Is it legal for my employer to tell me to file for unemployment while pregnant instead of maternity leave?
I work for a small business with only 8 employees total. During my first pregnancy in 2023, my employer told me to file for unemployment "because they pay into it for a reason" instead of providing maternity leave. When I honestly stated on my application that I was applying because I had a baby, I was denied benefits. My employer eventually paid me $400 per week for the 8 weeks I was out. I'm pregnant again and due in October. My employer is now telling me to file for unemployment again, but this time to claim I'm being "laid off" and not mention the pregnancy at all. They promised my job will be held for me (they definitely can't afford to replace or train someone new) with a return date by January 1st. They said I "should get paid no problem" and won't have to report that I'm looking for work. They're saying our business numbers are down significantly from last year, so they have a "legitimate" reason to temporarily lay someone off if unemployment asks questions, and it "just happens" to be me. I asked a few friends who are moms and they said this sounds like fraud. I talked to my assistant manager who agrees it seems sketchy and I should NOT do it. My biggest concern is when I file taxes next year – I'll have to show unemployment as income and the dates will clearly align with when I had my baby, whom I'll claim as a dependent. This is really stressing me out. My employer has been great to me in many ways, so I don't want to get them in trouble, but I also don't want to commit fraud. I need some income while on maternity leave. Is this legal? Should I go through with it?
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StarSailor}
This is absolutely not legal and is textbook unemployment fraud. Your employer is explicitly asking you to lie on a government application, which is fraudulent. The unemployment system is designed for people who have lost their jobs through no fault of their own and are actively seeking work - not for maternity leave. Your employer is trying to shift their responsibility to the state unemployment system instead of providing proper maternity leave. Small businesses with fewer than 50 employees aren't required to provide FMLA leave, but what they're suggesting crosses into illegal territory. If you follow their advice, you could face serious consequences including having to repay all benefits with penalties, potential tax issues, and even criminal charges for fraud. The fact that your application would show you were "laid off" but then returned to the same employer shortly after having a baby would raise immediate red flags during an audit.
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Miguel Silva
•What if the business actually does have lower numbers though? Couldn't they legitimately lay her off and then rehire her when business picks back up? Just wondering if there's a legal way to structure this that accomplishes the same goal.
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StarSailor}
•If there was a genuine business downturn requiring layoffs, the timing would still appear highly suspicious when it perfectly aligns with maternity leave. Unemployment agencies specifically look for these patterns. A legitimate layoff means the position is eliminated due to lack of work. If they're promising to hold her job and have a return date, that's not a true layoff - it's a temporary leave. The key issue is the intentional misrepresentation. The employer is explicitly instructing her to lie about the reason for separation.
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Zainab Ismail
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Yara Nassar
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GalaxyGuardian
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Amina Toure
This isn't just unemployment fraud, it's also tax fraud. When filing your taxes next year, the timing of your unemployment benefits will align perfectly with your new dependent. IRS systems are designed to catch inconsistencies like this. I worked in payroll for 10 years and saw an employee attempt something similar. They ended up having to repay all unemployment benefits plus a 30% penalty, and their employer faced significant fines for encouraging the fraud. If your employer wants to help you, there are legitimate options like offering a paid leave policy, allowing remote work, or setting up a temporary part-time arrangement. If they truly value you, they should be willing to find a legal solution rather than putting you at risk.
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Ava Garcia
•Thank you for explaining the tax implications. I hadn't even thought about how this might trigger an IRS review. Do you know if there are any legal options for small businesses to help employees with maternity leave? My employer seems to think unemployment is their only option.
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Amina Toure
•Small businesses actually have several legal options to support employees during maternity leave. They can offer paid time off from their own funds (which is tax-deductible as a business expense), set up short-term disability insurance (which is relatively inexpensive), or establish a temporary flexible/remote work arrangement. Some states also have paid family leave programs that small businesses can participate in, where both employers and employees contribute small amounts throughout the year. And depending on how your employer structures your compensation, you might qualify for state disability benefits in some locations, which is completely separate from unemployment.
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Oliver Zimmermann
As someone who processes unemployment claims, I can tell you we ABSOLUTELY look for this pattern and it's an automatic flag in our system. When someone files for unemployment then returns to the same employer shortly after having a baby, it triggers a mandatory review. Your employer is asking you to commit a federal offense that could result in: - Repaying all benefits with penalties - Being barred from receiving legitimate unemployment in the future - Potential criminal charges in severe cases - Tax complications with the IRS Plus, your employer could face significant fines for instructing you to commit fraud. If they're willing to do this, I'd be concerned about what other corners they're cutting that might affect you.
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Natasha Volkova
•Is there any kind of whistleblower protection if someone reports their employer for suggesting this kind of fraud? asking for a friend...
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