Social Security ex-spouse benefits with SSDI at 64 - changes at retirement age?
Been trying to figure this out for weeks and the SSA phone line is always busy! I'm currently 64 and receiving SSDI after my accident in 2022. I was married for 35 years before we divorced in 2019. My ex-husband has since remarried and is 66 now. I also receive a Long-Term Disability payment from my former employer's insurance. Here's what I'm confused about: Am I eligible for any ex-spouse benefits even though I'm already on SSDI? And what happens when I reach my full retirement age at 67 - does my SSDI automatically convert to retirement benefits? Will the amount change? Also worried about my LTD payments - do these stop at 65 when Medicare kicks in? Thanks in advance for any guidance!
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Victoria Charity
Yes, you might be eligible for divorced spouse benefits IF your ex-spouse's Social Security benefit amount is higher than your current SSDI. Since you were married for over 10 years before divorcing, and you haven't remarried, you qualify for ex-spouse benefits. But you'll only receive the higher of the two amounts - not both combined. When you reach your FRA at 67, your SSDI will automatically convert to retirement benefits, but the amount should stay the same. As for your LTD, most policies do terminate at 65 or when you reach full retirement age, but you need to check your specific policy details.
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Evan Kalinowski
•Thank you! Do I need to apply for the ex-spouse benefits or does SSA automatically check if I qualify? My monthly SSDI is about $1,650 - I have no idea what his benefit amount would be but he made a lot more than me during our marriage.
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Jasmine Quinn
my brother in law had similar situation. he got divorced after 22 yrs and was already on ssdi. when he applied for ex spouse benefits they told him no extra $ because his ssdi was already higher than what hed get from ex wife record. but definatly worth checking!!
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Evan Kalinowski
•Thanks for sharing that experience! I guess I need to find out what my ex is getting somehow. I worked part-time for many years while raising our kids, so his earnings were definitely higher.
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Oscar Murphy
I'm in nearly the exact same situation except I'm 62 with SSDI and LTD!!! Has anyone actually gotten through to SSA to ask these questions? I've been trying for THREE WEEKS and keep getting disconnected or told the wait time is over 2 hours!!! So frustrating trying to plan for retirement when you can't even get basic questions answered!!!
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Nora Bennett
•I was having the same problem trying to reach SSA about my disability review. I found this service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me through to a real person at SSA in under 15 minutes. They have this video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. It was so much better than waiting on hold for hours or getting disconnected. The agent I talked to was able to answer all my questions about my divorced spouse benefits.
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Ryan Andre
To directly answer your questions: 1. Ex-spouse benefits: You need to APPLY for these - SSA doesn't automatically check. But you'll only get the higher of either your own SSDI or 50% of your ex's benefit (not both). 2. At FRA (67): Your SSDI converts automatically to retirement benefits with the same amount. No paperwork needed. 3. LTD benefits: Most policies terminate at 65, but some continue until your Social Security Full Retirement Age (67 for you). Check your specific policy or contact your LTD carrier immediately as you're approaching this age. One important detail: The fact that your ex remarried doesn't affect your ability to claim on his record, but YOUR remarriage would make you ineligible.
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Evan Kalinowski
•This is SO helpful, thank you! I'll check my LTD policy tomorrow. Do you know if I can apply for the ex-spouse benefits online or do I need to battle the phone system?
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Lauren Zeb
be careful about LTD!! mine stopped at 65 and there was a clause that they reduced payments by what i got from SSDI the whole time! check your policy carefully.
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Evan Kalinowski
•Oh, they're already offsetting my SSDI payment from my LTD check. I'm just worried about losing the LTD part entirely at 65, which is coming up in a few months.
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Ryan Andre
You can apply for divorced spouse benefits online through your my Social Security account or by calling SSA. I recommend online - it's much easier. You'll need your marriage certificate, divorce decree, and your ex's Social Security number (if you know it). If you don't have his SSN, SSA can usually find it with his name and date of birth. If applying online seems overwhelming, you can schedule an appointment at your local SSA office. They're usually booked several weeks out, but the in-person help can be worth it for complex situations.
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Evan Kalinowski
•I'll try the online application first. I do have all those documents and I know his SSN. I've been putting this off because it seemed complicated, but your explanation makes it clearer. Thanks again!
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Daniel Washington
THE SSA OFFICE MAKES EVERYTHING SO CONFUSING!!! I spent MONTHS trying to figure out my ex-spouse benefits. Then I found out I wasn't getting anything extra because my own benefit was higher anyway! WASTE OF TIME!!! And nobody can ever get through on the phone!!!! This whole system is BROKEN!!!
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Jasmine Quinn
•ya the phone system is useless. i went in person and waited 3 hrs but at least got answers
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Victoria Charity
One more clarification about the SSDI to retirement conversion at 67 - while your payment amount stays the same, there's a significant benefit: once you're on retirement benefits instead of SSDI, you'll no longer be subject to medical reviews, and you can earn unlimited income without affecting your benefits (unlike SSDI which has strict work limitations). Regarding your LTD question - many policies do terminate at 65, but the exact terms depend on your specific policy. Some continue until your Social Security Full Retirement Age (67), while others have different age-based schedules. I'd recommend reviewing your policy documents or contacting your LTD provider directly.
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Evan Kalinowski
•That's a great point about no more medical reviews! Those always make me nervous even though my condition is permanent. I didn't realize I could work without limits after conversion either - that's really good to know.
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Lauren Zeb
dont forget that medicare starts at 65 even if your on SSDI already. you need to sign up for part B when you get close to 65 or youll get penalties!
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Aurora Lacasse
•Actually if she's been on SSDI for 2+ years she already has Medicare. I got mine 24 months after my SSDI started even though I was only 52 at the time.
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