How do wealthy individuals transfer property & assets to children using trusts to avoid taxes?
So I've been helping my aging parents organize their finances (they're not super rich but have a decent home and some investments) and I'm curious how the really wealthy manage to pass down their stuff without getting destroyed by taxes. I've heard trusts mentioned but don't really understand how they work. Like if someone owns property worth millions or has a lot of investments, how do they use trusts to get those to their kids without the government taking a huge chunk? Are there different types of trusts? And what makes them better than just leaving everything in a will? I'm trying to understand the basics here so I can have an informed conversation with my parents about their options.
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StellarSurfer
Trust attorney here, happy to provide some general info! Wealthy individuals typically use several types of trusts to transfer assets to their children while minimizing tax implications. Irrevocable trusts are particularly useful because assets placed in these trusts are no longer considered part of your taxable estate, reducing estate tax exposure. There are specific variations like Grantor Retained Annuity Trusts (GRATs) where you can transfer appreciating assets while retaining income for a term, and when the term ends, the assets go to beneficiaries with minimal gift tax. Generation-skipping trusts allow assets to be passed to grandchildren directly, potentially avoiding a layer of estate taxes. Charitable remainder trusts let you donate assets to charity while continuing to receive income, providing both income tax deductions and estate tax benefits.
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Sean Kelly
•Thanks for the info! Question: If someone puts their house in an irrevocable trust, can they still live in it? And what about step-up in basis - do you lose that benefit with trusts?
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StellarSurfer
•Yes, you can continue living in your house after transferring it to an irrevocable trust through what's called a Qualified Personal Residence Trust (QPRT). You maintain the right to live there for a specified term, after which ownership transfers to your beneficiaries. This can significantly reduce the gift tax value of the property. Regarding step-up in basis, that's an important consideration. Assets in irrevocable trusts generally don't receive a step-up in basis upon death, which is one downside. However, assets in revocable living trusts do get the step-up benefit. This is why estate planning often involves weighing the estate tax benefits against potential capital gains tax implications for heirs.
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Zara Malik
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Luca Greco
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Nia Thompson
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Zara Malik
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Nia Thompson
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Mateo Rodriguez
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Aisha Hussain
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GalacticGladiator
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Mateo Rodriguez
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GalacticGladiator
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Ethan Brown
One thing nobody's mentioned yet is Dynasty Trusts. If you're REALLY wealthy, some states allow these perpetual trusts that can theoretically last forever and keep assets growing tax-free for generations. They basically skip multiple rounds of estate tax. Nevada, South Dakota, and Alaska have the most favorable laws for these. My family set one up in SD and it's wild how much can be preserved with proper planning.
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Yuki Yamamoto
•Do these dynasty trusts actually work though? I thought the generation-skipping tax was specifically created to prevent this kind of perpetual trust situation. Aren't there limits?
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Ethan Brown
•You're right that there's a generation-skipping transfer tax (GSTT), but each person currently has an exemption of $13.61 million (as of 2024) from this tax. For married couples, that's over $27 million that can go into a dynasty trust without triggering GSTT. Once assets are in the dynasty trust and protected by the exemption, all future growth happens outside the estate tax system. So if you fund the trust with assets that will appreciate significantly or with life insurance, the value can grow far beyond the initial exemption amount without any additional transfer taxes for future generations.
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Carmen Ruiz
Can someone explain the difference between revocable and irrevocable trusts in simple terms? I keep getting confused about which one is better for tax purposes.
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Andre Lefebvre
•Revocable trust = you maintain control and can change/cancel it, but NO tax benefits since assets are still considered yours. Irrevocable trust = once assets go in, you can't take them back or change terms easily, BUT they're no longer part of your taxable estate, so big potential tax savings. Basically trading control for tax benefits.
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Zoe Dimitriou
I work as a financial advisor and wanted to add that life insurance trusts (ILITs) are another powerful tool wealthy families use. Life insurance proceeds are generally income-tax free, but still count toward your taxable estate. By creating an irrevocable life insurance trust that owns the policy, the death benefit stays outside your estate. This can provide liquidity for heirs to pay estate taxes on illiquid assets (like businesses or real estate) without having to sell them quickly at potentially reduced values.
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Aisha Hussain
•That's fascinating. So the trust owns the policy, not the person? How do premiums get paid? Wouldn't that be considered a gift to the trust?
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Zoe Dimitriou
•Exactly - the trust owns the policy, not the individual. For premium payments, the grantor makes cash gifts to the trust, and then the trustee uses those funds to pay the premiums. Yes, these premium payments are considered gifts to the trust beneficiaries, but that's where the annual gift tax exclusion comes in ($17,000 per beneficiary in 2023). To qualify for this exclusion, beneficiaries need "present interest" in the gifts, so trusts typically include "Crummey powers" - named after the court case that established them - giving beneficiaries temporary withdrawal rights over contributions. Most never exercise these rights, allowing the trustee to use the funds for premium payments instead.
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