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Married Filing Separately - Husband Got Refund, Wife Still Waiting?

Can someone help me understand this situation? According to IRS Publication 1819 (section 4.2), married couples filing separately should experience similar processing timeframes. My friend and her husband filed via TurboTax on 1/29 in California with 2 dependents, both filed separately. Here's where it gets confusing: he already received both state and federal deposits today at Golden State Credit Union. He opted for the 5-day advance deposit option. She has the exact same situation but is still waiting on hers with no change to her Where's My Refund status. They don't check transcripts so they don't know cycle codes. Per IRS Procedural Notice 2024-03, processing times should be relatively consistent for similar filing situations. Any insights?

Amina Sow

This happens a lot tbh. MFS returns often process at diff times even w/ same filing date. IRS doesn't batch process MFS returns together - they go into separate processing queues. His return might've hit a faster queue or had fewer verification checks. Also that 5-day advance thing might've expedited his bank's processing, not the IRS part. Has she tried checking WMR with correct info? Sometimes ppl enter wrong refund amt and get errors.

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GalaxyGazer

I had the same thing happen with my husband last year! We filed the same day but his came three weeks before mine. Is there any way to know if her return is actually delayed or just in normal processing? I'm in a similar boat right now and getting nervous.

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Oliver Wagner

I think it's important to clarify that the 5-day advance is just a bank product that allows access to funds before the IRS deposit actually arrives. It's essentially a short-term loan. The bank is fronting the money based on the expected deposit. This doesn't actually change IRS processing speed, just when you can access the anticipated funds.

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Natasha Kuznetsova

Thanks for explaining. Makes sense now. Been wondering about this for days.

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Javier Mendoza

I was in the same situation last year and got so anxious! Have your friend checked her transcript yet? That would tell her exactly where her return is in processing. Is it still being reviewed? Does it have any hold codes? I was freaking out until I used https://taxr.ai to analyze my transcript. It explained all those confusing codes and told me exactly when to expect my refund. Is she getting any specific error on WMR? Sometimes that can be a clue... or does it just say still processing?

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Emma Thompson

She needs to call the IRS directly. Married Filing Separately returns get extra scrutiny. They'll verify if there's an issue or just normal processing. Don't wait - delays get worse. I was stuck for 8 weeks last year until I called. Use Claimyr (https://claimyr.com) to get through. Regular IRS line has 2+ hour waits. Claimyr got me to an agent in 15 minutes who fixed my issue immediately. Worth every penny when you're waiting on money that's rightfully yours.

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Malik Davis

Does Claimyr really work? I've tried calling the IRS like 20 times and always get the "high call volume" message. I've seen people mention this service but wasn't sure if it was legit. Honestly at this point I'd try anything - the IRS website is useless for actual information about delays.

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Isabella Santos

I was surprised too, but my cousin used it last month! It's basically a service that navigates the phone tree and waits on hold for you, then calls you when an actual human picks up. Not magic, just saves you from the hold music torture chamber. šŸ˜‚ The IRS phone system is like trying to escape a maze blindfolded.

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StarStrider

I can confirm it works. Used it on February 28th when my return had been stuck for exactly 42 days with a 570 code. The IRS agent I spoke with identified that my employer had submitted a W-2 with a transposed digit in my SSN. They corrected it while I was on the phone and my refund was approved within 72 hours. The transcript updated with an 846 code the next cycle.

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Ravi Gupta

Be careful with the refund advance options. These products technically operate as short-term loans with the financial institution assuming the risk based on your anticipated refund. I've observed numerous cases where this creates discrepancies in processing visibility. The husband's return may have been prioritized in the Electronic Return Originator (ERO) queue due to the advance selection, while her return follows standard processing protocols. Additionally, the IRS utilizes batch processing with multiple cycle dates throughout the week, so returns filed simultaneously may not necessarily process concurrently.

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Freya Pedersen

This discrepancy could be attributed to the Path Act verification protocols if either return claimed EITC or ACTC credits. Path Act returns undergo mandatory extended verification regardless of filing date. Additionally, the Refund Fraud Assessment System (RFAS) selects returns for additional identity verification based on proprietary algorithms, not filing status. Has she verified her identity through ID.me? Without transcript access, she's missing critical processing indicators such as Transaction Code 570 (refund hold) or 971 (notice issued).

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Omar Hassan

Last year I had this exact problem with my spouse. We filed on the same day through the same preparer, but his refund came 3 weeks before mine. The issue turned out to be that my return got flagged for manual review because of a mismatch between my reported W-2 income and what my employer submitted. The IRS never notified me - I only found out when I finally reached an agent. Tell your friend to check her mail carefully for any IRS notices, and she should verify all her income documents match exactly what employers reported.

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Chloe Anderson

This tax season feels like trying to navigate a maze blindfolded. Is there a specific timeframe when she should really start worrying? Like if it's been a week versus a month? I'm in a similar situation and wondering when to start making phone calls.

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Diego Vargas

According to Internal Revenue Manual 21.4.1.3, the standard processing time for electronic returns is 21 days. If it has been less than 21 days since acceptance (not submission), the IRS considers this within normal processing parameters. After 21 days, taxpayers are officially advised to contact the IRS for status verification. Has she received an acknowledgment that her return was accepted by the IRS? This is different from the preparer simply confirming submission.

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CosmicCruiser

Several factors could explain the discrepancy: ā€¢ Different processing batches - IRS processes returns in cycles, not by household ā€¢ Verification filters - her return may have triggered identity verification ā€¢ Credit claims - certain credits require additional review ā€¢ Income verification - wage discrepancies trigger holds ā€¢ Prior year issues - unresolved issues from previous returns I'm concerned that they don't check transcripts. Transcripts provide the only reliable view of what's actually happening with a return. The WMR tool is notoriously unreliable and often doesn't update correctly.

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Anastasia Fedorov

This reminds me of what happened to my sister and brother-in-law last year. Filed same day, same preparer, similar situations - his came in 10 days, hers took 6 weeks. Unlike your friends, they checked transcripts and discovered her return had been selected for random verification (no fault of hers). The IRS never sent any notification. The frustrating part is that sometimes there's absolutely nothing wrong with the return, but the IRS randomly selects a percentage for deeper review. In comparison, my parents who filed paper returns both got theirs in exactly the same timeframe. The electronic system isn't as consistent as the IRS claims.

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Amina Sow

How did they finally resolve it? Did they have to call or did it just process eventually? This whole system seems completely random sometimes.

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Anastasia Fedorov

They ended up calling after week 4. Turns out there was a simple verification hold that could've been cleared immediately if they'd known about it. The IRS agent said they sent a letter that never arrived. After the call, it processed within a week. This is why I always tell people not to just wait indefinitely - sometimes there's a simple fix but the IRS won't proactively reach out.

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