Property Donation During Sale - Tax Implications and Avoiding Penalties

This real estate agent is giving you some problematic advice that could get you in trouble with the IRS. Let me explain what's really happening here: What the agent is suggesting isn't a "donation" in the tax sense - it's a gift to your father-in-law. When your wife signs over her share at closing, she's essentially gifting her portion of the proceeds to her father. This is not a charitable donation that you can deduct on your taxes. There are two tax considerations here: gift tax and capital gains tax. For gift tax, your wife can give up to $17,000 (2023 limit) to her father tax-free annually. Anything above that uses part of your lifetime gift/estate tax exemption (currently $12.92 million per person), requiring you to file Form 709, though you likely won't owe actual gift tax. For capital gains, if your wife has ownership interest in the property and gives it up without compensation, she's not necessarily avoiding tax - she's potentially gifting her basis in the property too, which could create issues.

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Something that hasn't been mentioned yet - depending on the value of the property and your wife's share, you might want to look into a Qualified Disclaimer instead. This is a legal way to refuse an inheritance or gift that you never took possession of or benefit from. It has to be done correctly with proper documentation, but it can sometimes "undo" an unwanted property transfer. I'm not saying this will definitely work in your situation, but it might be worth discussing with a tax attorney. The key thing is that your wife can't have already accepted benefits from the property (like receiving rent) and there are strict time limits.

Has anyone mentioned capital gains implications yet? If your wife "donates" (gifts) her share back to her father, and then he sells the entire property, he'll be responsible for all the capital gains tax. But if she keeps her share and sells it, she might qualify for some capital gains exclusions depending on how the property was used. I learned this the hard way when I gifted my half of a rental property to my brother before sale. Because he already owned the other half, he ended up with a HUGE capital gains tax bill that we could have partially avoided if I'd just sold my portion directly.