How to handle SSA 1099 for child's Survivor's Benefits when custody changed mid-year?
My son receives survivor's benefits from SSA after his dad passed away in 2018. He has been living with my brother and sister-in-law for the past several years, but in August 2024, I became his primary caretaker again. The problem is that I just received a SSA 1099 showing ALL of his benefits for 2024, even though I only received the payments from September through December. My brother and sister-in-law had him from January through August and received those payments. Since I'm now the custodian on record with SSA, I think they just automatically sent the entire year's 1099 to me. I'm confused about how to handle this for tax purposes - do I report the full amount even though I didn't receive all the money? Should my brother and sister-in-law be reporting their portion somewhere? Any advice on how to properly handle SSA 1099 for Survivor's Benefits in this situation would be greatly appreciated.
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Sofia Martinez
This is actually a common situation with SSA 1099 forms when representative payees change during the year. The SSA typically issues only one 1099 to the person who is the representative payee at the end of the year, which is why you received the form for the entire year's benefits. You should only report the portion of benefits that you actually received (September-December) on your tax return. Your brother and sister-in-law should report the portion they received (January-August) on their tax return, even though they didn't receive a 1099 form. To handle this correctly, you should: 1) Calculate the exact amount you received (Sept-Dec payments) 2) Write a letter to attach to your tax return explaining the situation 3) Report only your portion on your return 4) Give your brother and sister-in-law a statement showing the amount they received so they can report it correctly The IRS understands this happens with SSA benefits and representative payee changes during the year.
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Dylan Mitchell
•Thank you for the clear explanation! Do I need to get any documentation from SSA to verify which payments I received versus which ones my brother and sister-in-law received? Or is my own record of the deposits sufficient? Also, should I have my brother and sister-in-law sign the statement I give them acknowledging the amount they received, or is that unnecessary?
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Sofia Martinez
•Your own records of deposits should be sufficient if they clearly show when the payments started coming to you. If you have access to your SSA online account, you can print a benefit verification letter that shows when your representative payee status began, which would be helpful additional documentation. Having your brother and sister-in-law sign an acknowledgment isn't strictly necessary, but it's a good practice. I recommend creating a simple statement showing the total benefit amount from the 1099, the portion they received, and the portion you received. Both parties signing this creates a clear paper trail if there are ever any questions.
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Yara Khoury
You might also want to contact the local SSA office directly about getting a corrected 1099 or a letter clarifying the situation. I've had luck with them issuing documentation that shows exactly which payments went to which representative payee. Also, make sure you're clear on whether these benefits are taxable - in many cases, survivor's benefits paid to children aren't taxable to the child or the custodian unless the child has other income that pushes them over the threshold. So this might be more about having correct documentation than actually owing any tax.
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Dylan Mitchell
•Thanks for bringing that up! I wasn't even thinking about whether the benefits are taxable or not. My son doesn't have any other income, so does that mean we don't need to report these benefits at all? Or do we still need to report them even if no tax is owed?
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Yara Khoury
•If the survivor benefits are your son's only income and the total is under the filing threshold (which for a dependent in 2024 is pretty low), then he likely doesn't need to file a tax return at all. These benefits are potentially taxable to the child, not to you as the parent/custodian. However, even if no return is required, it's still good practice to document the split payments situation in case there are ever questions about why the full 1099 amount isn't showing up on anyone's return. I'd recommend keeping a record showing that the benefits were split between households, along with documentation of when you became the representative payee.
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Keisha Taylor
Has anyone dealt with the SSA sending a corrected 1099? I had a similar situation and found out you can request a statement from them called a "Proof of Income Letter" that breaks down which payments were sent to which representative payee. Might be worth looking into.
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StardustSeeker
•I did this last year! You can request the Proof of Income Letter (sometimes called a Budget Letter) through your my Social Security online account. It shows month-by-month what was paid out. Super helpful for situations like this. Much easier than trying to get a corrected 1099 issued.
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