Confused about my sister's SSDI/SSI amounts after dad passed - getting different amounts from SSA reps vs mySSA account
My sister (27) has autism and has been receiving SSI her whole adult life. Our father passed away 3 months ago, and now she's supposed to get both SSDI and SSI. She just received her first SSDI payment this month which was $425, but I'm getting really confused about the total amounts she should be receiving. One SSA rep told me she'd get around $825 for SSDI and $210 for SSI, but another rep gave completely different numbers ($425 SSDI and $560 SSI). When I check her mySSA account, it shows $1235 total for February, which doesn't match either rep's explanation! Does anyone know how long it takes for the mySSA account to update with accurate benefit amounts? I'm trying to help her budget and this inconsistency is driving me crazy. Is there a way to get a clear, official breakdown of what she'll actually be receiving each month going forward?
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DeShawn Washington
This is actually very common in situations involving concurrent benefits (getting both SSDI and SSI). When a beneficiary who was previously on SSI only begins receiving SSDI, especially after a parent's death, there's almost always a period of adjustment where the amounts will fluctuate until everything is properly calculated. The mySSA portal doesn't always show the breakdown between the two benefits, just the expected total. The confusion you experienced with the reps is unfortunately typical - they might be looking at different screens or calculation stages in the system. It can take 2-3 months for everything to stabilize with the correct amounts. In your sister's case, her SSDI amount is based on your father's earnings record (what we call Disabled Adult Child or DAC benefits), while her SSI will be reduced based on that SSDI income.
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Lena Kowalski
•Thanks for the explanation. So is there any way to know for sure what the final amounts will be? And once they get it figured out, will she get back payments for any amounts they underpaid during this adjustment period?
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Mei-Ling Chen
I went through this exact same thing with my son last year when my wife passed. The numbers kept changing every time I called! What finally worked was getting an appointment with a claims specialist who could actually show me the calculations on paper. The SSI amount will be reduced by the SSDI income (minus the $20 general income exclusion). So if her SSDI is $425, and the max SSI for 2025 is $943, her SSI would be approximately $943 - ($425-$20) = $538. That would make her total $963. But there could be other factors affecting this calculation that I don't know about in your specific case.
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Lena Kowalski
•That actually makes sense with the higher numbers I was told! I'm going to request an appointment with a claims specialist like you did. Do you remember how long you had to wait to get that appointment?
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Sofía Rodríguez
the account online usually takes 3-4 weeks to update correct amounts. they have to manually adjust SSI when SSDI starts and its always a mess. my brother got 3 different amounts quoted before it settled. just wait another few weeks it'll fix itself
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Aiden O'Connor
•not always true. my daughters account took almost 3 MONTHS to update after her dad died and she got survivor benefits. they kept telling us 'next month it will update' but it didnt!
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Zoe Papadopoulos
I had SAME PROBLEM!! Everyone tells you diffrent numbers and online says something else and then check comes and its ANOTHER amount!! Makes me SO MAD!!! How are we supposed to budget???
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Jamal Brown
•After dealing with this frustration trying to help my brother, I found a service called Claimyr that got me through to an actual SSA claims specialist in under 10 minutes instead of waiting on hold for hours. They helped me get a detailed benefits calculation letter mailed out. The website is claimyr.com and they have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU - definitely worth it when you're trying to get clear answers about benefit calculations and not just general info.
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DeShawn Washington
One important thing to understand is that whenever there's a change in benefits, Social Security has two separate computer systems that need to talk to each other - one for SSDI and one for SSI. Sometimes they don't sync up right away, which is why you get different answers from different representatives. Make sure to request a BPQY (Benefits Planning Query) which is an official document that will show both benefits together. You can request this through your local office.
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Lena Kowalski
•I've never heard of a BPQY before! Is this something I can request online or do I need to call/visit an office? This sounds exactly like what we need.
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Fatima Al-Rashid
When my brother started getting DAC benefits after our mom died, we went through 4 months of wrong payments and adjustments. It was a NIGHTMARE. The online account showed one thing, the letters said another, and the actual deposits were completely different! I learned that with concurrent benefits, you absolutely CANNOT trust the online account until everything is finalized. The $1235 total sounds about right though - in 2025 numbers that would be typical for someone receiving both.
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Aiden O'Connor
•Did your brother get backpay for the months they calculated wrong? My daughter had 3 months of too low payments and they never fixed it automatically we had to keep calling.
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Zoe Papadopoulos
Thats so confusing!!! Why cant they just tell us the right numbers from the start????? I always hate calling them they NEVER HELP!!
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Mei-Ling Chen
•It's frustrating, but there's actually a reason for this. When someone transitions from SSI-only to concurrent benefits, the system has to calculate the SSDI first, then determine how that impacts the SSI amount, and there are often retroactive adjustments happening simultaneously. It's one of the most complex calculations in the entire Social Security system. If you can get an in-person appointment at your local field office, they can usually provide clearer explanations than phone representatives.
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Jamal Brown
I recommend you get something in writing. Call and specifically request a 'benefits verification letter' that shows the breakdown of SSDI and SSI. This is more reliable than what representatives tell you over the phone. Given what you described, it sounds like your sister will receive around $425 in SSDI as a Disabled Adult Child benefit on your father's record, and then a reduced SSI payment to bring her up to the maximum allowed total. The mySSA account will eventually catch up, but official letters are your best bet for accurate information.
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Lena Kowalski
•Thank you! I'll definitely request that benefits verification letter. This whole process has been so much more complicated than I expected. Really appreciate everyone's help and knowing we're not alone in this confusion.
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