Seeking clarity on IRS Identity Protection PIN for child and potential tax investigation - what to expect?
I called the IRS recently to understand why my daughter has a PIN assigned to her and what steps I need to take. The agent explained that they typically issue a PIN for a child when there's been a questionable claim, so now an investigation will open after we (her separated parents) submit paper tax returns. Even though I know I've done everything by the book and this seems to be just a verification of who her legitimate parents are... I have a strong suspicion this might trigger a larger investigation into her mother due to certain financial behaviors. Her mom has a master's degree in accounting and prepares her own taxes, which could make any issues look more deliberate than accidental. I've also heard through mutual friends about some income sources she might not be reporting properly. We haven't had any meaningful conversations about finances in several years, so I'm not sure how long this has been going on. What should I expect from this process? How might this affect my daughter? Does anyone have insight on typical timeframes for these investigations? Will this impact my small business or personal finances? Should I just continue operating normally until I hear something, or could this temporarily affect my credit score and background checks?
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Malik Robinson
This situation is actually pretty common with separated parents. The IRS Identity Protection PIN (IP PIN) is assigned to protect your daughter's identity from fraudulent tax claims. It doesn't automatically mean there's wrongdoing, though it does indicate the IRS detected something unusual they want to verify. When both parents try to claim the same child, the IRS has procedures to sort this out. You'll need to file your paper return with documentation showing your relationship and that your daughter lived with you for the required time period (generally more than half the year for the custodial parent). The investigation typically focuses only on the tax issue at hand - who correctly qualifies to claim the dependent. It won't automatically trigger some massive investigation into other aspects of either parent's finances unless there are obvious red flags. The IRS is mostly interested in resolving the dependent claim correctly. As for timeframe, these dependent disputes usually take 3-6 months to resolve, though it could be longer with current IRS backlogs. Your daughter won't be negatively affected beyond perhaps a delayed refund. For you personally, this shouldn't impact your credit score or business operations - just continue functioning normally while the IRS sorts things out.
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Isabella Silva
•Thanks for explaining this! Does the IP PIN stay forever once it's assigned? And if the other parent did have other sketchy tax stuff going on, would that get connected to this investigation or do they just look at the dependent issue?
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Malik Robinson
•The IP PIN is typically issued annually, so it's not necessarily permanent. If the IRS determines there's no longer a risk, they may discontinue it, but often they continue issuing a new PIN each year as a precaution. Your daughter can also continue using an IP PIN voluntarily for extra security even after the initial issue is resolved. For the scope of the investigation, the IRS typically starts by focusing only on the dependent claim issue. However, if during that review they notice significant discrepancies or red flags in either parent's return, they can expand their examination. Think of it like going to the doctor for a specific problem, but if they notice other concerning symptoms, they might investigate those too. That said, they don't automatically conduct a deep audit of every aspect of both parents' finances just because of a dependent dispute.
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Ravi Choudhury
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Omar Farouk
•How did they actually resolve your case? Did you end up getting the tax benefits for your son or did your ex? I'm in a similar situation and want to know what to expect.
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Ravi Choudhury
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Omar Farouk
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Diego Mendoza
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Anastasia Popova
Just to add my experience - these dependent disputes happen all the time with separated parents. My ex tried claiming our twins when it wasn't his year, and we went through a similar process with the IP PINs and everything. The important thing is documenting custody. In my case, I had our divorce decree stating I was the custodial parent, plus school records showing my address was their primary residence. That was enough to clear things up with the IRS. As for the "bigger investigation" into your daughter's mom - the IRS is really only concerned about the dependent claim issue unless something major jumps out at them. They don't have the resources to deeply investigate everyone involved in a dependent dispute.
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Sean Flanagan
•What happens if you dont have a formal custody agreement? My ex and I never went to court but my kids live with me full-time. She still tried claiming them on taxes though.
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Anastasia Popova
•You don't need a formal court custody agreement to prove your case to the IRS. What matters is where the children actually lived for the majority of the year. You can prove this with school records showing your address, medical records, childcare receipts, benefits statements that list the children, or even affidavits from school officials or healthcare providers confirming the children live with you. The IRS typically looks for documentation that establishes physical residence - where the children actually sleep at night for the majority of the year. Keep detailed records going forward, like a calendar noting when the children are with each parent. Also, make sure you're keeping documentation like school correspondence, medical bills, and activities that show you're the primary caregiver.
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Zara Shah
Something nobody mentioned is how this might affect things if you get certain tax credits like the Earned Income Credit or Child Tax Credit. When there's a dispute and a PIN is assigned, those credits might be held up even after the dependent issue is settled. I had to wait an extra 2 months for my full refund even after the IRS agreed I was the rightful parent to claim my daughter. They did pay interest on the delayed amount though.
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NebulaNomad
•Yeah same here! The IRS held my refund for like 5 months total. Did you have to do anything special to get the interest they owed you or did they just add it automatically?
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StarStrider
I'm going through something similar right now with my ex claiming our son when he shouldn't have. The stress is real! One thing I learned from my tax preparer is that you should definitely keep operating your business normally - this type of investigation is very narrow in scope and shouldn't affect your credit or business operations at all. The IRS agent I spoke with said these dependent disputes are incredibly common, especially around tax season. They see thousands of these cases where separated parents both try to claim the same child. The good news is that if you have your documentation in order (custody agreement, school records, medical records showing your address), it's usually pretty straightforward to resolve. My case has been pending for about 2 months now and I haven't heard anything negative about my business or personal credit. The IRS really does focus just on determining who has the legal right to claim the dependent. Don't let the anxiety get to you - just gather your paperwork and file your return as normal with the PIN they provided.
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Evan Kalinowski
•This is really reassuring to hear from someone going through the same thing! I've been losing sleep worrying that this could somehow spiral into auditing my small business or affecting my credit when I apply for loans. It sounds like the IRS really does keep these investigations focused just on the dependent claim issue. How long did your tax preparer say these cases typically take to resolve? And did they give you any advice on what documentation tends to be most convincing to the IRS? I have school records and medical appointments, but I'm wondering if there are other types of proof I should be gathering just in case.
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