Paying taxes on income I never received from family business shares? Help!
So I'm in this weird situation with my husband's family business. He inherited some shares in his family's orchard a few years back, and every tax season we get absolutely hammered with taxes on what his parents call "pass-through income" or something like that. The frustrating part is we've never actually seen a DIME of this money they claim we're earning! Last year we ended up owing almost $4,800 in additional taxes because of these orchard shares, but not a single penny came to our bank account. When I asked my father-in-law about it, he just said something about how the business reinvests profits and that's "just how it works" with their business structure. I don't understand how we can be taxed on money we literally never received! My husband says his parents dealt with this for years and it's normal, but it feels like we're getting screwed. Our tax guy mentioned something about K-1 forms and partnership income, but honestly I'm lost. Has anyone dealt with paying taxes on income from a family business that you never actually received in your bank account? Is this legal? Any advice on what we can do? This is putting a serious strain on our finances every April.
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Freya Larsen
This is actually very common with pass-through entities like partnerships, S-corporations, and some LLCs. The business itself doesn't pay taxes - instead, the profits "pass through" to the owners who report it on their personal returns, whether or not those profits were distributed. What's likely happening is that the business is making a profit, and as part owners, you and your husband are responsible for your share of the taxes on those profits, even if the company reinvests that money rather than distributing it to shareholders. The K-1 form shows your share of income, deductions, and credits. The best solution is to have a family meeting about this. Many family businesses will make at least enough distributions to cover the tax liability of the owners. It's called a "tax distribution" - they distribute just enough for owners to pay the taxes owed on their share of profits.
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GalacticGladiator
•But isn't that totally unfair? How can the government tax you on money you don't actually get?? That seems borderline illegal to me.
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Freya Larsen
•It might seem unfair, but it's actually by design. The benefit is that the business itself avoids taxation, which can result in higher overall returns for owners over time. This arrangement can be very advantageous when the business is reinvesting for growth, since there's only one level of taxation instead of two. The government's perspective is that you've earned the income as an owner, even if you chose (through the business) to reinvest it rather than distribute it. The decision to reinvest rather than distribute is considered a separate decision from the earning of the profit itself.
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Omar Zaki
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Chloe Taylor
•Does it work for all types of family businesses? Mine is an LLC that owns some rental properties, but I have no control over distributions.
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Diego Flores
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Diego Flores
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Anastasia Ivanova
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Zara Malik
One solution that worked for our family farm was negotiating a "guaranteed payment" instead of relying solely on distributions. A guaranteed payment is like a salary that gets paid regardless of profitability, and while it's still taxable, at least you actually RECEIVE the money to pay those taxes. Talk to the managing partners about amending the operating agreement to include this provision. We did this after three cousins nearly had to sell their shares because they couldn't afford the tax burden.
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Ravi Kapoor
•How exactly do you bring this up without causing family drama? My father-in-law gets defensive whenever I mention anything about the business structure or distributions.
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Zara Malik
•The key is framing it as a business sustainability issue rather than a personal complaint. I approached it by saying: "For the business to thrive long-term, all owners need to be able to maintain their ownership without financial hardship." I also found it helpful to bring some documentation from our accountant explaining how other family businesses handle this common issue. When presented as a standard business practice rather than a criticism, it was received much better. Sometimes having a neutral third party (like an accountant) suggest these changes can remove the emotional element from the discussion.
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Luca Marino
Have you looked into whether you qualify for any deductions related to the business that might offset some of that tax burden? Since you're technically a business owner through those shares, you might be able to deduct certain expenses.
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Nia Davis
•This is good advice. When I was in a similar situation, I was able to deduct a portion of my home office, travel to business meetings, and some professional development costs. It didn't solve the whole problem, but it reduced the tax hit by about 30%.
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Ravi Kapoor
•I hadn't even thought about deductions! I work from home occasionally on stuff related to the orchard (mostly bookkeeping and some marketing). Would that count toward a home office deduction? And we drive about 80 miles round trip to visit the orchard like 6-7 times a year.
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