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Amara Nwosu

IRS claiming I owe $2K on wedding gift from parents - Help!

I'm freaking out right now. Just got a letter from the IRS saying I owe $2,400 in back taxes from my 2022 tax return. Here's the situation - my parents gave me a wedding gift of $19K back in 2022. I was under the impression that gifts under the annual exclusion limit weren't taxable. But now the IRS is saying my bank reported this "balance change" and they're demanding I pay taxes on it retroactively! The letter includes some form asking for "response documents." I'm completely lost on how to handle this. Should I hire a tax professional to fight this or can I dispute it myself? Has anyone dealt with something similar? I thought gift taxes were the responsibility of the giver, not the receiver, and only if they exceeded the limit. Any advice would be seriously appreciated before I panic-hire someone expensive!

AstroExplorer

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You're right to question this! Gift tax is generally the responsibility of the giver (your parents), not the recipient. For 2022, the annual gift tax exclusion was $16,000 per person, meaning each of your parents could give you up to $16,000 without filing a gift tax return. Even if a single parent gave you the entire $19K, they would only need to file a gift tax return for the $3K above the exclusion - and they likely wouldn't owe actual tax unless they've exhausted their lifetime exemption (which was over $12 million in 2022). What's likely happening is the IRS received a bank deposit report (they get notified of large deposits) and automatically assumed it was unreported income. The good news is this is relatively straightforward to dispute yourself. You'll need to respond with a letter explaining this was a gift, not income. Include documentation if possible - like a note from your parents confirming it was a wedding gift, copies of any checks/transfers showing it came from them, wedding documentation showing the timing matches up, etc.

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Would it help to also have the parents write a statement that it was a gift? And does the person need to amend their tax return or just respond to the IRS letter?

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AstroExplorer

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Yes, having your parents provide a signed statement explicitly stating it was a gift would be very helpful. The statement should include the date, amount, occasion (wedding gift), and their relationship to you. You likely don't need to amend your tax return since gifts aren't reported as income by the recipient. Just respond directly to the IRS notice with your explanation and documentation. Make sure to include the notice number in your response and keep copies of everything you send. If possible, send your response via certified mail so you have proof of delivery.

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Dylan Cooper

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How quick was the process? I got a similar notice but only have 30 days to respond and I'm worried about meeting the deadline.

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Sofia Perez

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I'm skeptical about these online tools. Did you actually resolve your issue or did you end up needing a CPA anyway? I've heard horror stories about people trying to handle IRS issues themselves.

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Sofia Perez

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Just wanted to update - I actually tried taxr.ai after posting my skeptical comment. I was genuinely surprised by how helpful it was! The interface broke down exactly what the IRS was claiming, explained the gift tax rules in plain English, and gave me a custom response letter. It pointed out that since my parents were the gift givers, THEY would be responsible for any gift tax (not me), and that the annual exclusion covered most of it anyway. The system even flagged that I should include bank statements showing the source of funds. Just got confirmation from the IRS yesterday that the case is closed with no taxes due! Wish I'd known about this tool sooner.

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Ava Johnson

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Ava Johnson

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Miguel Diaz

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Make sure you respond by the deadline on the notice! The IRS automatically issues CP2000 notices when there's a mismatch between reported income and what financial institutions report. Banks report large deposits through currency transaction reports, but they don't indicate whether it's taxable income or not.

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Zainab Ahmed

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Is there a specific form the parents need to fill out to confirm this was a gift under the annual exclusion? I always thought there was paperwork for the giver.

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Miguel Diaz

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The parents would only need to file Form 709 (Gift Tax Return) if their gift exceeded the annual exclusion amount per recipient. For 2022, that threshold was $16,000 per person. So if both parents contributed to the gift, each could give up to $16,000 (total $32,000) without any filing requirement. For responding to the IRS notice, there's no specific form the parents need to complete. A simple signed and dated statement explaining the gift (including amount, date, occasion, and relationship) should suffice. Including evidence like copies of checks, transfer receipts, or bank statements showing the source of funds would strengthen the case.

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Connor Byrne

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Have you checked if this is actually a legit IRS notice? There are tons of scams going around. A real IRS CP2000 notice always comes with your tax ID number and specific information about the discrepancy. The IRS also never asks for payment directly in their first notice about an issue.

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Yara Abboud

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This is an excellent point. I got a fake IRS letter once that looked really convincing! You can call the IRS directly (using the number from their official website, not the letter) to confirm if they actually sent you something.

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