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Zara Rashid

Received a large tax refund post divorce, need to split it - is any of this considered taxable income?

Hey everyone, I just got a CP21B notice from the IRS for the 2019 tax year, and my divorce was finalized in 2020. My ex-wife and I agreed to split this refund 50/50. The amount is around $60k, which is a significant sum. We're not sure which one of us will get the check from the IRS, but whoever receives it plans to split it and send half to the other person. Someone at work mentioned today that the person who gets the original check from the IRS won't owe taxes on it, but the person who gets "paid" by their ex will have to report it as income and pay taxes. That doesn't sound right to me, but I honestly have no idea. I'm totally lost on where to find reliable information about this situation. Can anyone point me in the right direction? Has anyone dealt with something similar after a divorce? Thanks in advance!

The good news is that tax refunds generally aren't considered taxable income, regardless of who receives the check initially or how you split it afterwards. A CP21B notice typically indicates the IRS found errors in your original tax filing and is issuing a corrected refund. Since this refund relates to the 2019 tax year when you were still married and presumably filed jointly, this is essentially returning money that was overpaid from your joint income. Splitting it 50/50 is a common approach. The person who told you about taxation issues was likely confusing this with alimony or property settlements, which have different tax implications. This is simply returning overpaid tax money that was already yours (jointly). If the check comes addressed to both of you, you may need both signatures to cash it. If it comes to just one person, that person can cash it and transfer half to the other without tax consequences as long as you're following your divorce agreement.

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Thank you for clarifying! That's a relief. The check will probably come to just one of us since we have different addresses now. So whoever gets it can just write a check to the other for their share without any tax implications? One more question - do we need to document this exchange somehow for our records, or is a simple transfer enough?

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Yes, whoever receives the check can simply write a personal check or transfer the agreed amount to the other without any tax implications. It's essentially just dividing money that was already jointly yours. I would recommend documenting the transaction for your records. Keep a copy of the CP21B notice, a record of the check deposit, and documentation of the transfer to your ex. While this isn't taxable income, having a clear paper trail is always wise in case questions arise later. A simple signed receipt acknowledging the split would also be helpful.

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That sounds helpful but I'm curious - how detailed does it get? My situation is complex because we had some business income during our marriage, and if we get an adjustment I need to know which income sources triggered it. Does it break it down that specifically?

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I went through this exact situation last year. The important thing to know is how the refund was generated. In my case, most of the refund came from deductions related to my business, not my ex's W-2 income. Our divorce decree stated that tax refunds would be split "equitably based on income contribution," not exactly 50/50. We ended up having to go back to our attorneys to determine the fair split since the CP21B didn't specify which deductions generated the refund. If your decree doesn't specify how to handle refunds received after divorce, you might want to check with your attorney about the legally required split in your state.

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Our decree actually does mention tax refunds and says we split them 50/50 for any jointly filed returns, so I think we're covered there. Did you have any trouble with the actual mechanics of splitting the money? Did the IRS send a single check or direct deposit?

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If your decree specifically states 50/50 for joint returns, then you're in a good position. That's clear guidance that should prevent disputes. The IRS sent a single check in both our names, which created a challenge since we needed both signatures to cash it. We ended up depositing it into a joint account we hadn't yet closed, then immediately transferring our respective shares to our individual accounts. Some banks might allow mobile deposit into one person's account with proper endorsement, but ours required both signatures present. If you've closed all joint accounts, another option is for one person to sign the check over to the other (endorse it on the back), who then deposits it and sends half back. Just document everything with emails or texts confirming the arrangements.

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Something nobody's mentioned yet - check if your state taxes were also affected! My federal CP21B triggered a state adjustment too, which came separately about 3 months later. If you filed jointly for state taxes that year, you might have another refund coming that you'll need to split as well. Don't forget to watch for that follow-up adjustment from your state tax authority.

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This is such an important point! The same happened to us - got a federal adjustment and three months later California sent us another $7k. We almost didn't connect the two until I called to ask why we were getting a random state refund.

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Just wanted to add my experience - I was in a very similar situation with a CP21B after my divorce. The $60k amount you mentioned is substantial, so I'd strongly recommend getting everything in writing before splitting it. Even though your divorce decree specifies 50/50, I'd suggest both of you sign a simple agreement acknowledging the refund amount, the split, and who received the original check. This protects both parties if questions arise later, especially with an amount this large. Also, keep copies of the CP21B notice, your divorce decree section about tax refunds, and any bank records showing the transfer. The IRS might ask questions years later about large deposits, and having clear documentation makes everything much easier to explain. One more tip - if the check comes made out to both names with "AND" between them (not "OR"), you'll definitely need both signatures. Some banks are strict about this even for divorced couples.

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I went through something very similar last year with a CP21B notice for about $45k after my divorce was finalized. A few things I learned that might help: First, the timing of when you separated matters more than you might think. Even though your divorce was finalized in 2020, if you separated earlier in 2019, that could affect how the refund should be split according to your decree. Some courts consider the separation date, not the divorce date, for financial matters. Second, make sure you understand what triggered the CP21B. In my case, it was missed business deductions from my ex's side business that we had forgotten to claim. This changed our negotiation since those deductions were directly related to her income, not our joint expenses. Third, consider opening a temporary joint account just for this transaction if the check comes in both names. It's cleaner than trying to get dual signatures at the bank, and you can close it immediately after splitting the funds. The person at work who mentioned taxation was definitely wrong - this is your money being returned to you, not new income. But definitely keep detailed records since $60k will likely trigger some banking reporting requirements. Good luck with the split - having it spelled out clearly in your decree should make this relatively straightforward!

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This is really helpful advice, especially about the separation vs divorce date distinction! I hadn't thought about that aspect. We actually separated in late 2019 but didn't finalize until 2020, so I should probably review our decree language more carefully to see if that matters for this refund. The temporary joint account idea is brilliant - much simpler than trying to coordinate bank visits for dual signatures. Did you have any issues opening an account specifically for this purpose, or were banks pretty understanding about the situation? Also, you mentioned banking reporting requirements for the $60k - should I expect any 1099s or other tax forms to be generated from this, even though it's not taxable income?

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