My parents want to gift me their house - What's the difference between federal annual vs lifetime gift tax exemption?

The annual and lifetime gift tax exemptions work together, not separately. Here's how it works in simple terms: Your parents each have an annual gift tax exemption of $17,000 per recipient (2023 amount). Any amount over that $17,000 per person doesn't get taxed immediately but instead counts against their lifetime exemption ($12.92 million per person). So for your house situation, let's say both parents are gifting you the house worth $1.3 million. Each parent can give you $17,000 tax-free annually ($34,000 total). The remaining $1,266,000 would count against their lifetime exemptions. Each parent would use up $633,000 of their individual $12.92 million lifetime exemption. They won't owe any actual gift tax now unless they've already used up their lifetime exemptions through previous large gifts. They will need to file IRS Form 709 (Gift Tax Return) to report the gift and track how much of their lifetime exemption they've used, but they likely won't owe any tax on this gift if they haven't made other substantial gifts previously.

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Something nobody has mentioned yet is the potential capital gains implications later. When you receive a house as a gift, you also receive the giver's cost basis. So if your parents bought it for $650k, that becomes your basis. If you later sell it for say $1.5 million, you'd potentially owe capital gains tax on $850k ($1.5M - $650k), whereas if you had inherited it after their passing, you'd get a stepped-up basis to the fair market value at the time of death. Not saying this should change your decision, but it's something to consider and discuss with the CPAs. Sometimes waiting to inherit property rather than receiving it as a gift can have significant tax advantages depending on your future plans.

Has anyone mentioned the property tax implications? In some states, a transfer between parents and children keeps the property tax assessment the same, but in others, it can trigger a reassessment to current market value, which could mean much higher property taxes for you going forward. Also check if your state has a real estate transfer tax that might apply even to gifts. In my state, we had to pay 1% of the property value as a transfer tax even though it was a gift between family members.

One thing to also consider is the timing of when your parents actually transfer the property. If they're doing this for estate planning purposes, they might want to consider the current economic climate and property values. Real estate values have been quite high recently, so gifting now while values are elevated could actually be beneficial from a gift tax perspective - they're using up their lifetime exemption based on today's high valuation, but if property values decline in the future, they've effectively "locked in" the gift at the higher value. Also, make sure you understand what happens with things like homeowners insurance during the transfer process. Some policies need to be updated or changed when ownership transfers, even between family members. You'll want to coordinate with your insurance agent to ensure there's no gap in coverage during the deed transfer process. The combination of gift tax implications, capital gains basis issues, property tax reassessment risks, and insurance considerations makes this a complex transaction that really benefits from professional guidance. Good call on setting up those CPA meetings!

Just wanted to add another important consideration that I learned the hard way - make sure to get a professional appraisal of the property at the time of transfer. The IRS requires fair market value to be established for gift tax purposes, and if they ever audit the transaction, having a certified appraisal from a licensed appraiser will protect you. Don't just rely on online estimates or recent comparable sales - those might not hold up if questioned. A proper appraisal typically costs $400-800 but could save you thousands if the IRS ever challenges the reported value and tries to assess additional gift taxes. Also, keep detailed records of any improvements or major repairs your parents made to the property while they owned it. These can sometimes be added to your cost basis even in a gift situation, which would reduce your potential capital gains exposure if you sell later. Your CPA can help determine which expenses qualify for basis adjustments. The documentation requirements for property gifts are much more extensive than most people realize, so starting that paper trail early will make the whole process smoother!