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Kristin Frank

Can I claim survivor benefits from first husband who died on SSDI in the 1980s after already receiving from second husband?

I have a complicated Social Security situation and need advice. My friend (ok, it's actually me, but I was embarrassed) was married to her first husband for 12+ years before he passed away in 1980 when he was only 31. He was receiving disability benefits from a work injury when he died. At that time, she received survivor benefits for herself and their children. Years later, she remarried and her second husband has also passed away. She's now medically retired (started at 62, which she was told counts as her FRA due to her medical situation). She doesn't get survivor benefits from her second husband because their incomes were similar. Here's my question: When she called SSA about possibly getting benefits from her first husband now, the agent dismissed her within minutes saying she wouldn't qualify. But I'm wondering if the agent was looking at her first husband's earnings from 1980 without adjusting for all the COLA increases over 40+ years? Would those increases potentially make her eligible for higher benefits from her first husband now? The agent seemed to make the decision so quickly that I don't think they could have done proper calculations. Should she try again?

Micah Trail

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This is confusing. If she already got survivor benefits from the 1st husband with the kids, why would she think she qualifies for more? Once you take SS retirement on your own record you can't usually switch between different deceased spouses benefits. The agent was proly right.

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Kristin Frank

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Thanks for responding! I think she's confused because she only received those benefits temporarily while raising their children. She's wondering if now that she's retirement age, if she could qualify for survivor benefits based on his work record (with all the COLAs applied over 40+ years). The quick dismissal from the agent made her wonder if they even checked properly.

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Nia Watson

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Your friend has a legitimate question about survivor benefits. The SSA representative should have taken more time to properly evaluate her situation. Here's what's important to understand: 1. COLA adjustments DO apply to deceased workers' earnings records. The Primary Insurance Amount (PIA) of her first husband would have been subject to COLAs since 1980. 2. If her first husband had enough work credits (generally 40 quarters/10 years), and if his benefit amount (with COLAs) would be higher than what she currently receives, she may be eligible. 3. The "similar income" with the second husband doesn't automatically disqualify her from receiving higher benefits from the first husband if those would be greater. 4. The medical retirement at age 62 is NOT actually her Full Retirement Age (FRA). Even with a medical retirement, her FRA would still be based on her birth year (likely around age 66-67). I would recommend that she schedule an in-person appointment at her local SSA office with all documentation regarding both marriages and bring proof of both husbands' deaths. Ask specifically for a detailed benefits calculation comparing potential survivor benefits from both deceased spouses.

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Kristin Frank

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Thank you so much for this detailed explanation! I was confused about the FRA situation too - she was under the impression that her medical retirement somehow changed her FRA. I'll definitely pass along your suggestion about scheduling an in-person appointment and asking for detailed calculations comparing both deceased spouses' records. The first husband died so young (31) that I wonder if he even had enough quarters, but it's worth investigating properly.

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My cousin had almost the EXACT same situation!!! First hubby died young, got benefits for the kids, remarried, 2nd husband died too. SSA told her the SAME THING at first - that she couldn't get anything from 1st husband. But she kept pushing and found out they WERE NOT looking at the adjusted benefit amount!!! The 1st husband's benefit had grown A LOT over 30 years with all the COLAs!!! She ended up getting an extra $400/month!!!! Don't give up!!!!

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Kristin Frank

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Oh wow, that's incredible! That's exactly what I was wondering about. Did your cousin have to do anything special to get them to recalculate with the COLAs? Was there a specific form she had to request or did she just keep calling until she got someone helpful?

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She had to go IN PERSON!!! Phone people kept saying no. She brought her marriage certificate, death certificates, old benefit letters, everything!!! Asked specifically for a "survivor benefit comparison calculation" and wouldn't leave until they did it right!!! Sometimes you gotta be stubborn with SSA!!!

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I'm a bit concerned about the information your friend received regarding her FRA. Medical retirement at 62 doesn't change your Full Retirement Age for Social Security purposes. FRA is determined solely by your birth year, ranging from 65-67 depending on when you were born. What likely happened is she took early retirement benefits at 62 (possibly reduced for early filing) and may have also qualified for SSDI due to her medical condition. Regarding the first husband's record - yes, his earnings record would have been subject to all COLAs since 1980. However, there are a few considerations: 1. If he died at 31, he may not have accumulated enough work credits (40 quarters/10 years) to qualify for full benefits 2. There's a complex rule about switching between deceased spouses' benefits - you can generally receive benefits from whichever spouse's record provides the higher benefit 3. If she's been receiving benefits on her own record, there might be complications in switching to a survivor benefit now I'd strongly recommend scheduling an actual appointment rather than just calling. Phone representatives often don't have time to do detailed calculations during a call.

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Kristin Frank

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Thank you for the detailed explanation! I'll definitely tell her about the FRA misunderstanding. I think she might have conflated SSDI with changing her FRA. She's been on her own record, but it's a reduced benefit since she started at 62. The quarters issue is my biggest concern too - he died so young that I'm not sure if he'd have enough credits. But he was working from age 18 until his disability/death at 31, so that's potentially 13 years of work. Worth investigating properly!

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Marcus Marsh

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I've dealt with this exact situation while helping clients navigate SSA benefits. Here's what your friend needs to know: 1. The agent she spoke with likely didn't perform a proper benefits calculation. Many phone representatives simply don't have the time or sometimes the training to handle complex cases like this. 2. Yes, her first husband's benefit would have been subject to ALL COLA increases since 1980 - that's over 40 years of increases, which is significant. 3. The key factors that will determine eligibility are: - Did her first husband have enough work credits (likely yes if he worked from 18-31) - Is she currently receiving benefits on her own record or as a survivor from the second husband? - Would the adjusted (with COLA) survivor benefit from the first husband be higher than her current benefit? 4. She needs to request a "Detailed Benefit Calculation" that specifically compares potential survivor benefits from both deceased spouses. 5. The 62 = FRA statement is incorrect. Medical retirement doesn't change your FRA. She likely took early retirement at a reduced rate. I've seen cases where someone was eligible for a significantly higher benefit from a long-deceased spouse, but it required persistence with SSA to get the proper calculation.

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Cedric Chung

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Ok so i think everyone is missing something important here. If she already got survivor benefits from 1st husband when he died, then REMARRIED, she usually LOSES eligibility for 1st husband's benefits permanently!!! The only exception is if she remarried after age 60. If she remarried before 60, then even though 2nd husband is now deceased, she can't go back to 1st husband's record! SSA rule!!!!

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This is an excellent point that needed to be raised. The remarriage timing is critical here. To clarify the rule: If she remarried before age 60, she generally cannot receive survivor benefits from her first husband. However, if the second marriage ended (by death or divorce) before she applied for benefits, then she may still be eligible for survivor benefits from the first husband. Since her second husband has also passed away, and she's now applying at retirement age, she may still be eligible for survivor benefits from either husband - whichever provides the higher benefit amount. This is precisely why a detailed benefits calculation comparing both deceased spouses' records is necessary. This is too nuanced a situation for a quick phone call to resolve.

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Kristin Frank

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That's an important detail I didn't know about! She did remarry before 60, but her second husband has also passed away. Based on what the other commenter said, it sounds like she might still be eligible since her second marriage ended before she applied for retirement benefits? This is getting complicated - definitely seems like she needs an in-person appointment to sort through all of these details.

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Talia Klein

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Wait im confused. So she already got benefits from 1st husband when they had kids? And then benefits stopped? And now shes on her own SS at 62? But thinks she should get 1st husbands benefits again? Personally I think the SSA person was right, once your on your own benefits you cant usually switch. But maybe I'm wrong, the rules are so confusing sometimes!!!

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Marcus Marsh

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Let me clarify this situation: When the first husband died, she likely received "mother's benefits" (also called mother's insurance benefits) while caring for their young children. These benefits stop when the children reach age 16. This is different from survivor's benefits for widows/widowers, which become available at age 60 (or 50 if disabled). She CAN potentially switch from her own retirement benefit to a higher survivor benefit. This is one of the few switches still allowed after the 2015 law changes. Many people mistakenly believe you can't switch, but for survivor benefits specifically, you can. For example, she could take her own reduced retirement at 62, then switch to a full survivor benefit at her FRA if that would be higher. Or vice versa. The complexity here involves two deceased spouses and determining which survivor benefit would be higher after COLA adjustments over decades.

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Talia Klein

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Oh I get it now!! I didn't know about the mother's benefits vs widow benefits difference. Learning something new everyday on these forums lol. Thanks for explaining it so clearly!

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Micah Trail

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My brain hurts trying to understand all this lol. But I do know that the SSA workers are SUPER OVERWORKED so sometimes they don't have time to look into complicated cases. I would definitely try again and maybe go in person like others have said. Phone calls are useless for complicated stuff!!

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Kristin Frank

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My brain hurts too trying to understand all these rules! But everyone's advice has been so helpful. I'm going to suggest she make an in-person appointment and bring all documentation for both marriages. Seems like the phone system just isn't equipped to handle complicated cases like this.

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Nia Watson

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One more important point that hasn't been addressed: Your friend mentioned her first husband was on disability when he died. This means his SSDI benefit amount would have already been calculated before his death, making it easier to determine what the survivor benefit would be with COLAs applied. She should request what's called a "Survivor Benefit Estimate" from both deceased spouses and compare them to her current benefit. If either would be higher, she can switch. The fact that the SSA representative dismissed her quickly suggests they either: 1. Didn't understand the full complexity of her case 2. Didn't check both deceased spouses' records with COLAs applied 3. Saw something specific that would disqualify her, but didn't explain it properly Definitely worth following up with a scheduled appointment. Make sure to bring: - Marriage certificates for both marriages - Death certificates for both husbands - Any old benefit award letters she might have kept - Her own Social Security statement showing current benefits Persistence often pays off with these complex cases.

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Kristin Frank

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Thank you for this additional information! I hadn't considered that his SSDI benefit would have already been calculated, which should make tracing it easier. I'll tell her to specifically ask for the "Survivor Benefit Estimate" from both deceased spouses - that's exactly the term I needed. And I'll pass along your list of documents to bring. Really appreciate all this helpful advice!

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