Can I claim ex-spouse's Social Security at 62 then switch to my own benefit at 70?
I've been divorced for 5 years after a 30-year marriage. My ex-husband made significantly more money than me throughout our careers. I'm trying to maximize my retirement income and heard about a possible strategy. Can I file for my ex-spouse's Social Security benefit (50% of his) when I turn 62 next year, and then switch to my own benefit at age 70 when it'll be larger due to delayed retirement credits? I know there are rules about this but everything I read online is so confusing! The SSA website doesn't clearly explain if this is still possible after those rule changes several years ago. I've tried calling the SSA twice but couldn't get through. I don't want to mess this up since it affects my finances for the rest of my life.
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Liam Brown
I'm sorry to tell you that strategy no longer works. The rule allowing you to take spousal benefits first and then switch to your own higher benefit later (called 'restricted application') was eliminated by the Bipartisan Budget Act of 2015 for anyone born after January 1, 1954. When you file now, you are deemed to be filing for ALL benefits you're eligible for, and you'll receive whichever is higher - your own or the spousal benefit. This is called 'deemed filing'. You have these options: 1. Take your own reduced benefit at 62 2. Take the ex-spousal benefit at 62 (if higher than your own) 3. Wait until your FRA or later to get higher benefits But you can't switch between them anymore. The only exception is if you were born before January 2, 1954.
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Emma Johnson
•Oh no! That's disappointing. I was born in 1963 so I guess I'm out of luck. So to clarify, when I apply, they'll just automatically give me whichever is higher - my own benefit or 50% of my ex's? And if I wait until 70, would I get the higher of my max benefit or 50% of his benefit?
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Olivia Garcia
NOOOOPE cannot do that anymore!! They closed that loophole with the 2015 budget act. I tried to do the EXACT same thing and got denied. The SSA agent told me that strategy (called "restricted application") is ONLY available to people born on or before January 1, 1954. Everyone else gets caught by "deemed filing" which means when you file for ANY benefit, you're automatically filing for ALL benefits you qualify for. They just give you the higher amount and that's IT. So frustrating!!!! The govt keeps changing the rules on us!!
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Noah Lee
•It's always the same story with the government - if something benefits regular people, they call it a "loophole" and shut it down. Meanwhile the rich find new ways to avoid taxes every year!
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Ava Hernandez
The previous responses are correct about the restricted application strategy no longer being available to most people. Since you said you turn 62 next year, you were born after the 1954 cutoff. However, it's still important to understand your options. When you apply for benefits based on your ex-spouse's record: 1. You must have been married for at least 10 years (you qualify with 30) 2. You must be currently unmarried 3. Your ex-spouse must be at least 62 (even if they haven't filed yet) If you file at your Full Retirement Age (probably 67 for you), you'd get 50% of your ex's Primary Insurance Amount. If you file at 62, that amount would be reduced to about 32.5% due to early filing. If your own benefit at 70 would be higher than the spousal benefit, it might still make sense to wait. Have you created a my Social Security account online to see your estimated benefit amounts?
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Emma Johnson
•Yes, I have the MySocialSecurity account. My estimated benefit at FRA (67) is about $2,100, and my ex's is around $3,400 at his FRA. So 50% of his would be $1,700, which is less than my benefit at FRA. But if I wait until 70, mine grows to about $2,600 with delayed credits. So it sounds like I should just wait and take my own at 70 for maximum benefit?
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Isabella Martin
i went thru somthing simlar last yr. my ex made wayyy more $ than me (he was a dr, im a teacher lol). got divorced in 2021 after 22 yrs. the person at SSA told me i can only get one benefit - either my own or my ex's, whichever is HIGHER. no switching allowed anymore! so annoying cause my sister did the old strategy and it worked great for her.
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Elijah Jackson
•Exactly the same for me! My brother-in-law did the switch strategy back in 2014 and saved like $40k over time. I tried to do it in 2022 and they said nope, those days are gone. The rules always seem to get worse, never better.
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Sophia Miller
Something important no one's mentioned - if you continue working while collecting benefits before your Full Retirement Age, you'll be subject to the earnings test. For 2025, if you earn more than $22,750, they'll withhold $1 in benefits for every $2 you earn above that limit. After FRA, there's no earnings limit. That's another reason many people choose to wait until at least their FRA to file. Based on your numbers, if your FRA benefit is $2,100 and your ex's is $3,400, then your ex-spousal benefit would be $1,700 (50% of $3,400). Since your own benefit is higher, you'd get your own benefit regardless. If you waited until 70, you'd get approximately 24% more than your FRA amount due to delayed retirement credits. The spousal benefit DOES NOT earn delayed retirement credits, so it would still be $1,700 at age 70. Given these numbers, waiting until 70 to take your own benefit is likely your best option, especially if you're still working.
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Emma Johnson
•Thank you! That's extremely helpful. I'm still working and plan to until at least 65, so the earnings test would definitely affect me if I claimed early. Waiting until 70 for my own benefit sounds like the smartest move for my situation.
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Mason Davis
Have you tried calling SSA directly to ask? They can tell you exactley what YOUR benifits would be, not general rules. I know calling them is a NIGHTMARE though - I tried for 3 weeks straight and couldn't get through!!! So frustrating!!!
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Sophia Miller
•I've had success using a service called Claimyr to get through to SSA. It basically holds your place in line and calls you when an agent is available. Saved me hours of waiting and frustration. Their website is claimyr.com and they have a video demo at https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU that shows how it works. Definitely worth it for important benefit questions like this.
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Noah Lee
I went through exactly this situation. Thought I was being smart by planning the restricted application strategy, then found out it was eliminated. Such a disappointment! Make sure you do the math carefully though - don't just assume waiting till 70 is best. If you need the money sooner or have health concerns, taking it earlier might make sense. Not everyone lives long enough to break even on the delayed benefits.
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Ava Hernandez
•That's a very good point about the break-even analysis. For someone with an FRA benefit of $2,100 waiting until 70 (getting approximately $2,600), the break-even age is usually around 82-83. So if you expect to live beyond that age, waiting provides more lifetime benefits. Health and family longevity should definitely factor into this decision.
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Liam Brown
Based on the numbers you've shared, here's a summary of your options: 1. If you claim at 62: You would receive your own reduced benefit (approximately $1,470, which is 70% of your FRA amount) 2. If you claim at FRA (67): You would receive your own benefit of $2,100 3. If you claim at 70: You would receive your own benefit with delayed credits (approximately $2,600) In all cases, you would receive your own benefit because it's higher than the ex-spousal benefit (which would be $1,700 at your FRA or about $1,190 if taken at 62). Given these numbers and the fact that you're still working, waiting until 70 to maximize your benefit is likely your best option, especially if you have average or better life expectancy.
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Emma Johnson
•Thank you everyone for the great information! This has been so helpful. I'm going to plan on waiting until 70 to file since my own benefit will be highest by then. I appreciate all the explanations about deemed filing and how the rules have changed. This community is amazing!
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