Do I need to file a 1099 for my mother who babysits my child?

You've got a few things to consider here regarding childcare provided by a family member. Let me break it down: 1. Yes, your mother should technically report this as income. The IRS considers payment for services as taxable income regardless of family relationship. There's no "family exemption" for income reporting. 2. You don't need to provide a 1099-NEC for household employees like babysitters. Childcare providers are considered household employees rather than independent contractors in most cases. The 1099-NEC is for independent contractors. 3. Yes, you can claim the Child and Dependent Care Credit using Form 2441 if you paid your mother for childcare so you could work or look for work. The credit is indeed calculated at a percentage of your qualifying expenses (up to $3,000 for one child), but the percentage varies based on your income - it could be between 20-35%. So your credit could be up to $600 if you're in the 20% bracket. Important: To claim the credit, you'll need to provide your mother's name, address, and SSN or Tax ID on Form 2441. This means she definitely needs to report the income, as the IRS will be looking for it on her return once you claim the credit.

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Something to consider - if your mom is retired and collecting Social Security, the babysitting income might impact her benefits depending on how much she's earning and her age. If she's under full retirement age, earnings above certain limits can reduce her Social Security payments. For 2025, if she's under full retirement age for the whole year, $1 in benefits is deducted for every $2 she earns above $21,240. Might be worth checking into!

Don't forget that if your mom provides childcare in YOUR home rather than hers, the tax situation changes. She might actually be considered a household employee (like a nanny) rather than self-employed. If that's the case, you might need to pay employment taxes (Social Security and Medicare). There's a household employment tax threshold ($2,600 for 2025), and if you paid her more than that in a calendar year, you'd need to look into "nanny taxes" using Schedule H with your tax return. It gets complicated quickly!

Just want to add another consideration that often gets overlooked - make sure to keep detailed records of all payments to your mom throughout the year. The IRS recommends maintaining records like cancelled checks, bank statements, or receipts showing dates and amounts paid. Since you mentioned paying around $5,500, you're well above the household employment threshold that StormChaser mentioned. Even if your mom ends up being classified as self-employed rather than a household employee, having clear documentation will be crucial if you're ever audited. Also, consider having a simple written agreement with your mom outlining the childcare arrangement, even though she's family. This can help establish whether she's truly self-employed (setting her own terms, rates, methods) or if she's more like a household employee (following your schedule and directions). The IRS looks at the degree of control you have over the work when making this determination. One last tip - if your mom does end up owing self-employment taxes on this income, she might want to make quarterly estimated tax payments for next year to avoid penalties, especially if this arrangement continues.