American married to Filipina in December - filing taxes while waiting for paperwork?
I'm in a bit of a situation and could use some tax advice. I just got married this past December to my amazing wife who lives in the Philippines. She's a Filipino citizen and we're currently going through all the paperwork to bring her to the US to live with me. The thing is, we're still waiting on the Philippine government to fully process our marriage certificate and documentation. My question is about filing my 2024 taxes - how does my marriage status affect my tax filing if we don't have all the paperwork finalized yet? Can I file as "married" even though she's still overseas and we're waiting for the Philippine government to complete processing our marriage license? I'm not sure if I should just file as single until she's physically here in the States or if I can (or should) file as married already. Any advice would be super helpful!
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Isaiah Thompson
Your marital status for tax purposes is determined by your status on the last day of the tax year (December 31st). If you were legally married in December, you're considered married for the entire tax year, regardless of whether all the paperwork has been fully processed. You have two options: you can file as "married filing jointly" or "married filing separately." For joint filing, your wife would need a tax ID number (either a Social Security Number or an Individual Taxpayer Identification Number - ITIN). If she doesn't have either of these yet, you would likely need to file as "married filing separately" for now. Keep in mind that filing status affects tax brackets, standard deduction amounts, and eligibility for certain credits. Generally, "married filing jointly" provides better tax benefits than "married filing separately," but your specific situation with a non-resident alien spouse makes things a bit more complex.
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Ruby Garcia
•Thanks for the info! But what if we got married in the Philippines but the paperwork isn't fully processed by their government yet? Does that mean we're not technically legally married for US tax purposes until that's done?
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Isaiah Thompson
•If your marriage was legally performed according to Philippine law, you're considered married for US tax purposes, even if some administrative paperwork is still being processed. What matters is whether the ceremony satisfied the legal requirements of the Philippines, not whether you have received the final documentation. If you're unsure about the status of your marriage under Philippine law, you might want to consult with someone familiar with Philippine marriage requirements. But generally, if you had a ceremony that was recognized as legal where it took place, the US will recognize that marriage for tax purposes.
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Benjamin Carter
•I'm curious - did you end up filing jointly or separately that first year? And did you have to wait for the ITIN before filing or is there a way around that?
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Alexander Evans
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Connor Murphy
Hey man, when did you actually get married? Like what exact date in December? Because there's a rule about being married on Dec 31st determining your whole year status. If you got married Dec 30th versus Dec 2nd, it's the same for tax purposes.
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Jessica Nguyen
•We got married on December 18th. So based on what others have said, I guess that means I'm considered married for the entire 2024 tax year since we were married on December 31st? Even if she's still in the Philippines?
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Connor Murphy
•Yep, December 18th means you're definitely considered married for the entire 2024 tax year. The IRS only cares about your status on December 31st - whether you were married for 11 months or 2 weeks doesn't matter for determining filing status. And yes, this applies even though your wife is still in the Philippines. Her physical location doesn't change your marital status for tax purposes. The more important question will be whether she's a US resident for tax purposes (probably not yet) and whether she has a SSN or ITIN for filing.
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KhalilStar
Has anyone gone through the process of getting an ITIN for their foreign spouse? I'm in a similar situation (married in Colombia in November) and have no idea how to start that process. Does the spouse need to be physically present in the US to apply?
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Amelia Dietrich
•You don't need your spouse to be physically present in the US to get an ITIN. When I got one for my wife (from Vietnam), I submitted Form W-7 along with our tax return and certified copies of her passport. You can also use a Certified Acceptance Agent who can verify the documents without sending originals. The whole process took about 8 weeks for us.
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