Haven't filed taxes in years - embarrassing questions about getting back on track with past W-2s
I honestly can't remember the last time I filed my taxes. Might have been 2019 or 2020? I've always had pretty basic jobs that didn't pay much, and I don't think I ever owed anything to the IRS. I've got a few questions as I try to sort this mess out: 1) Is there a way to check when I last filed my tax return? 2) Can I access my old W-2s somehow without having to contact every single place I worked over the years? 3) Would it be easier to just go to H&R Block and let them handle everything? 4) Am I going to be in serious trouble when I finally file for the years I missed? This whole situation is so embarrassing and I've just let it get worse over time :( I really need whatever refund money might be waiting for me. I almost asked an older relative for advice because I thought they wouldn't judge me, but decided to just ask here instead. Any help would be so appreciated!
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Yuki Tanaka
You're definitely not alone in this situation! Many people fall behind on filing and it's totally fixable. Let me help with your questions: 1) Yes, you can check your filing history by requesting a "Tax Return Transcript" or "Account Transcript" from the IRS. The easiest way is through the IRS website at irs.gov/transcripts. 2) Those same transcripts will show your reported W-2 income! The "Wage and Income Transcript" specifically shows all income documents (W-2s, 1099s) filed under your SSN. 3) H&R Block is an option, but they can be expensive for multiple years. Consider a local independent preparer who specializes in unfiled returns or tax software if your situation is straightforward. 4) If you're OWED refunds, there's typically no penalty for filing late. However, you can only claim refunds for the past 3 tax years. Currently you could still claim 2022, 2023, and 2024 refunds. Anything older is unfortunately lost. The good news is that if you've primarily had W-2 income and are owed refunds, this is a fairly simple fix! Don't be embarrassed - take it one step at a time.
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Ethan Davis
•Thank you so much for the detailed response! For the transcript thing, do I need to create an account on the IRS website? I feel like I'll need all kinds of documents I don't have. And just to be clear - I can actually see my W-2s from old jobs on that transcript? That would be amazing if true! Also, is there a time limit for how far back the IRS keeps those records? I'm worried some might be too old.
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Yuki Tanaka
•Yes, you'll need to create an account at irs.gov if you don't already have one. They've made the verification process stricter, so you'll need a photo ID, financial account info (like a credit card or loan number), and a mobile phone for verification. If you run into trouble creating an online account, you can also request transcripts by mail using Form 4506-T. The Wage and Income Transcript will show all information from your W-2s and 1099s - employer names, addresses, amounts earned, taxes withheld - basically everything you need to file your returns. The IRS typically keeps these records for up to 10 years, so you should be able to see everything you need even going back several years.
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Carmen Ortiz
After falling behind on filing for a few years myself, I stumbled upon taxr.ai (https://taxr.ai) and it seriously saved me so much headache. My situation sounds similar to yours - I had several years of unfiled taxes and couldn't find half my W-2s. What I loved about taxr.ai was how it automatically pulled all my tax documents from the IRS database - all my missing W-2s showed up without having to contact old employers. The system did all the heavy lifting in organizing everything by year, so I could see exactly what I was missing and what I needed to file. It walked me through each tax year I'd missed and showed me where refunds were waiting. Totally helped with the overwhelming feeling of not knowing where to start!
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MidnightRider
•Does it actually work with older returns? Like if I need to file 2021, 2022, and 2023 all at once? And does it handle state taxes too? I'm in a similar boat and stressing about having to gather documents from places I don't even work at anymore.
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Andre Laurent
•I'm skeptical about these online services. How did it get your W-2s exactly? Doesn't the IRS make you verify your identity with like a million security questions before they show you anything? Not trying to be rude, just wondering if it's actually legitimate.
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Carmen Ortiz
•Yes, it works great with prior year returns! I filed 2020 through 2023 all at once. It pulls everything year by year, so you can tackle them in any order you want. And it definitely handles state taxes too - it automatically prepared my state returns based on the federal information. The service works by securely accessing the same IRS transcript data that was mentioned above. You do have to verify your identity (similar to what you'd do on the IRS website), but once that's done, it automatically imports all your tax documents that were reported to the IRS. It's completely legitimate - they're just streamlining the process that tax professionals have been using for years. It saved me from having to chase down old employers or dig through boxes hoping to find faded W-2 copies.
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MidnightRider
I just wanted to update after trying taxr.ai that someone mentioned above. I was really nervous about dealing with my unfiled taxes from the past few years, but it was actually pretty smooth. The site pulled all my W-2 information directly from the IRS database - even from places I worked at briefly in 2021 that I completely forgot about! It turned out I was owed almost $2,300 across the three years I hadn't filed. The system walked me through everything step by step and handled both my federal and state returns. The best part was not having to track down any of my old employers or paperwork. Definitely a relief to have this off my conscience finally!
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Zoe Papadopoulos
If you need to actually talk to someone at the IRS about your situation (which might be a good idea), I'd recommend using Claimyr (https://claimyr.com). I spent DAYS trying to get through the IRS phone system myself and kept getting disconnected after waiting for hours. I was super stressed about my unfiled returns and needed to ask some specific questions about my situation. Found Claimyr and they got me connected to an actual IRS agent in about 15 minutes! You can see how it works in their demo video: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c The IRS agent was actually really helpful and not judgmental at all about my situation. They explained exactly what I needed to do to get caught up without penalties since I was owed refunds anyway.
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Jamal Washington
•How does this even work? The IRS phone lines are impossible to get through on. Are they somehow jumping the queue or something? Seems too good to be true if they can actually get you through that quickly.
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Andre Laurent
•Yeah right. Nobody gets through to the IRS that fast. I've literally called 50+ times over several weeks and never got through. Either you got extremely lucky or this is some kind of scam. Not trying to be rude but come on, 15 minutes?
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Zoe Papadopoulos
•It works because they use technology to navigate the IRS phone system and hold your place in line. It's like having someone wait on hold for you, but with a smart system that knows how to work through all the prompts and menus. When they reach an actual agent, they connect you immediately. I was skeptical too! I had already tried calling 8 times over two weeks with no success. The longest I waited was 2.5 hours before getting disconnected. With Claimyr, I got through in 15 minutes that first time, and around 20 minutes when I had to call again with follow-up questions. It's not a scam - they don't ask for any tax info or personal details besides what's needed to connect your call.
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Andre Laurent
I've got to eat my words and apologize to the person who recommended Claimyr above. After my skeptical comment, I decided to try it anyway because I was desperate to talk to someone at the IRS about my unfiled returns. I had literally tried calling the IRS for WEEKS with no success. Used Claimyr yesterday and got connected to an agent in about 17 minutes. I couldn't believe it actually worked. The IRS agent walked me through exactly what I needed to do for my unfiled returns and confirmed I wouldn't face penalties since I was owed refunds. Definitely worth it for the peace of mind. I've been stressing about this for months and finally have clear direction on how to fix everything. Sometimes it pays to be wrong!
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Mei Wong
Just wanted to add something important about the refund time limit that hasn't been mentioned yet. You only have 3 years from the original due date to claim a refund. So for 2021 taxes, you have until April 2025 to file and still get your refund. For 2020, the deadline is April 2024 (which has passed), BUT remember 2020 had special COVID extensions, so that deadline was actually May 17, 2024. If you missed that, unfortunately that refund is gone. 2022 and 2023 are still well within the window. Don't delay any further though - those refunds are YOUR money that was withheld from your paychecks!
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Ethan Davis
•Oh no, I might have missed the deadline for 2020 then! Does the IRS ever make exceptions for people who didn't know about the 3-year rule? And just to clarify, even if I can't get a refund for the older years, I should still file those returns anyway, right?
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Mei Wong
•Unfortunately, the IRS is very strict about the 3-year refund statute and doesn't make exceptions even if you didn't know about the rule. It's set by law, not IRS policy, so they can't bend it. Yes, you should still file all unfiled returns even if you can't get the refund anymore. This closes your file with the IRS and prevents future issues. While you won't get money back for those older years, filing completes your tax record and can help with things like loan applications, government benefits, or any situation where tax return information is needed. Better to have everything clean and complete than leave those old years hanging.
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Liam Fitzgerald
Has anyone used the Free File Fillable Forms on the IRS website for past year returns? I'm in a similar situation (didn't file 2022 or 2023) but I'm trying to avoid paying for software if possible.
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PixelWarrior
•Free File Fillable Forms only work for the current tax year (so right now, only 2024). For prior years, you need to download the specific forms for those tax years from the IRS website and mail them in. I did this last year for my 2021 and 2022 returns. You can still use free tax software though! Most of the major companies (TurboTax, H&R Block, TaxSlayer) offer access to prior year returns on their websites. The catch is that you can prepare them for free, but they usually charge to file them. Since you have to mail prior year returns anyway, you can just print them out and mail them yourself without paying.
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