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Social Security spousal benefits timing when turning 65 - husband already collecting since 65

I'm approaching my 65th birthday in a few months and trying to figure out the best timing for applying for Social Security. My husband started his retirement benefits at 65 (he's now 69). Since his benefit amount is significantly higher than what I'd receive on my own record, I know I'll be applying for spousal benefits instead of my own retirement benefit. I've read so many conflicting things about when exactly I should submit my application. Some people say 3 months before, others say apply right at 65. Does it matter exactly when I file if I'm taking the spousal benefit? Will I get retroactive payments if I apply a month or two after turning 65? And do I need to bring any special documentation since I'm applying as a spouse rather than on my own work record? Thanks to anyone who can help clarify this process!

Dylan Campbell

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Definitely apply 3 months before your 65th birthday. That's the earliest SSA allows you to apply for retirement or spousal benefits that will start at 65. If you wait until after your birthday, benefits aren't retroactive unless you've reached your Full Retirement Age (which is likely 66 and several months for you based on your age). As for documents, you'll need your birth certificate, marriage certificate, and your husband's Social Security number. You can apply online at ssa.gov or schedule an appointment at your local office.

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StarStrider

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Thank you for the clear guidance! I was born in 1960, so my FRA is 67 according to what I read. So just to confirm - if I apply 3 months before turning 65, my spousal benefits will start right at my 65th birthday? And I won't be penalized for taking them before my FRA? Sorry for all the questions, but this process is confusing.

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Sofia Torres

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you should wait til your FRA! if you take spousal at 65 youll get a reduced amount forever. i made that mistake and regret it every month when i see my check

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StarStrider

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Oh no! I didn't realize taking spousal benefits early would permanently reduce the amount. Do you know roughly how much the reduction is? I was planning to start at 65 since we could use the extra income, but maybe it's worth waiting if the difference is significant.

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Dmitry Sokolov

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I just went through this exact situation with my wife last year. If you take spousal benefits at 65 when your FRA is 67, you'll get approximately 86% of what you'd get at your full retirement age. That's a permanent reduction. Here's what we did: my wife took her OWN benefit at 65 even though it was smaller, then she'll switch to the higher spousal benefit at her FRA to get the full 50% of my benefit. The math worked better for our situation. Ask SSA to calculate both scenarios for your specific numbers.

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StarStrider

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This is incredibly helpful information! I didn't know you could start with your own benefit and then switch to spousal later. I worked part-time for many years, so my own benefit would be quite small, but maybe this strategy still makes sense? I'll definitely ask SSA to show me the calculations for both options.

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Ava Martinez

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StarStrider

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Miguel Ramos

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Does anyone know if there's an income limit if I take spousal benefits at 65? My husband still works part-time and makes about $28,000/year. Will that affect MY spousal benefit amount? So confusing!!!

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QuantumQuasar

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Your husband's work income won't affect your spousal benefits. However, if YOU work while collecting benefits before your FRA, then the earnings limit applies to you. For 2025, you can earn up to $21,240 without penalty. Above that, they withhold $1 in benefits for every $2 you earn over the limit. The good news is that once you reach your FRA, there's no earnings limit at all, and they'll recalculate to give back some of those withheld benefits.

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Zainab Omar

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Just wanted to share that I took spousal benefits at exactly 65 three years ago. Applied online about 2.5 months before my birthday and it was really simple. Everything went fine except they somehow lost my marriage certificate after I uploaded it and I had to send it again which delayed things by 3 weeks. So make sure you follow up if you don't hear anything within a couple weeks after applying!

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Dylan Campbell

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This is good advice. I always recommend that people check their mySocialSecurity account about 7-10 days after submitting any documents. The system will show if documents were received and accepted. It's much better to catch these issues early rather than waiting for SSA to contact you about missing documents.

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StarStrider

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Thank you all for the helpful information! I've decided to schedule a call with SSA using that Claimyr service to discuss my specific options. Seems like I have three choices: 1) Take spousal benefits at 65 with a permanent reduction, 2) Take my own smaller benefit at 65, then switch to full spousal at my FRA, or 3) Wait until my FRA to start with the full spousal benefit. I need to see actual dollar amounts for each scenario to make the best decision for our situation. I'll update here after I speak with them in case it helps someone else!

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Dmitry Sokolov

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Smart approach! One more thing to consider in your decision: If you're still working and plan to continue past age 65, option #3 (waiting until FRA) might be best because you avoid the earnings limit completely. But if you're not working or earning under the threshold, then comparing the actual benefit amounts for options 1 and 2 makes the most sense. And remember that spousal benefits don't earn delayed retirement credits past FRA, so there's no advantage to waiting beyond your FRA of 67.

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Sofia Torres

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make sure u ask them about medicare too! you should still sign up for that at 65 even if you delay SS benefits otherwise theres a penalty

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