Married to a Japanese citizen overseas - how do I file US taxes now?
So I got married in Japan about 6 months ago to my Japanese partner. We had a beautiful ceremony there with her family, but we didn't do any paperwork in the US. She's staying in Japan for now and doesn't plan to move to America - I'm actually planning to relocate there to be with her sometime next year. I'm confused about my tax filing status now. Do I still file as single since we didn't get married in the US? Or can I file as married even though my spouse isn't a US citizen and doesn't live here? She doesn't have a social security number or ITIN either. I've always just filed as single before, but now I'm not sure what the correct way to handle this is. Does anyone have experience with international marriages and US tax filing? Any advice would be really appreciated since I'm kinda lost on this whole situation.
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Natasha Volkov
If you're legally married in Japan, that marriage is recognized by the US government for tax purposes. The location of your marriage doesn't matter - what matters is your legal status on December 31st of the tax year. You have two options: "Married Filing Jointly" or "Married Filing Separately." To file jointly, your Japanese spouse would need an ITIN (Individual Taxpayer Identification Number) since she doesn't have an SSN. Filing jointly means reporting both your income and hers to the IRS. Alternatively, you can choose "Married Filing Separately" which might make more sense in your situation. This way, you only report your own income, but you may lose certain tax benefits that come with filing jointly. Since you're planning to move to Japan, you should also know that US citizens must file US tax returns regardless of where they live. However, the Foreign Earned Income Exclusion and Foreign Tax Credit can help prevent double taxation.
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Javier Torres
•Thank you for that info! If I file jointly with my spouse, does that mean all of her Japanese income would be subject to US taxes? She works full-time in Japan. Also, how complicated is it to get an ITIN for her if she's not physically present in the US?
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Natasha Volkov
•If you file jointly, yes, all of her worldwide income would need to be reported on your US tax return. However, the US has a tax treaty with Japan that helps prevent double taxation through foreign tax credits. Getting an ITIN doesn't require physical presence in the US. You'd submit Form W-7 along with your tax return and documentation proving her identity (like a certified copy of her passport). You can also apply through an IRS-authorized Acceptance Agent in Japan, which might be easier. The process typically takes 7-11 weeks.
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Emma Wilson
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QuantumLeap
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Malik Johnson
•I'm kinda skeptical about these online services. How accurate is it with international tax situations? Did it help with figuring out whether you should file jointly or separately?
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Emma Wilson
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Malik Johnson
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Isabella Santos
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Ravi Sharma
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Freya Larsen
One thing to consider - if your Japanese spouse has no US source income, you might be better off filing as "married filing separately" rather than going through the hassle of getting an ITIN and filing jointly. My wife is German, lives in Germany, and has no US income. I've been filing as married filing separately for years with no issues. The main downside is you lose some tax credits and deductions, but depending on your situation, the simplicity might be worth it. Plus, you won't have to deal with reporting your spouse's foreign accounts on FBAR forms if you keep finances separate.
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Oliver Schmidt
•Thanks for this perspective! My partner does only have Japanese income and we keep our finances mostly separate for now. Would I have to report her Japanese bank accounts on the FBAR if we file separately? And would you happen to know which specific tax benefits I'd be giving up?
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Freya Larsen
•If you file separately and don't have any interest in her accounts (no joint accounts and no legal right to withdraw), you generally don't need to report her accounts on your FBAR. As for tax benefits you'd give up when filing separately: you can't claim earned income credit, you get reduced child and dependent care credit, you can't take education credits like the American Opportunity Credit, traditional IRA deductions may be limited, and you'll have a lower income threshold for itemizing medical expenses. The standard deduction is also exactly half of what joint filers get. Plus, if your spouse itemizes, you must also itemize even if the standard deduction would be better for you.
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Omar Hassan
Don't forget that once you move to Japan you'll need to file Form 2555 for the Foreign Earned Income Exclusion! This is huge - it lets you exclude up to $128,750 (for 2025) of foreign earned income from US taxation if you meet either the physical presence test or bona fide residence test.
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Chloe Taylor
•And remember that the FEIE only applies to earned income like salary - not investment income, rental income, etc. You'll still owe US tax on those unless you use foreign tax credits.
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Diego Vargas
I went through this exact situation when I married my Korean spouse! A few additional things to consider that I learned the hard way: If you decide to get your wife an ITIN and file jointly, be prepared for the timeline - it can take 7-11 weeks to get the ITIN, and you might need to file for an extension if you're doing this during tax season. Also, make sure to get certified copies of her passport from the Japanese consulate or use an IRS-authorized Certifying Acceptance Agent in Japan rather than trying to mail original documents. One thing I wish someone had told me: if your wife has any financial accounts in Japan with your name on them (even just as a beneficiary), you might need to report those on Form 8938 (FATCA) in addition to FBAR, depending on the account values. The thresholds are different for overseas residents. Also, since you're planning to move to Japan, start keeping detailed records of your time outside the US now. You'll need this for the Foreign Earned Income Exclusion physical presence test. I use a simple spreadsheet tracking entry/exit dates - it's saved me so much headache come tax time! Good luck with everything, and congratulations on your marriage!
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Amina Bah
•This is incredibly helpful advice, thank you! I had no idea about the Form 8938 requirement - that could have been a nasty surprise. Quick question about the record keeping for the physical presence test: do I need to track partial days too, or just full days outside the US? And when you say "certified copies from the Japanese consulate," do you mean the US consulate in Japan, or can Japanese government offices provide the certification that the IRS accepts? Also, did you end up filing jointly or separately with your Korean spouse? I'm still torn between the two options.
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