Using Home Sale Proceeds Tax-Free & Gifting Money to Kids for Joint Purchase - Capital Gains Question
Hey everyone, hoping someone can clear up our family's tax questions about a home sale and gift situation. My parents are planning to sell their primary residence which they've owned for about 15 years. From what we understand, they should qualify for the $500,000 married filing jointly exclusion on capital gains since the profit will be less than that amount. Great news there! Here's where it gets tricky. My parents want to take those proceeds (approximately $320,000) and contribute it toward purchasing a new home with me and my wife. They absolutely do not want to be on the deed of the new property - they're trying to simplify their estate, not complicate it. We're well aware this gift would be way under the lifetime gift tax exemption (currently around $13 million), but we're confused about the proper way to structure this to avoid any gift tax complications. Do we need to put them on the deed temporarily? Would using some kind of trust arrangement help with this? Also, completely separate concern - if either parent might eventually need long-term care through Medicaid, would having/not having their names on this property deed affect the Medicaid lookback period? Thanks in advance for any guidance! We're trying to make sure we do this right for everyone involved.
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Ryan Young
This is a common situation with aging parents! Let me address both your questions: For the gift tax situation - your parents can absolutely gift you the proceeds without being on the deed, and without anyone paying gift tax. They'll just need to file Form 709 (Gift Tax Return) to report the gift if it exceeds $17,000 per person per year. Since there are two parents giving to you and your spouse, they can each give $17,000 to each of you ($68,000 total) without even needing to file the form. For amounts above that, they file the form but it counts against their lifetime exemption - no actual tax due now. For the Medicaid question - this is actually very important! Having their names on the deed would absolutely count as an asset for Medicaid eligibility purposes. Additionally, giving you the money will start the 5-year lookback clock for Medicaid. This means if either parent applies for Medicaid nursing home coverage within 5 years of making this large gift, they could be temporarily ineligible based on the gift amount.
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Sophia Clark
•But wait, I thought gifting limits were $18,000 for 2024? Also, if they're selling their primary home they've lived in for more than 2 years, wouldn't they avoid capital gains tax entirely up to the $500k exclusion? So there's really no "tax" on the actual sale money, just potential gift tax reporting when they give it to their kids, right?
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Ryan Young
•You're right that the annual gift exclusion for 2024 is $18,000 per person, I quoted the 2023 amount by mistake. So each parent can give $18,000 to each child and spouse ($72,000 total) without even filing Form 709. Correct on the home sale - assuming they've used the home as their primary residence for at least 2 of the last 5 years, they can exclude up to $500,000 of gain (if married filing jointly) from their income. The proceeds themselves aren't taxed - just the profit above their cost basis would be taxable, and in this case it sounds like they're within the exclusion amount.
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Katherine Harris
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Madison Allen
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Joshua Wood
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Emily Parker
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Ezra Collins
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Justin Evans
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Ezra Collins
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Victoria Scott
One option your parents might consider is setting up a Qualified Personal Residence Trust (QPRT). This would allow them to transfer the house to you while retaining the right to live in it for a specified period. There are tax advantages, but it's complex and requires a good estate planning attorney.
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Samantha Hall
•Thanks for suggesting the QPRT, but I think there might be some confusion. My parents are selling their current home (using the capital gains exclusion) and then contributing those proceeds to help us buy a new home together. They don't want to be on the deed of the new place. Would a QPRT still apply in this situation?
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Victoria Scott
•I misunderstood your situation - you're right that a QPRT wouldn't make sense here. QPRTs are used when transferring an existing home to heirs while continuing to live in it. In your case, since your parents are contributing cash proceeds from their home sale toward your new purchase without wanting to be on the deed, it's simply a gift. They'll need to file Form 709 to report amounts above the annual exclusion ($18,000 per recipient), but there's no need for a trust structure unless there are other estate planning considerations.
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Benjamin Johnson
Has anyone considered the property tax implications here? In some states, when parents transfer property interest to children (even through contributions to purchase), there might be property tax reassessment implications or exclusions available. In California, for example, there's Prop 19 to consider.
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Zara Perez
•That's a really good point about property tax. In our case (Michigan), when my mother contributed to our home purchase without being on the deed, there were no property tax implications since the house was newly purchased at market value and assessed accordingly. But I know states like California have very specific parent-child transfer rules that can affect property tax basis.
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