Can I claim ex-spouse Social Security benefits at 62 and switch to my own record later?
I've been divorced for about 5 years now after a 20-year marriage. Never remarried. I'm turning 62 next fall and trying to figure out my best Social Security strategy. My ex always made substantially more than me (I took several years off to raise our kids), so his benefit amount would be higher than mine. I was wondering if I could claim divorced spousal benefits when I turn 62, then later switch to my own retirement benefits once I reach 67 or 70? That way I'd get some income earlier but still let my own benefit grow? Someone at church mentioned this strategy but when I tried reading about it online I got confused about whether this is still allowed or if they changed the rules. Does anyone know if this "claim now, switch later" approach still works for divorced spouse benefits? And would there be any reduction if I start the spousal benefit at 62 rather than waiting?
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FireflyDreams
Unfortunately, that strategy is no longer available for most people. The rules changed with the Bipartisan Budget Act of 2015. Now when you file for any benefit, you're deemed to be filing for all benefits you're eligible for (called deemed filing), and you'll get whichever is higher. The only people who can still do the strategy you described are those born before January 2, 1954. Since you're turning 62 next fall, you were born after that cutoff date. Your options are: 1. Take reduced benefits (both your own and divorced spousal) as early as 62 2. Wait until your Full Retirement Age (probably 67) for full benefits 3. Wait until 70 for maximum benefits on your own record The divorced spousal benefit is capped at 50% of your ex's PIA (Primary Insurance Amount) at your Full Retirement Age, and would be reduced if taken before your FRA.
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Oliver Weber
•Oh that's disappointing! I was hoping that strategy would work. So there's absolutely no way to take the spousal benefit first and then switch? I'd hate to take a permanent reduction on my own benefit by claiming early, but I also don't want to leave money on the table if I could get something from his record while letting mine grow.
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Natasha Kuznetsova
My sister tried to do this exact thing and got caught in the deemed filing trap. She filed for divorced spouse benefit at 63 thinking she could switch later, but SSA automatically gave her the higher of the two (which happened to be her own). Now she's stuck with the early filing reduction forever. Just be super careful!
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Javier Morales
The previous poster is correct about the law change. I'd suggest you create a my Social Security account online at ssa.gov if you haven't already and check your own projected benefit amounts at different ages. Then you can make a more informed decision. One thing to know: if your own benefit would eventually be higher than the spousal benefit, it might make sense to just wait. The divorced spousal benefit is maxed at 50% of your ex's full benefit amount and doesn't increase after your Full Retirement Age, while your own benefit grows 8% per year until age 70 if you delay.
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Oliver Weber
•Thanks for the suggestion! I do have a mySocialSecurity account but haven't checked it in ages. I'll log in and look at those projections. I think at Full Retirement Age my own benefit might be around $2,250, but I'm not sure what 50% of my ex's would be. He was a corporate executive so probably substantial.
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Emma Anderson
sorry but u got ur info mixed up!!!!! u CAN still file for divorced spousal at 62 and then switch to ur own at 70!!!! my neighbor just did this last year, same situation as u!!!
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FireflyDreams
•Your neighbor must have been born before January 2, 1954, which makes them exempt from the deemed filing rules. For everyone born after that date (including the original poster), deemed filing applies at any age, meaning you can't take one benefit first and switch later.
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Malik Thompson
The whole Social Security claiming strategy world changed dramatically with that 2015 law. It eliminated several smart claiming strategies that used to be available. One thing to consider: Even though you can't do the "claim now, switch later" approach anymore, you're still entitled to either your own benefit or up to 50% of your ex's benefit (whichever is higher) as long as: - You were married at least 10 years (you were - 20 years) - You're currently unmarried (you are) - Your ex is at least 62 (you didn't mention his age) If your ex hasn't filed for his own benefits yet but is over 62, you can still claim on his record as long as you've been divorced for at least 2 years.
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Isabella Ferreira
Such a headache trying to figure all this out!!! I'm in almost the same situation (divorced after 18 yrs, turning 62 next month) and spent FOUR HOURS on hold with Social Security last week trying to get answers about this exact question!!! When I finally got through, the person barely seemed to understand what I was asking and gave me conflicting info. Then got disconnected before I could get clarity!!! 😡😡😡
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CosmicVoyager
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Isabella Ferreira
•OMG thank you!!! Going to check this out right now. I'm so fed up with the endless busy signals and disconnections.
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Javier Morales
One important thing that hasn't been mentioned yet - even though you can't do the "claim now, switch later" strategy, it's still important to compare the numbers carefully. The math can sometimes be surprising. For example, if your ex's PIA (Primary Insurance Amount) is $3,000, then your maximum spousal benefit would be $1,500 at your Full Retirement Age. If you claim at 62, it would be reduced to approximately $1,050. If your own benefit at FRA is $2,250 as you mentioned, and you claim at 62, it would be reduced to approximately $1,575. In this scenario, your own reduced benefit at 62 ($1,575) would still be higher than the reduced spousal benefit ($1,050), so you'd get your own. However, if you wait until 70, your own benefit would grow to around $2,790, which is significantly more than the spousal benefit could ever be. For most people in your situation, either claim everything early (if you need the money now) or wait until 70 for your own benefit (if you can afford to wait) makes the most sense.
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Oliver Weber
•This breakdown is incredibly helpful! I didn't realize they would compare the reduced amounts if claiming early. Based on your math, it seems waiting is probably my best option since my own benefit at 70 would be so much higher than anything I could get on my ex's record. I guess I need to figure out if I can financially manage waiting.
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Natasha Kuznetsova
has anyone here actually gotten divorced spouse benefits? do they notify your ex when you file for benefits on their record? I really dont want my ex knowing anything about my finances after what he put me through...
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Malik Thompson
•Your ex won't be notified when you file for divorced spouse benefits. SSA doesn't contact them or share any information about your claim. The only information SSA needs to verify is your marriage duration, which they can do through your marriage and divorce certificates. Your financial privacy is protected.
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Emma Anderson
wait im confused... if shes getting 50% of ex husbands benefit AND her own benefit isnt that double dipping???? that doesnt seem fair to people who stayed married
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FireflyDreams
•No, that's a common misconception. She would get EITHER her own benefit OR up to 50% of the ex-spouse's benefit (whichever is higher), not both combined. And married people have the same options - they can choose between their own benefit or a spousal benefit (up to 50% of their current spouse's).
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Oliver Weber
Thanks everyone for all the helpful information! So if I'm understanding correctly: 1. I can't do the "claim spousal first, then switch to my own later" strategy because I was born after 1954 2. When I file (at any age), I'll automatically be applying for both benefits and get the higher amount 3. If I claim at 62, both amounts would be permanently reduced 4. My best options are either claim everything early if I need the money, or wait until 70 if I can afford it I think I'm going to talk to a financial advisor who specializes in Social Security before making my final decision. This is too important to get wrong!
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Javier Morales
•That's an excellent summary and a wise decision to consult a specialist. One additional point: if your ex hasn't applied for benefits yet but is over 62, you'll need to have been divorced for at least 2 years to claim on his record (the 2-year requirement is waived if he's already receiving benefits). Good luck with your planning!
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