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Selena Bautista

My 17 year old son accidentally claimed himself on his tax return

So frustrated right now! My teenage son decided to file his taxes early this year (his first real job) and I just found out he checked the box that he can't be claimed as a dependent. My return just got rejected through TurboTax because of this! I had no idea what he did until I called the IRS about the rejection. Does anyone know what our options are here? Do we need to wait the full 11 days until he can amend his return, or is there a quicker fix? Can I just remove him from my return instead, even though I've always claimed him and was planning to again? TurboTax doesn't seem to have any clear question asking if someone else claimed him, so I'm not sure how he even made this mistake in the first place. And if he claims himself this tax season, will I be able to claim him again next year when he's still living at home? He's still in high school, I pay for everything, and this is such a headache!

This happens more often than you'd think! Your son likely saw the "Can someone claim you as a dependent?" question while filing and misunderstood it. You have two options: You can either wait for him to file an amended return (which will take more than just the 11 days processing time - probably closer to 6-8 weeks for the amendment to be processed), or you can file without claiming him this year. If you support him and he meets the dependent requirements (lives with you over half the year, you provide more than half his support, etc.), you're legally entitled to claim him. It typically makes more financial sense for the parent to claim the dependent rather than the child claiming themselves. For next year - yes, you can claim him again if he meets the dependency requirements. This year's filing doesn't change anything for future years.

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How does this affect the amount of tax refund the parent would miss out on if they don't claim the dependent? And does the 17yo son get any benefit from claiming himself or did he just mess up both their returns?

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Not claiming a dependent can significantly impact your refund - possibly reducing it by thousands depending on your income level and eligibility for credits like the Child Tax Credit or education credits. The exact amount varies based on your tax bracket and specific situation. The 17-year-old likely gets very little benefit from claiming himself. If his income is low (which is typical for most teenagers with part-time jobs), the standard deduction probably already eliminates his tax liability. By claiming himself, he might get a slightly larger refund, but it's almost always financially better overall for the parent to claim the dependent.

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Does taxr.ai actually help with the amendment process itself or just tell you what to fix? I'm dealing with a similar issue but with my college student who filed wrong.

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I'm skeptical about these tax services. How do you know it's secure? Like sending all my tax docs to some random website seems risky. Did they actually help resolve the issue faster than just calling IRS?

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How does this Claimyr thing actually work? Do they charge you just to wait on hold? I don't understand why I'd pay for something I can do myself.

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This sounds like a scam. There's no way to "skip the line" with the IRS. They're just charging you to do what you could do yourself for free - wait on hold.

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Update: I was completely wrong about Claimyr in my previous comment! After getting disconnected from the IRS for the 5th time yesterday and wasting 2 hours, I tried it out of desperation. It actually works exactly as described. Their system called the IRS, navigated all the menus, and waited on hold for about 47 minutes (I could see the timer on their website). When an agent was about to answer, my phone rang and connected me directly. The IRS agent confirmed that we needed to file Form 1040X for my son, and I didn't have to remove him from my return. Feeling pretty stupid for calling it a scam before trying it, but wanted to post this in case anyone else is struggling to get through to the IRS about dependent issues like this.

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Your best option is to file an amended return for your son. Having him file a 1040X to correct his return is the proper way to handle this. The form will let him indicate that he should be claimed as a dependent. You should hold off on filing your return until his amendment is processed, though that can take several months. If you're concerned about missing the filing deadline, you can file for an extension using Form 4868, which gives you until October 15 to file.

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Won't filing an extension delay my refund though? We were counting on that money for some home repairs. Is there any way to speed up the amendment process?

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Filing an extension only extends the time you have to file - it doesn't extend the time to pay any taxes due. If you're expecting a refund, then yes, waiting would delay receiving that money. Unfortunately, there's no way to expedite amendment processing - they take the time they take (typically 8-16 weeks). Your other option is to file without claiming your son this year, which would process normally but likely result in a smaller refund than you're entitled to. You could then file your own amended return later to claim him once his amendment is processed, but that adds another long wait for the additional refund amount.

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Did your son have enough income to even need to file? If he made less than $12,950 in 2024, he wasn't required to file at all unless he had self-employment income over $400.

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Even if he wasn't required to file, he should still file to get back any withholding! My daughter made about $5,000 last summer and got back every penny that was withheld. Missing out on that refund would be a waste.

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This is such a common mistake with teenage filers! I went through the exact same thing with my daughter two years ago. The good news is that it's totally fixable, though it requires some patience. From my experience, you have three realistic options: 1. **Wait for your son to file Form 1040X** - This is the "correct" way but takes 8-16 weeks to process. Your son would amend his return to indicate he can be claimed as a dependent. 2. **File your return without claiming him this year** - You'll get a smaller refund now, but you can file your own 1040X later to claim him once his amendment processes (adding even more waiting time). 3. **File for an extension** - Gives you until October to file, but delays your refund. Honestly, if you need the refund money soon, option 2 might be your best bet despite the hassle. You'll at least get some money now rather than waiting months for the full amount. One tip: Make sure your son understands the dependency rules for next year! The software questions can be confusing, but if he's still in high school and you're supporting him, you should be claiming him. Good luck!

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This is such a stressful situation, but you're definitely not alone! I went through something similar with my 18-year-old last year. One thing that really helped me was getting organized with all the paperwork first. Make sure you have copies of both your son's W-2 and his filed return so you can see exactly what boxes he checked. This will help when you're explaining the situation to the IRS or filling out the amendment forms. Also, if you do decide to go the amendment route, consider having your son file the 1040X sooner rather than later. The processing time starts from when they receive it, not from when you figure out what to do. Every day you wait is another day added to that 6-16 week timeline. One more thing - make sure to keep detailed records of everything (dates you called the IRS, reference numbers, what agents told you, etc.). If there are any complications down the road, having that paper trail can be really helpful. Hang in there! It feels overwhelming now, but this will get sorted out. The IRS deals with these dependency conflicts constantly, especially during tax season when teenagers are filing for the first time.

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This is such great advice about keeping records! I'm dealing with a similar situation right now and hadn't thought about documenting all my IRS calls. Quick question - when you say to get copies of your son's filed return, how do you actually get that if he filed electronically? My daughter used some free filing software and I'm not sure she saved a copy of what she actually submitted. Can you request that from the IRS or do we need to try to recreate it from the software she used?

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@70c645b03141 Great question about getting copies of the filed return! If your daughter used free filing software, most of them (like TurboTax Free, H&R Block Free, etc.) should have saved a PDF copy in her account that she can download and print. She just needs to log back into whatever service she used. If for some reason that's not available, you can request a "Return Transcript" from the IRS using Form 4506-T, but that can take 5-10 business days to receive by mail. There's also an online option at irs.gov where she can create an account and view/download her return transcript immediately if she can verify her identity. The transcript won't be as detailed as the original return, but it'll show the key information like whether she claimed herself as a dependent, her filing status, and income amounts. That should be enough to see exactly what went wrong and help with the amendment process. Definitely try the software route first though - it's much faster and you'll get the complete return exactly as it was filed!

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@70c645b03141 Good question about getting copies! If your daughter used free filing software, she should be able to log back into that platform and view/download her submitted return - most services keep records for at least a year. Check her email too, as many filing services automatically send a PDF copy of the submitted return. If that doesn't work, you can request a transcript or copy from the IRS directly. Form 4506-T gets you a free transcript (which shows the key info), or Form 4506 gets you an actual copy of the return for a small fee. The transcript is usually sufficient for figuring out what dependency boxes were checked. You can also call the IRS and they can tell you over the phone what filing status and dependency info they have on file. The online IRS account portal at irs.gov also lets you view basic return information if she can set up an account. That might be the fastest way to see what was actually filed!

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@70c645b03141 Great question! If your daughter used free filing software like TurboTax Free Edition, FreeTaxUSA, or others, she should be able to log back into her account and download/print a copy of her filed return. Most software keeps filed returns available for at least a year, sometimes longer. If for some reason she can't access the software account or the return isn't saved there, you can request a copy directly from the IRS using Form 4506-T (Request for Transcript of Tax Return). This is free and usually takes 5-10 business days. You can also request it online at irs.gov if you can verify your identity through their system. The transcript will show you exactly what was filed, including which boxes were checked for dependency status. Having this documentation makes it much easier to complete the 1040X amendment form correctly and explain the error to IRS agents if you need to call them.

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@70c645b03141 Good question about getting copies of the filed return! If your daughter used free filing software, she should be able to log back into her account and download/print a copy of her filed return - most software keeps records of submitted returns for at least a year. If that doesn't work, you can request a copy from the IRS, but it takes time. You'd need to file Form 4506-T (Request for Transcript of Tax Return) or call their automated line at 1-800-908-9946. The transcript shows the key info from her filed return, though it's not as detailed as the actual return. But honestly, for fixing a dependency issue, you probably don't need the full return. The main thing you need to know is whether she checked the box saying she couldn't be claimed as a dependent. If she filed electronically and got a confirmation, that usually means she did check that box (since that's what would cause the parent's return to be rejected). The amendment process is pretty straightforward once you know that's the issue that needs fixing.

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