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Liam Brown

Confused about filing status - head of household vs single when supporting girlfriend?

I'm 22 and have been financially supporting my girlfriend completely for about 2 years now. I pay literally all our bills - rent, utilities, groceries, everything. We don't have any kids together, and I'm trying to figure out my tax filing status. I know I'm definitely not married filing jointly since we're not married, but I'm wondering if I qualify for head of household or if I need to file as single? I'm paying 100% of our household expenses and have been the sole provider, but I'm not sure if my girlfriend counts as a qualifying person for HOH status since we're not related and don't have children. This is my third year filing taxes on my own, and I want to make sure I'm doing it right to get the best refund possible. Does anyone know the rules around this? I've heard head of household gives better tax benefits than single, but I don't want to file incorrectly and get in trouble with the IRS.

Olivia Garcia

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Head of household status requires you to have a "qualifying person" living with you, and unfortunately, a girlfriend doesn't qualify under IRS rules. For HOH, a qualifying person must be either your child, parent, or certain other relatives that you support. To claim HOH, you need to meet three requirements: 1) Be unmarried or considered unmarried on the last day of the year, 2) Pay more than half the cost of keeping up your home for the year, and 3) Have a qualifying person living with you for more than half the year (except for temporary absences). While you meet the first two requirements, your girlfriend isn't considered a qualifying person according to IRS definitions. This means you'll need to file as single for now.

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Noah Lee

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Wait so what if they have been living together for more than 5 years? Does common law marriage count for anything tax wise?

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Olivia Garcia

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Common law marriage only applies for tax purposes if your state legally recognizes common law marriages. Only a handful of states do, and even then, you typically need to present yourselves as married to the community, not just live together for a period of time. Even in states that recognize common law marriage, simply living together doesn't automatically create this status - you generally need to present yourselves as a married couple to friends, family and the community. If your state does recognize your relationship as a common law marriage, then you could file as married filing jointly or married filing separately, not head of household.

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Jacob Lewis

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Just wanted to add that while your girlfriend doesn't qualify you for HOH, if you ever have a child together, you could potentially qualify even without being married. The child would be your qualifying person, not your girlfriend. Something to keep in mind for future tax planning if you're thinking about starting a family.

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Liam Brown

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Thanks for this info! We're actually thinking about having kids in the next year or two, so that's really good to know. If we have a child, would I automatically qualify for HOH or are there other requirements I'd need to meet?

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Jacob Lewis

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You'd still need to meet the other HOH requirements - paying more than half the cost of keeping up the home where your child lives for more than half the year, and being unmarried or considered unmarried. But yes, your child would be a qualifying person, allowing you to file as HOH which would give you better tax rates and a higher standard deduction compared to filing as single. If both you and your girlfriend are the child's parents, only one of you can claim HOH, typically the parent who has the higher adjusted gross income if the child lives with both of you equally.

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you might wanna also look into claiming your girlfriend as a dependent if she made less than $4,400 in 2024 and you provided more than half her support. won't get you HOH status but could still give you a tax break!

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Ethan Clark

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This is right! I claim my brother as a dependent because he's in college and I support him. Saved me about $500 on my taxes last year. The key is they can't have much income and you have to provide more than half their total support for the year.

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Liam Brown

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Oh wow, I didn't even think about this! She only worked part-time last year and made around $3,500 total. I definitely provided way more than half her support. Does she need to be related to me to claim her as a dependent?

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