Can I get Social Security survivor benefits at 47 when husband died at 48? Also questions about benefits for college student with Crohn's
I'm absolutely devastated and completely lost after my husband passed away three weeks ago. He was only 48 and I'm 47, we were married for 23 years. I'm trying to figure out our financial situation and wondering if I can collect survivor benefits from his Social Security even though we're both under retirement age? He worked consistently his whole life and had a good earnings record. Also concerned about my daughter who just turned 18 and is in her first year of college. She has Crohn's disease (not severe enough for disability, but still really limits her) and she can't handle working while taking classes. She lives on campus, not at home. With me suddenly down to one income, I'm wondering if she might qualify for any kind of Social Security benefits as a dependent of my deceased husband? Would the fact that she's in college full-time and has a medical condition help her case? I've tried calling the local SSA office three times but keep getting disconnected. Any guidance would be so appreciated - I'm completely overwhelmed right now.
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Charlotte Jones
I'm so sorry for your loss. Yes, you CAN receive survivor benefits at your age. They're called "widow's benefits" and are available as early as age 60 (or 50 if disabled), BUT there's an exception for widows caring for children under 16 or disabled children. Since your daughter is 18 and in college, that exception probably doesn't apply. However, your DAUGHTER can likely receive survivor benefits until she graduates or turns 19, whichever comes first. The college student benefit extension used to go to age 22, but they changed that rule years ago. Her Crohn's might qualify her for benefits as a disabled adult child if it's documented as beginning before age 22. My advice: GO IN PERSON to your local SSA office with both your IDs, his death certificate, and your marriage certificate. The website appointment system is broken half the time, but if you show up first thing in the morning, they'll usually see you.
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Logan Greenburg
•Thank you so much for this information. I didn't realize my daughter might qualify until she's 19! That would help us tremendously for the next year at least. Do you know if her benefits would be reduced because she's not living at home? Also, is there any way I could qualify for survivors benefits before 60 even though she's over 16? My husband's death was so unexpected and I'm worried about making ends meet.
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Lucas Bey
Sorry about ur husband. Dose ur daughter get any finacial aid for college? When my brother died his son got survivors benifits during college BUT that was like 15 years ago so rules probly changed. Mite be worth chekcing if her Crowns is bad enough for disability too. SS has this thing called compassionate allowance for really bad condishions.
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Logan Greenburg
•She does get some financial aid, but it doesn't cover everything, especially with her medical needs. I hadn't thought about checking if her Crohn's might qualify for disability directly - her main doctor didn't think it was severe enough when we asked last year, but maybe we should try again. Some days she can barely get out of bed, but other times she's okay.
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Harper Thompson
I hate to contradict some of what's been said, but there are some important corrections needed here. 1. You CANNOT receive widow's benefits before age 60 unless you're disabled OR caring for a child under 16 (or disabled). Based on what you shared, you don't qualify for early survivor benefits yet. 2. Your daughter's benefits will almost certainly end at age 19 if she's still in college. The old rule allowing benefits until 22 for students was eliminated in 1981. 3. HOWEVER - and this is crucial - if your daughter's Crohn's disease is severe enough to meet SSA's definition of disability, AND it began before age 22, she could qualify for Disabled Adult Child benefits on your husband's record indefinitely. You should apply for survivor benefits for your daughter immediately. The fact that she doesn't live at home doesn't matter for eligibility. For yourself, unfortunately, you'll likely need to wait until age 60 unless you become disabled yourself. I strongly recommend getting an appointment at your local SSA office to discuss all options.
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Logan Greenburg
•Thank you for these clarifications. It's disappointing that I won't qualify for benefits yet, but good to know I'm not missing something. I'll definitely focus on getting the application in for my daughter right away. Her Crohn's was diagnosed when she was 14, so that part meets the criteria, but I'm not sure if it's "severe enough" by SSA standards. We'll gather her medical records and try.
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Caleb Stark
When my husband died i was only 42!!! So i TOTALLY understand what your going through. The only way you can get benifits before 60 is if you have a child under 16 at home OR if your disabled yourself. Its so unfair how they dont care about younger widows! PRO TIP: Apply for everything right away because they will backpay from application date. Also make sure you file for the $255 death benefit - its not much but its something!!!
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Logan Greenburg
•I'm so sorry you went through this too. It is frustrating that there's this gap for younger widows. I'll definitely apply right away for my daughter at least and make sure to ask about that death benefit. Every little bit helps right now.
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Jade O'Malley
I work at a college financial aid office, and want to point out that your daughter should contact her school's financial aid office IMMEDIATELY and request a professional judgment review based on your change in circumstances. They can adjust her FAFSA to reflect the loss of your husband's income, which could significantly increase her aid package mid-year. This won't help with Social Security directly but could provide additional support while you're sorting that out. Most schools have emergency funds for situations exactly like this.
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Logan Greenburg
•Thank you so much for this suggestion! I hadn't even thought about updating her FAFSA. I'll have her contact the financial aid office tomorrow. This could be a huge help while we figure out the Social Security situation.
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Hunter Edmunds
I've been trying to reach SSA for WEEKS about my own widow benefits question and kept getting disconnected or waiting for hours. Finally used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected to an actual human at SSA in about 15 minutes. They have a video showing how it works here: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU Saved me so much frustration and I was able to get a face-to-face appointment scheduled. Might help since you mentioned getting disconnected multiple times. In my experience, these survivor benefit questions really need to be handled with an actual representative who can look at your specific situation.
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Logan Greenburg
•This is incredibly helpful - thank you! I'll check out that service. The constant disconnections have been so frustrating, especially during an already difficult time. I think you're right that I need to talk to someone who can look at our specific situation, especially regarding my daughter's case.
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Ella Lewis
Two important points that haven't been mentioned yet: 1. Your daughter may qualify for benefits under the Student Earned Income Exclusion if she attempts to work part-time despite her Crohn's. This allows students under age 22 to earn a certain amount without reducing their SSI benefits. 2. Regarding your situation, while you can't receive survivor benefits until age 60 (unless you become disabled), you SHOULD file for the one-time $255 death payment as mentioned earlier. Also, this is a good time to check if you might qualify for any other programs like TANF or state assistance while you're in this gap period before survivor benefits eligibility. Furthermore, if your husband had enough work credits, you'll want to ensure his earnings record is complete and accurate, as this will affect both your future survivor benefits and potentially your daughter's benefits if she qualifies as a disabled adult child. Don't forget to ask about Medicare eligibility for your daughter if she qualifies for disabled adult child benefits. This could significantly help with her Crohn's-related medical expenses.
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Caleb Stark
•This is so true about checking his work credits!!! My husband was self-employed for a few years and they MISSED some of his earnings when calculating my benifits. I had to show them his tax returns from those years and they adjusted it. Made a difference of $212 a month for me!
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Charlotte Jones
Just to add something important - you should BOTH apply for benefits right away even if you're uncertain about eligibility. Here's why: 1. If denied, you preserve your filing date for appeals 2. Sometimes the rules have exceptions you might not know about 3. The SSA representative might identify other programs you qualify for And regarding your daughter's Crohn's - medical documentation is CRUCIAL. Get detailed statements from ALL her doctors about how it limits her ability to function and work. For Disabled Adult Child benefits, they need to see that her condition prevents substantial gainful activity.
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Logan Greenburg
•This makes a lot of sense - thank you. I'll go ahead and apply for myself too, even though it sounds like I might not qualify yet. And I'll start gathering all her medical documentation. Her gastroenterologist has been treating her for years and can definitely document how it affects her daily functioning.
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