Is it better to file jointly with SAHM wife (no income) or file singly and claim her as dependent?
My wife became a stay at home mom about 8 months ago and has zero income for the year. I'm the only one bringing in money for our household now. I'm trying to figure out the smartest way to handle our taxes this year. Can I actually claim her as a dependent on my taxes? Or is filing jointly still the better option like we've done in previous years when she was working? Just wondering if there's any advantage tax-wise to one approach versus the other since our situation has changed. Appreciate any advice!
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Freya Thomsen
You can't claim your spouse as a dependent - that option isn't available regardless of their income. The IRS specifically prohibits claiming a spouse as a dependent. For married couples, you have two filing options: Married Filing Jointly or Married Filing Separately. In your situation with a SAHM spouse with no income, filing jointly is almost always more beneficial. Filing jointly typically provides: - Lower overall tax rates - Higher standard deduction ($29,200 for 2025 vs $14,600 filing separately) - Access to more tax credits and deductions Filing separately would likely increase your tax burden substantially and eliminate eligibility for several valuable credits like the Earned Income Credit, education credits, and child tax credits.
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Omar Zaki
•Thanks for the clarification. What about the situation where someone isn't legally married but living together with kids? Can you claim your partner as a dependent then? And does having a SAHM change anything regarding child tax credits?
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Freya Thomsen
•If you're not legally married, then yes, it's possible to claim your partner as a dependent if they meet the qualifying relative tests - basically they lived with you all year, their gross income was under $5,050, and you provided more than half their support. Having a stay-at-home parent doesn't directly impact child tax credits. Those credits are based on your qualifying children and income levels, not on your spouse's employment status. However, your household income being lower (with only one earner) might actually help you qualify for a higher child tax credit amount since many credits phase out at higher income levels.
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StarStrider
One thing nobody's mentioned - if you file jointly, make sure your wife has a valid SSN, not just an ITIN. My brother tried filing jointly with his wife who was a non-resident alien without a SSN and it created a huge mess. The IRS rejected their return and they had to refile with Married Filing Separately.
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Luca Esposito
•Does this apply to green card holders too? My wife got her green card last year but we haven't had her SSN situation fully resolved. Should we wait to file until she has the SSN?
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StarStrider
•Green card holders are generally considered resident aliens for tax purposes, so different rules apply. But yes, your wife should still have an SSN before filing jointly. Don't wait though - you can file for an extension using Form 4868 which gives you until October to file your actual return while you get her SSN situation resolved. Just remember an extension to file isn't an extension to pay, so you'd still need to estimate and pay any taxes due by the regular deadline to avoid penalties.
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Nia Thompson
My husband and I were in this situation last year. Found out the hard way that filing separately was a HUGE mistake. Lost out on: - Child tax credit ($2000 per kid!) - Student loan interest deduction - Education credits - Higher tax brackets kicked in sooner Just file jointly, trust me! We refiled an amended return and got back almost $4300 more!
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Mateo Rodriguez
•Did you have to pay someone to help with the amended return? I think I made the same mistake last year but I'm worried about the cost and hassle of fixing it.
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Sofia Peña
•I did the amended return myself using Form 1040X - it's actually not that complicated if you have your original return and the correct numbers. The IRS website has a pretty good step-by-step guide for amended returns. It took about 3 months to get the refund, but totally worth it for $4300! You have 3 years from the original filing date to amend, so you're not too late if you filed last year.
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