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Cassandra Moon

Tax considerations when setting up a joint bank account for mortgage payments with girlfriend?

Hey everyone, my girlfriend and I (planning to propose soon!) just purchased our first home together last month. We're trying to figure out the most sensible way to handle our monthly mortgage payments. Currently, we both contributed separately to the down payment with individual checks, and both our names are on the deed and home insurance policy. I was thinking about opening a joint bank account where we would each deposit our half of the mortgage payment every month. We could potentially set this up at the same bank that holds our mortgage, but I'm not sure if there's any real benefit to doing it there versus at my primary banking institution. Just for context, we've been completely aligned on our financial goals for several years now. We have similar approaches to saving, spending, and investing, so I'm not worried about the relationship aspect of sharing an account. My main question is: Are there any tax implications or considerations I should be aware of before setting up a joint bank account with my girlfriend? Thanks for any insights you can share!

Great question! From a tax perspective, a joint bank account with your girlfriend generally doesn't create any special tax situations by itself. The IRS doesn't really care whose name is on the account - they care about whose money it is. For mortgage interest deductions, if you're both on the mortgage and both making payments, you can each deduct your portion of the mortgage interest on your separate tax returns. If you itemize deductions, you'd each claim the percentage of the interest you actually paid. So if it's 50/50, you each deduct half. One thing to keep in mind: gift tax rules don't typically apply to jointly paying for a home you both own, as long as the contributions align with ownership percentage. But if one of you starts paying significantly more than your ownership share, that could potentially be considered a gift to the other person. Also, remember that interest from the joint account will need to be reported on someone's tax return. Usually, the bank reports this under the SSN of the primary account holder, but you're both responsible for reporting your share of the interest earned.

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What about property tax deductions? Can they also split those 50/50 if they're both paying into the joint account equally?

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Yes, property tax deductions work the same way as mortgage interest. If you're both contributing equally to the property taxes, you can each deduct 50% of the property taxes on your separate tax returns if you itemize deductions. Just remember that with the increased standard deduction after the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act, you'll need to have enough total itemized deductions (including mortgage interest, property taxes, charitable contributions, etc.) to exceed the standard deduction amount for itemizing to make sense. For 2025, that's projected to be around $13,850 for single filers and $27,700 for married filing jointly.

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KaiEsmeralda

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One thing nobody's mentioned - consider what happens if you break up. Joint accounts can get messy in a hurry with no legal marriage protections. Maybe consider a separate account that you both fund but has specific rules for what happens if things go south? Just my 2 cents after going through an ugly split with shared finances.

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That's a really good point I hadn't considered fully. Do you have any specific suggestions for how to structure such an account? Did you use any particular legal document to establish those "rules" you mentioned?

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KaiEsmeralda

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We didn't have anything formal in place which was exactly the problem. If I could do it over, I'd create a simple written agreement that both parties sign stating that the account is solely for household expenses, what happens to any remaining funds if the relationship ends, and how quickly the account would be closed. Some couples I know use a "household expenses" account where they each deposit only what's needed for shared bills rather than a true joint account. This keeps the majority of your finances separate while still having a clean way to handle shared expenses. For extra protection, talk to a lawyer about creating a simple cohabitation agreement that covers the financial aspects of your relationship.

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Debra Bai

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Quick question - do either of you get any tax benefits from paying the mortgage through your personal accounts instead of a joint account? Like cashback or rewards that might outweigh the convenience of the joint account?

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