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Ezra Collins

Worked as a Nanny, wasn't given a W-2. What should I do now?

I've been working as a nanny for a family since last summer, and they paid me about $18,500 for the year. When tax season came around, I asked them about my W-2 form, but they said they weren't going to provide one. They told me to just use their social security number as the EIN when I file my taxes, and that they'd report my income on their end. So I went ahead and did that - manually input all my income information and used their SSN as the EIN like they instructed. But guess what? My tax return was rejected because of an "incorrect EIN." When I contacted them about it, they just said they listed my name and the amount they paid me somewhere on their taxes. I'm completely lost on what to do now. I've always received a W-2 from previous employers, and I don't want to get in trouble with the IRS. Are they supposed to give me an actual W-2? Should I file some other way? I'm worried about getting audited if I try to file again with the same information. Any advice would be really appreciated!

You're in what's called a "household employee" situation, and unfortunately many families don't understand their obligations as employers. As a nanny, you are legally considered their employee (not an independent contractor), and they are required to give you a W-2 if they paid you $2,400 or more during the year. Your employers should have registered for an EIN (not used their SSN), withheld taxes from your paychecks, and provided you with a proper W-2 by January 31st. What they're describing sounds like they might be treating you as a household employee on their Schedule H, but they're still required to give you a W-2. You have a few options now. First, I'd suggest talking to them again and explaining that they need to provide you with a proper W-2. If they don't know how, they can use online payroll services designed for household employers. If they refuse, you can file Form 4852 (Substitute for W-2) with your tax return, using your best estimates of what was paid.

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Ezra Collins

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Thank you for explaining this! I had no idea about the household employee classification. They paid me in cash every week and never withheld any taxes. Is that legal? And if I file this Form 4852, will I get in trouble for not paying taxes throughout the year?

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Being paid in cash is legal, but not withholding taxes is problematic. Your employers should have been withholding and paying employment taxes. You won't get in trouble personally for their failure to withhold - that's their responsibility as the employer. When you file Form 4852, you'll need to pay your portion of taxes (income tax + the employee half of Social Security/Medicare). The IRS may follow up with your employers about their failure to properly handle employment taxes, as they owe the employer portion plus the money they should have withheld from you.

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Zara Perez

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Does this actually work if you have no documentation though? My babysitter situation was all cash under the table and I don't have anything showing payment amounts. We just agreed on a weekly rate.

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Gavin King

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I'm a household employer (I have a nanny) and this thread is making me double-check that I'm doing everything right! For anyone employing household help: you MUST get an EIN from the IRS, report wages on Schedule H, and provide a W-2. There are services like HomePay or SurePayroll that handle all this for about $50/month. Not doing this properly is technically tax evasion and puts your employee in a terrible position. Plus, providing a legal W-2 means your employee gets proper Social Security credits for retirement, can verify income for apartments/loans, and can file their taxes correctly.

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Ezra Collins

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Thanks for sharing the employer perspective! I wish my employers understood this. Do you know if there's any simple explanation I could give them about why this matters? They seem to think listing my income somewhere on their tax return is enough.

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Gavin King

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The simplest explanation is: the IRS considers nannies to be household employees, not independent contractors. This means the law requires you to withhold Social Security and Medicare taxes and provide a W-2. Just "listing" their income isn't enough - you must use the proper forms. The consequences for them could include back taxes, penalties, and interest if the IRS discovers they've been paying a nanny improperly. For you, it means you're building Social Security credits properly for your future. Also, having proper W-2s creates a verified employment history, which is crucial for everything from apartment applications to mortgage approvals to future job references.

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Nathan Kim

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A friend of mine got audited because of this exact situation a few years ago! Her nanny filed taxes using a substitute W-2 form and it triggered an audit of both the nanny and my friend's family. They ended up having to pay back taxes plus a 15% penalty on all the employment taxes they should have been paying. It was a huge mess.

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Did the nanny get in trouble too? I'm worried about triggering an audit if I file this substitute W-2 form everyone's talking about.

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The nanny didn't get in trouble - the IRS recognized that she was trying to comply with tax law and her employers were the ones who failed to meet their obligations. When you file Form 4852, you're actually showing good faith effort to pay your taxes correctly despite your employer's mistakes. The audit was triggered because there was a mismatch between what the nanny reported and what the employers reported. But audits in these situations typically focus on the employers since they're the ones responsible for proper withholding and reporting. As long as you have documentation of your income (even rough records) and file honestly, you should be fine.

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Ally Tailer

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I went through something very similar last year! Your employers definitely should have provided a W-2 since they paid you over $2,400. The fact that your return was rejected using their SSN as an EIN is a red flag that they haven't properly set up to be household employers. Here's what I learned: even if they claim they "reported your income somewhere" on their taxes, that doesn't fulfill their legal obligation to provide you with proper tax documents. You need that W-2 not just for filing, but for your Social Security credits and employment verification down the road. I'd suggest giving them one more chance to get you a proper W-2 (they can still issue one late), but if they refuse, definitely go the Form 4852 route that others mentioned. Keep detailed records of all your conversations with them and any payment records you have. The IRS understands that employees sometimes get stuck in these situations through no fault of their own. Also, don't stress too much about an audit - you're trying to do the right thing here, and that's what matters to the IRS. It's your employers who are potentially in hot water for not handling their responsibilities correctly.

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Kara Yoshida

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This is really reassuring to hear from someone who went through the same thing! I've been so worried about doing something wrong, but it sounds like the IRS understands when employees are stuck in these situations. Did you end up having any issues when you filed the Form 4852? And how did your employers react when you explained their legal obligations to them?

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Luca Esposito

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I'm a tax preparer and see this household employee situation all the time unfortunately. Your employers are absolutely required to provide you with a W-2 since they paid you over $2,400. Using their SSN as an EIN was never going to work - they need to get a proper EIN from the IRS for household employment. Here's what I tell my clients in your situation: First, send your employers a written request (email is fine) explaining their legal obligation to provide a W-2 and give them 10 business days to respond. This creates a paper trail. If they don't comply, you can file Form 4852 (Substitute for Form W-2) with your tax return. When filling out Form 4852, be as accurate as possible with your income and estimated tax withholdings (which in your case would be zero since they didn't withhold anything). You'll owe both income tax and self-employment tax on the unreported income, but you won't face penalties since this isn't your fault. I always recommend keeping detailed records of all payments and communications. The IRS is generally understanding when employees are caught in these situations due to employer non-compliance. Your employers, on the other hand, could face significant penalties for failing to properly handle household employment taxes.

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