefit was less than half of my FRA amount If I pass away first, would my wife automatically start receiving my full $55,000 yearly benefit as a survivor? Even though she's already 74 and has been collecting spousal benefits for years? Or is there some reduction because she's already receiving benefits? The SSA website mentions survivor benefits but I couldn't find this specific scenario explained clearly. Any insights from those who understand how this works?
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Abigail bergen
Yes, your wife would receive your full benefit amount as a survivor benefit. When a spouse dies, the surviving spouse is entitled to the higher of either their own benefit or their deceased spouse's benefit (including any delayed retirement credits). Since your benefit is $55,000 per year and that's more than what she's currently receiving as a spousal benefit, she would start receiving your full amount after your death. There's no reduction based on her age at that point - she's already past her FRA so she would get 100% of your benefit amount.
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Kirsuktow DarkBlade
•Thank you! That's a relief to hear. So it doesn't matter that she's already been collecting the spousal benefit for several years? She'll just transition from the 50% spousal to the 100% survivor benefit automatically?
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Ahooker-Equator
my mom went thru this 2 yrs ago. dad died and she got his full amount the next month. they switched her over pretty quick actually. one thing tho - make sure your wife CALLS ssa when you die (sorry to be blunt). they don't automatically know!!
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Kirsuktow DarkBlade
•Thanks for sharing your experience. Good point about needing to notify SSA - I hadn't thought about that part! Did your mom have to provide a lot of documentation when she called?
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Anderson Prospero
The SSA is TERRIBLE about explaining this stuff clearly! I spent HOURS on their website trying to figure out survivor benefits when my husband passed and still had to call them. And good luck getting through on the phone - I tried for THREE WEEKS!!! Kept getting disconnected or told the wait time was over 2 hours. So frustrating when you're already dealing with grief.
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Tyrone Hill
•I had the same problem with the endless phone waits when my mom died. I finally used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected to a real SSA person in about 20 minutes instead of waiting for hours. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU - saved me so much frustration during an already difficult time.
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Toot-n-Mighty
To answer your specific question: Your wife will receive your full benefit amount as her survivor benefit. This is officially called the Widow's Insurance Benefit (WIB). The survivor benefit equals 100% of the deceased spouse's benefit amount if the surviving spouse has reached full retirement age. Since your wife is 74, she's well past her FRA. Important details to know: 1. She needs to report your death to SSA (they don't automatically know) 2. She cannot receive both spousal benefits AND survivor benefits - it's one or the other 3. The transition isn't completely automatic - she'll need to apply for survivor benefits 4. She should bring your death certificate, marriage certificate, both SSNs, and birth certificates when applying Something to consider: If your benefit included delayed retirement credits from waiting until 70, those credits are included in what she'll receive.
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Kirsuktow DarkBlade
•This is incredibly helpful - thank you for the detailed explanation! I did wait until 70 to maximize my benefit, so I'm glad to hear those delayed retirement credits will be included in what she receives. I'll make sure she knows what documentation to gather.
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Lena Kowalski
I'm confused about something similar... does this mean when either spouse dies, the survivor ALWAYS gets the higher benefit amount? My husband and I both worked, but his benefit is about 70% higher than mine. So if he dies first, I'd get his full amount instead of mine?
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Abigail bergen
•Yes, that's correct. When your husband passes away, you would receive his higher benefit amount as a survivor benefit (assuming you're at or past your full retirement age). You would no longer receive your own benefit - you get the higher of the two, not both. This is why some financial advisors suggest having the higher-earning spouse delay claiming until 70 if possible - it maximizes the survivor benefit.
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DeShawn Washington
i think u need 2 be careful about the AMOUNT ur talking about... social security doesnt usually pay $55k a year to anybody... the max benefit for someone retiring at 70 in 2025 is around $4,800/month (like $57,600/year). so if ur getting $55k, ur at the absolute maximum. most people dont get anywhere near that much. just wanting to make sure ur numbers r right.
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Kirsuktow DarkBlade
•You're right to question this. I was using rounded numbers for simplicity. My actual benefit is about $4,600 monthly which comes to roughly $55K annually. I had a consistently high income throughout my career and maxed out my SS contributions for most years, which is why my benefit is near the maximum.
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Ahooker-Equator
also theres a one-time death benefit of $255 they pay when someone dies... not much but every little bit helps with funeral expenses
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Lena Kowalski
•LOL $255 doesn't even cover the cost of flowers at a funeral these days! Can't believe they haven't increased that amount since like the 1950s or something ridiculous. Typical government program not keeping up with inflation!
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Toot-n-Mighty
One additional point that might be relevant for your situation: If your wife reports your death to SSA within the same month that you pass away, they may withhold your final monthly payment. However, if she reports it in the month after your death, your final payment is generally allowed to remain. This can make a difference of an entire month's benefit amount. The rules around this can be complex, so it's something to discuss with SSA when the time comes.
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Kirsuktow DarkBlade
•I had no idea about this timing issue for reporting. That's really valuable information - could make a difference of over $4,000 in our case. Thank you for pointing this out.
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Emma Wilson
Just wanted to add something important that I learned when helping my aunt navigate this situation last year - make sure your wife keeps detailed records of all her communications with SSA regarding the survivor benefits application. The process can sometimes take a few months to complete, and having documentation of what was submitted and when can be really helpful if there are any delays or issues. Also, if she's comfortable with technology, she can check the status of her application online through her my Social Security account, which saved my aunt from making multiple phone calls during the waiting period.
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