Can I claim my 18 year old as a dependent if he worked and files his own tax return?
My son just turned 18 in November and I'm trying to figure out our tax situation for the upcoming filing. He's a full-time student (senior in high school) and I cover pretty much everything - housing, food, clothes, car insurance, cell phone, you name it. He worked at a local grocery store last summer and during winter break, making around $4,800 total. Here's my concern - he was talking with his friends who all said they're filing their own taxes to get refunds. Now he wants to file his own return to "get his money back" but doesn't understand how this might affect our household taxes. I've always claimed him as a dependent since, well, he is one. Can he file his own return to get his withholding back AND I still claim him as my dependent? Or does him filing somehow mean he's claiming himself? He's only focused on getting his own refund and doesn't care about how it affects the family's overall tax situation. I'm worried if he files a certain way, it might cause problems with my return or trigger some kind of audit. I definitely don't want to do anything illegal, but I also don't want to miss out on claiming him if I'm still eligible to do so. Does anyone know how this works?
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LilMama23
Yes, your 18-year-old can absolutely file his own tax return to get his refund, and you can still claim him as a dependent on your return. These are not mutually exclusive things! When your son files his own return, he'll need to check the box that says "Someone can claim you as a dependent" on his 1040 form. This doesn't prevent him from getting his withholding back - he'll still get a refund of the money withheld from his paychecks if he's owed one. The main limitation is that he can't claim his own personal exemption or claim certain credits like the earned income credit. Your son qualifies as your dependent under the rules for a "qualifying child" since he's under 19 (or under 24 if a full-time student), lived with you for more than half the year, didn't provide more than half of his own support, and isn't filing a joint return. The fact that he earned $4,800 isn't a problem at all. This is extremely common - millions of dependent teens and college students work part-time jobs and file their own returns while their parents claim them as dependents.
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Dmitri Volkov
•Thanks, that's super helpful! But what happens if he doesn't check the box saying someone can claim him as a dependent? Would that automatically trigger problems with the IRS for us? Also, are there any tax benefits he'd miss out on by being claimed as a dependent vs if he filed completely independently?
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LilMama23
•If he doesn't check the box saying he can be claimed as a dependent when he actually can be, it could potentially trigger a mismatch in the IRS system when they compare your return with his. The IRS might send notices to both of you asking for clarification, but it's not automatically a huge problem - just an easily fixable inconsistency. As for benefits, being claimed as your dependent means he can't claim his own personal exemption or take certain credits like the Earned Income Credit. However, with only $4,800 in income, he likely wouldn't benefit much from these anyway. Meanwhile, you get substantial tax benefits by claiming him, potentially including the child tax credit, education credits if applicable, and a more favorable filing status like Head of Household if you qualify.
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Gabrielle Dubois
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Tyrone Johnson
•How does taxr.ai handle situations where the kid has multiple types of income? My son has both W-2 income from his campus job and some 1099 income from tutoring. Does it cover all that complexity?
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Ingrid Larsson
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Gabrielle Dubois
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Tyrone Johnson
I have to report back after trying taxr.ai based on this thread! I was dealing with the exact same situation with my 19-year-old son who works part-time while in college. I was ready to give up my dependent claim because he was so insistent on "getting the biggest refund possible." The analysis from taxr.ai showed we'd lose about $2,500 in tax benefits if I didn't claim him, while he'd only gain about $400 by filing independently. The breakdown made it super clear even to my stubborn kid that filing his return as a dependent was the smart family move. The tool also flagged that he qualified for the American Opportunity Credit for his education expenses, which I didn't realize could be claimed on either parent's or student's return depending on who benefits most. Seriously saved us from making a costly mistake.
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Carlos Mendoza
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Ava Williams
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Carlos Mendoza
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Ava Williams
Well I need to eat crow here because I just tried Claimyr after posting my skeptical comment. I've spent literally WEEKS trying to get through to the IRS about my dependent situation (19yo son who wants to file independently). Got connected to an IRS agent in about 20 minutes, and she explained everything perfectly. My son CAN file his own return while I still claim him as a dependent. She also confirmed he needs to check the box saying "Someone can claim you as a dependent" on his return. The agent even looked up our specific situation and confirmed my son still qualifies under the support test since his $5,200 income is less than the total cost of his support (tuition, housing, food, etc. that I pay). Honestly feel stupid for being so negative before, but after months of IRS frustration, I couldn't believe anything would actually work.
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Raj Gupta
I'm an accounting student and we just covered this in my tax class. Here's another important thing to consider: if your 18-year-old has any investment income (like interest from a savings account or stocks), the "Kiddie Tax" might apply. This means if he has unearned income over a certain amount, some of it might be taxed at YOUR tax rate rather than his lower rate. Worth keeping in mind if he has any investments or savings accounts that generate interest. But yes, he can absolutely file his own return to get his withholdings back while you claim him as a dependent. Just make sure he checks that box on his return.
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Lena Müller
•Could you explain more about this Kiddie Tax? My daughter has about $250 in interest from a college fund we set up years ago. Will that cause problems if she files her own return?
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Raj Gupta
•The Kiddie Tax only becomes an issue when unearned income (like interest, dividends, capital gains) exceeds $2,300 for 2025. Since your daughter only has $250 in interest, you're well below that threshold and don't need to worry about it. If the unearned income was above that threshold, the excess would be taxed at the parent's rate rather than the child's rate. This prevents wealthy families from shifting investment income to their children to take advantage of lower tax brackets. But with just $250 in interest, your daughter can report it on her own return without any Kiddie Tax complications.
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TechNinja
Does anyone know if the rules are different for state taxes? We're in California and their tax rules sometimes differ from federal. Can my son be my dependent on federal but independent on state? He's 19, in college, I pay more than half his support.
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Keisha Thompson
•Generally, California follows the same dependent rules as the federal government. If your son qualifies as your dependent for federal tax purposes, he would also be your dependent for California state taxes. It would be extremely unusual (and create a paperwork nightmare) to claim him on one return but not the other. Both returns should be consistent in how you're handling dependents. If he's filing his own California return, he should indicate he can be claimed as a dependent there too, just like on the federal return.
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Jade O'Malley
This is such a common confusion that comes up every tax season! Your son can absolutely file his own return to get his refund AND you can still claim him as your dependent - these two things are completely separate. The key is that when he files his return, he needs to check the box that says "Someone can claim you as a dependent." This tells the IRS that while he's filing to get his withholdings back, he's not claiming his own personal exemption. Based on what you've described, your son clearly qualifies as your dependent under the "qualifying child" test - he's under 19 (or under 24 if a full-time student), lives with you more than half the year, and you provide more than half his support. His $4,800 in earnings doesn't disqualify him at all. The benefits work out much better for your family this way too. You get to claim valuable tax credits like the Child Tax Credit, while he still gets back whatever was withheld from his paychecks. It's really a win-win situation, even though it might take some explaining to convince him that this is the smart financial move for the whole family!
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Fatima Al-Maktoum
•This is exactly what I needed to hear! I've been so stressed about this whole situation because my son keeps insisting that filing his own return means I can't claim him. It's reassuring to see so many people confirming that these are two separate things. I think the hard part is explaining to an 18-year-old why the family approach makes more financial sense when all his friends are telling him to "be independent" with his taxes. But if we're potentially talking about hundreds of dollars in tax benefits that I'd lose versus the small amount he might gain, I need to sit him down with some actual numbers. @e25bcdc944e7 Do you know roughly how much the Child Tax Credit is worth? I want to be able to show him the math so he understands this isn't just me being controlling about his finances.
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