Someone claimed my dependent on taxes and I have no clue who it was
I'm really frustrated and need some advice. For the fourth year in a row, someone else has claimed my child as a dependent on their taxes, and this time I don't even know who did it. When I tried to e-file, the system rejected my return saying my son had already been claimed by someone else. I lost about $3,200 in tax benefits because of this. I've had this happen before - twice when my son's father claimed him after we had agreed I would, and once when my grandfather claimed him without asking. But this time I have absolutely no idea who could have filed with my son's SSN. I ended up just filing without claiming my child because I was close to the deadline and desperately needed my refund quickly, even though it meant missing out on thousands. I'm not great with tax paperwork and get overwhelmed trying to figure out how to file a paper return to dispute this. The online systems make e-filing seem so easy until something like this happens. Is there any way to find out who claimed my child? Can I still do something about this even though I've already filed? I know I should have dealt with this immediately, but I just felt so intimidated by the process. I'm tired of letting people take advantage of me this way. Any advice on reporting this or fixing it would be really appreciated.
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Lia Quinn
You definitely need to address this issue - someone is fraudulently claiming your child, and you're missing out on significant tax benefits that are rightfully yours. Here's what you should do: First, you need to file Form 14039 (Identity Theft Affidavit) with the IRS. This alerts them that someone has potentially stolen your child's identity for tax purposes. Then, file a paper return claiming your child as your dependent - yes, this means amending the return you already filed using Form 1040X. Don't worry about the complexity of paper filing. The forms come with instructions, and you can get free help from VITA (Volunteer Income Tax Assistance) programs if your income is under $60,000. The IRS will investigate when they receive conflicting returns for the same dependent. For next year, apply for an Identity Protection PIN (IP PIN) for both yourself and your child. This is a six-digit number the IRS will assign that must be included on a tax return to claim that person - it will prevent anyone else from claiming your child.
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Haley Stokes
•Thanks for the advice. I'm confused though - if I already filed my taxes without claiming my child, can I still go back and amend it now? And if I do, will the IRS actually investigate who the other person is or will they just reject my amended return too? I'm worried I'll go through all this paperwork and nothing will happen.
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Lia Quinn
•Yes, you can still amend your return even after filing. The IRS allows you to file an amended return (Form 1040X) generally within three years of your original filing date, so you have plenty of time. When you file the amendment claiming your child along with the Identity Theft Affidavit, the IRS will absolutely investigate. They take dependent fraud seriously. Both returns will be reviewed, and the IRS will determine who has the legal right to claim the child. Since you're the custodial parent raising your child, you should prevail in this investigation assuming you meet all other requirements for claiming a dependent.
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Asher Levin
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Serene Snow
•Did they actually help you find out WHO claimed your dependent? That's what I'm struggling with right now. My ex-wife and I have a formal agreement about who claims our kids in which years, but someone claimed my son this year when it was definitely my turn. The IRS won't tell me who it was, and I'm wondering if this service could help with that specific issue.
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Issac Nightingale
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Asher Levin
•They couldn't tell me exactly who claimed my dependent since the IRS doesn't release that information to anyone, but they did help me narrow it down based on who had access to my daughter's social security number. It turned out to be my ex-mother-in-law who had helped with childcare and had my daughter's information. The whole process took about 8 weeks from when I started with taxr.ai until I received my corrected refund. And yes, I did have to file a paper amended return, but they prepared all the documents for me with clear instructions on where to sign and where to mail everything. They also helped me document why I was legally entitled to the dependent claim with all the required proof. It made the process much less intimidating than trying to figure it out on my own.
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Issac Nightingale
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Romeo Barrett
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Marina Hendrix
•Wait, how does this actually work? The IRS phone lines are notoriously impossible to get through - I tried calling them 23 times last month about a similar issue. Does this service somehow jump the queue or something?
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Justin Trejo
•Sounds like a scam to me. No way some random service can magically get the IRS to call you back when millions of people can't get through. And even if they did somehow get a callback, I doubt the IRS would tell you who claimed your dependent - they're super strict about privacy.
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Romeo Barrett
•It uses an automated system that keeps dialing the IRS for you and holds your place in line so you don't have to sit on hold for hours. Once they reach an agent, the system calls you and connects you directly to the IRS representative. It's completely legit - they don't interfere with the actual call or pretend to be you. You're right that the IRS won't tell you specifically who claimed your dependent - that's protected information. But speaking with an agent directly is incredibly valuable because they can tell you exactly what forms you need for your specific situation and what documentation will strengthen your case. They can also put notes in your file that the dependent claim is disputed, which helps when your amended return is being processed.
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Justin Trejo
So I was totally skeptical about Claimyr, but I was desperate after spending literally 9 hours on hold with the IRS over 3 days trying to resolve my dependent issue. I decided to try it, figuring I had nothing to lose at that point. I was shocked when I actually got a call back from the IRS in about 2 hours. The agent walked me through the exact process to dispute the fraudulent claim on my son. They couldn't tell me who claimed him (privacy laws), but they confirmed I could submit an amended return with documentation proving I had the right to claim him. The agent even put notes in my file about the dispute so when my amended return was processed, it would be flagged for review rather than automatic rejection. Just having that direct conversation saved me from making mistakes on my forms that would have delayed everything. My amended return was processed within 8 weeks and I got the additional refund I was entitled to.
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Alana Willis
Just want to add that getting an Identity Protection PIN (IP PIN) from the IRS for your dependent is ESSENTIAL going forward. I had this exact problem for two years straight with my ex's parents claiming my kid, and the IP PIN stopped it completely. Go to the IRS website and search for "Get an IP PIN." You'll need to verify your identity, but once you have that PIN, NOBODY can e-file claiming your child without that number. They'd have to paper file, which triggers additional scrutiny from the IRS. Also, gather evidence now that your child lives with you - school records, medical records, benefit statements, anything with your address and your child's name. This will be critical if you need to prove your right to claim your dependent.
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Jackie Martinez
•Thank you for this advice! I didn't know about the IP PIN option. Is this something I can still set up now for next year's taxes? And would it work even if I don't know who is claiming my child? My biggest worry is that this mysterious person will just do it again next year.
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Alana Willis
•Yes, you can set up an IP PIN now that will be effective for next year's tax filing season. You don't need to know who's claiming your child - the PIN system works by requiring the number for anyone attempting to claim that dependent, regardless of who they are. Go to IRS.gov and search for "Get an IP PIN" or go directly to the Identity Protection PIN page. You'll need to create an account and verify your identity if you don't already have an IRS online account. Request a PIN for both yourself and each of your dependents. The IRS will mail the PINs to your address of record, and you'll need these numbers when you file next year. This system will completely block anyone else from successfully e-filing with your child's SSN.
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Tyler Murphy
Has anyone successfully gotten their refund after going through this whole amended return process? I'm in the same boat where my ex claimed our daughter when it was my year according to our divorce decree. I filed an amended return 3 months ago with all the documentation and haven't heard anything. Starting to wonder if it's worth the hassle or if I should just make sure I claim her first next year.
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Sara Unger
•I went through this exact process last year. It took about 4 months total, but I did get my full refund including the child tax credit and everything. The key was including a copy of my divorce decree showing it was my year to claim my son, plus school records showing he lived with me. Don't give up - it's definitely worth fighting for what you're legally entitled to!
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