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Can my 30-year-old brother with cognitive disabilities qualify for SSDI even if not disabled before 18?

My brother is 30 years old and has significant cognitive challenges. He's never been able to hold down a full-time job and currently works less than 15 hours per week at a grocery store. He can't live independently and has always needed supervision and support. Our parents were caring for him, but they've both passed away within the last year, and I'm trying to figure out his options. He wasn't officially deemed disabled before age 18 - our parents just accommodated his needs without seeking a formal diagnosis. Now I'm wondering if he could qualify for SSDI at this point? He has some work history but very limited earnings. I'm especially confused because I know there's special rules if you're disabled before 22, but does that require documentation from childhood, or can they evaluate him now? I'm his only remaining family and I'm struggling to support both of us. Any advice on navigating this situation would be really appreciated.

This is a tough situation but there IS help available. Your brother might qualify for SSDI based on his own work record, even if limited, OR possibly as a Disabled Adult Child (DAC) on your deceased parents' Social Security records since they've both passed away. The key is that his disability must have started before age 22, not 18 as you mentioned. He doesn't need documentation from childhood necessarily - SSA can evaluate him now, but will need evidence that the condition existed before 22.

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Thank you! That's really helpful to know about the before-22 rule rather than 18. Do you have any idea how they determine if his condition existed before 22 without childhood medical records? His situation hasn't really changed - he's always had these challenges.

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call ur local Social Security office and make an appointment ASAP!!! my nephew was in almost the same situation and we waited too long which complicated things. if he qualifies as a Disabled Adult Child on his parents record the benefits are usually higher than SSI. good luck!!!

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Thank you for the advice! I've been trying to call the SSA for days but keep getting disconnected or told the wait time is 2+ hours. It's so frustrating when I'm trying to work and care for my brother at the same time.

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They probably want him to apply for SSI not SSDI. SSI is for disabled people without enough work credits while SSDI requires you worked enough and paid into the system. At his age and limited work, SSDI on his own record is unlikely. But definitely look into the Disabled Adult Child benefits if both parents worked and received SS themselves.

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Actually, in this case, Disabled Adult Child benefits (sometimes called Childhood Disability Benefits) would be classified as SSDI, not SSI, because they'd be based on the deceased parents' Social Security records. You're right that he probably doesn't have enough work credits for SSDI on his own record, but DAC benefits are a special type of SSDI that don't require the disabled person to have the work credits themselves.

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I helped my sister apply for Social Security as a Disabled Adult Child after our mom died. The process was frustrating but absolutely worth it. Here's what you need to know: 1. Your brother needs to prove his disability began before age 22 2. You'll need medical evidence of his condition (current doctors can help document the longstanding nature of his condition) 3. You'll need to file on the record of at least one deceased parent 4. School records, employment history, and statements from people who've known him since childhood can all help establish the timeline The most important thing: be VERY clear about his limitations. Don't downplay anything. Describe his worst days, not his best ones. SSA needs to understand exactly how his cognitive challenges affect his ability to work and live independently.

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This is incredibly helpful, thank you so much. I do have some of his old school records that show he was in special education classes. Would that help? Also, would statements from relatives who've known him his whole life be accepted as evidence?

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Yes! Special education records are EXTREMELY valuable evidence. Definitely submit those. And statements from relatives, former teachers, employers, or anyone who's known him long-term can help establish the history of his condition. These are called "lay witness statements" and they can be very important, especially when medical documentation from childhood might be lacking.

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That's such a relief to hear. I was worried we wouldn't have enough evidence since our parents never got him formally diagnosed. I'm going to start collecting those statements right away.

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If hes working at all that might disqualify him for disability!!!! SSA has strict rules about substantial gainful activity (SGA) which I think is around $1,550/month in 2025. If he makes under that he might still qualify but they look at your ability to work not just income sometimes. Its VERY complicated and the rules change all the time!!!

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You're partially right about SGA limits, but since he's only working 15 hours a week at what's likely a minimum wage job, he's almost certainly well under the SGA limit of $1,550/month. The SSA will look at his ability to perform substantial work, and his limited work history and inability to live independently will actually help demonstrate his disability.

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what about SSI? thats for disabled people too and he might qualify even without the work history especially if he has limited resources now

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That's absolutely right - he should apply for both SSI and SSDI (as a Disabled Adult Child on his parents' record). SSI has strict asset limits ($2,000 for an individual in 2025), but it comes with automatic Medicaid in most states. The DAC benefits under SSDI might be higher depending on his parents' earnings record, and after 24 months on SSDI, he'd qualify for Medicare. Many people receive benefits from both programs if the SSDI amount is low.

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Thank you all so much for your helpful advice. I'm going to gather his school records, get statements from family members and his current doctors, and try to get through to SSA to start the application process. I'm feeling much more hopeful knowing that the Disabled Adult Child benefits might be an option, even without childhood medical records. I'll update once we make some progress with the application.

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