Pregnant and being told to claim unemployment instead of maternity leave - legal?
So I'm in a bit of a sticky situation with my small business employer (we're a team of 7 people total). I'm currently pregnant and due in December, and my boss just had a conversation with me about my upcoming maternity leave that has me concerned. They're suggesting that instead of providing paid leave, I should file for unemployment and claim that I was laid off due to business slowdown. They said they'd hold my position for me and give me a return-to-work date in February. They mentioned our sales numbers are genuinely down from last year, so there's a "legitimate" reason they could use if unemployment office checks. When I had my first baby in 2023, they initially suggested the same thing. I tried filing but was honest about having a baby and got denied (obviously). They ended up paying me $400 weekly for the 8 weeks I was out instead. This time they're explicitly telling me NOT to mention my pregnancy and just say I was laid off. They're assuring me I "should get paid no problem" and won't have to report job searching activities. I'm really uncomfortable with this. Two mom friends I asked said this sounds like fraud, and when I privately asked my assistant manager, they agreed it seems sketchy. I'm worried about tax implications too - I'll be claiming a newborn on my taxes for the exact period I was supposedly "laid off." My employer has been good to me in many ways, and I don't want to get them in trouble, but I also don't want to commit fraud. I need income during my maternity leave, but this doesn't feel right. Is what they're suggesting legal? Could I get in trouble? Are there other options I should explore?
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Andre Lefebvre
What your employer is suggesting is absolutely unemployment fraud, and both you and the company could face serious consequences. Unemployment is specifically for people who have lost their jobs through no fault of their own and are actively seeking new employment - not for someone on maternity leave with a guaranteed job waiting. If you file an unemployment claim stating you were laid off when you weren't, that's a false statement. When you certify for benefits each week, you'll have to confirm you're available for and seeking work, which wouldn't be true while you're recovering from childbirth and caring for a newborn. The penalties can include having to repay all benefits with interest, being disqualified from future benefits, fines, and in serious cases, criminal prosecution. Your employer could face increased unemployment tax rates and penalties for participating in the scheme. Instead, look into your legal options. The Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) may apply if your company has at least 15 employees and you've worked there over a year. This provides 12 weeks of unpaid, job-protected leave. Some states have paid family leave programs too. Check what's available in your state - you might qualify for state disability insurance during your recovery period.
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Zoe Alexopoulos
•Wait, I thought FMLA only applied to companies with 50+ employees? I work for a small business too (15 people) and was told we don't qualify. Is there something smaller businesses can offer for maternity leave?
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Andre Lefebvre
•You're absolutely right about the FMLA threshold - my mistake. FMLA applies to employers with 50 or more employees within 75 miles. For smaller businesses like yours with 15 employees, federal FMLA wouldn't apply. However, several states have their own family leave laws that cover smaller employers. California, Colorado, Connecticut, Massachusetts, New Jersey, New York, Oregon, Rhode Island, and Washington all have some form of paid family leave programs with varying eligibility requirements. Some of these programs apply regardless of company size. Additionally, pregnancy disability laws in some states provide protections for smaller employers than the federal FMLA threshold.
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Jamal Anderson
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Fatima Al-Farsi
So as someone who works in HR (not giving legal advice, just sharing knowledge), what your employer is suggesting is textbook unemployment fraud. When you certify for unemployment, you have to state that you're available for work and actively seeking employment - neither of which is true when you're on maternity leave. Have you checked if your state has any paid family leave programs? Even in smaller companies, you might have options. Also check if you have short-term disability insurance either through your employer or that you could purchase privately. That's a legitimate way to receive income during recovery from childbirth. Another thing - document EVERYTHING. If your employer is putting this suggestion in writing (texts, emails), save those. If they're saying it verbally, follow up with an email "to confirm our conversation about my leave options." This creates a paper trail protecting you if they try to claim they never suggested this approach.
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Carmen Ruiz
•Thank you for this advice! I don't think they've considered the "available for work" part. I've only had verbal conversations about this so far, but I'll definitely follow up with an email to document everything. I'm in Illinois - do you know if there are any state programs here? I've been with this company for 3 years if that matters for eligibility.
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Fatima Al-Farsi
•Illinois doesn't currently have a state-mandated paid family leave program, unfortunately. However, you do have a few potential options. First, check if you have short-term disability insurance through your employer. Many policies cover recovery from childbirth (typically 6-8 weeks depending on delivery type). If your employer doesn't offer this, you might be able to purchase an individual policy, though pregnancy would be considered a pre-existing condition at this point. Second, while FMLA doesn't apply to your small employer, Illinois does have the Pregnancy Accommodation Act that provides some protections for pregnant employees and those who have recently given birth. This doesn't provide pay but does offer job protection.
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Dylan Wright
Omg totally illegal! My sister works for unemployment and she says people get caught doing this ALL THE TIME. They can check hospital records, birth certificates, social media, etc. The system flags cases where someone files taxes with a new dependent born during unemployment claims. Also when u certify for unemployment benefits every week, you have to confirm ur available to work full time. If ur recovering from childbirth/caring for newborn, that's not true. Lying on those certifications is fraud. Penalties are no joke. My cousin got caught doing similar (different situation but same idea of claiming unemployment when not eligible) and had to repay ALL benefits plus a 30% penalty. They also banned her from getting unemployment for 5 years, which really hurt when she actually did lose her job later. Tell ur work NO WAY and start looking into legitimate options like short term disability. Some states have paid family leave too.
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Sofia Torres
•This is so crazy! Can u also report the employer for suggesting this? Seems like they should be in trouble too for telling employees to commit fraud!
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Yuki Sato
This is definitely unemployment fraud and you should absolutely not do this. I work in tax preparation and see the aftermath of these situations regularly. The IRS and state unemployment offices have sophisticated cross-referencing systems that will catch discrepancies between your unemployment claims and tax filings. When you file your 2025 taxes claiming a newborn dependent born in December, but also received unemployment benefits during that same period for being "laid off," that's going to trigger automatic flags in the system. The timeline will be obvious - you can't be actively seeking work while in the hospital giving birth and caring for a newborn. Beyond the fraud issue, there are legitimate options you should explore first. Many people don't realize that short-term disability insurance often covers pregnancy and childbirth recovery. Check your employee benefits package - you might already have this coverage. Also, some states have temporary disability insurance programs that provide partial wage replacement during recovery from childbirth. If your employer is genuinely experiencing financial hardship and can't provide paid leave, they should be honest about that rather than suggesting illegal workarounds. There may be legitimate ways to structure unpaid leave with partial income replacement through proper channels. Document everything about these conversations and consult with an employment attorney if needed. Your employer putting you in this position is problematic on multiple levels.
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Tami Morgan
•As someone new to this community, I really appreciate seeing all these detailed responses about such an important issue. This thread has been incredibly educational - I had no idea how sophisticated the cross-referencing systems are between unemployment and tax filings. @de30959ad4b5 Your point about the automatic flags when filing taxes with a newborn dependent during the same period as unemployment claims is particularly eye-opening. It seems like the technology makes it almost impossible to get away with this kind of fraud, even if someone wanted to try. The consensus here seems clear that what the employer is suggesting is absolutely not worth the risk. I'm curious though - for someone in Carmen's situation, what would be the best first step? Should she start by checking her current benefits package for short-term disability, or would it be better to contact an employment attorney first to document these problematic conversations with her employer? Thanks to everyone for sharing their knowledge and experiences. This kind of information could save someone from making a very costly mistake.
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Aliyah Debovski
As someone who's dealt with similar employer pressure in the past, I want to emphasize how important it is to trust your instincts here. You already know this feels wrong, and you're absolutely right to be concerned. What your employer is suggesting isn't just risky - it's a federal crime. Unemployment fraud can result in criminal charges, hefty fines, and having to repay benefits with penalties and interest. The fact that they're explicitly telling you to lie about your pregnancy makes this even more serious. I'd recommend taking these steps immediately: 1. Document everything - follow up any verbal conversations with emails "confirming what we discussed" 2. Review your employee handbook and benefits package for any short-term disability coverage 3. Research your state's pregnancy/disability benefits programs 4. Consider consulting with an employment attorney, especially since your employer is pressuring you to commit fraud Remember, a good employer should be helping you find legitimate solutions, not asking you to break the law. The fact that they've suggested this before shows a pattern of problematic behavior that could put other employees at risk too. Your financial needs during maternity leave are valid and important, but there are legal ways to address them. Don't let your employer's "solution" jeopardize your future financial security and legal standing.
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