How to switch filing status after separation when marriage was in foreign country?

I separated from my husband near the end of last year and I'm trying to figure out my tax situation. We got married in his home country overseas, but they don't have the same marriage documentation process as the US does. Now I'm wondering what kind of proof I need to provide to the IRS if I want to change my filing status from married to single for this year's taxes. Do I need to show separation documentation? The marriage was legal in his country but I'm not sure how to prove we're separated now or if I even need to. Has anyone dealt with changing filing status after separating from a spouse when the marriage happened abroad? Any advice would be super helpful - I'm lost on what documentation the IRS expects here.

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Madison Tipne

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This is actually a common question when dealing with international marriages. For tax purposes, the IRS generally recognizes marriages that are valid in the country where they were performed. Since you were legally married in your partner's country, the IRS would have considered you married. However, when it comes to changing your filing status after separation, what matters is your marital status on the last day of the tax year (December 31, 2024). If you weren't legally divorced or separated under a decree of divorce or separate maintenance by December 31, you're technically still considered married for tax purposes. Your options are either "married filing separately" or "married filing jointly" unless you qualify for Head of Household status (which has specific requirements like having a dependent and paying more than half the costs of maintaining a home). The IRS doesn't typically ask for "proof" of your filing status unless you're audited, but keeping documentation of your separation like separate addresses, separate financial accounts, or legal separation documents would be helpful if questioned.

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Madison Tipne

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That's correct - if you're still legally married on December 31 (the last day of the tax year), the IRS generally considers you married for the entire year regardless of how long you've been separated. Without a final divorce decree or legal separation document, your options would be "married filing separately" or "married filing jointly." If you have a qualifying dependent and meet other requirements, you might qualify for Head of Household status even while legally married if you lived apart from your spouse for the last 6 months of the year. This can be more beneficial than married filing separately.

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Malia Ponder

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Joshua Hellan

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The IRS never specifically questioned my international marriage documentation. What seemed to matter more was proving my living situation for Head of Household status - I kept utility bills, rent receipts, and childcare documents showing I maintained the household separately. For your situation without children, you're right that Head of Household wouldn't apply. Since you don't have a formal divorce or legal separation yet, the IRS would technically still consider you married on December 31st. Married Filing Separately would likely be your only option unless you can finalize a legal separation document before the end of the year.

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