Can someone help explain gift tax and unified credit lifetime limits?

So here's how the gift tax and unified credit work in simpler terms: Yes, for 2025 you can give up to $18,000 per person per year without any reporting requirements. This is called the "annual exclusion" amount. Anything over that amount requires you to file a gift tax return (Form 709), but that doesn't mean you'll actually pay tax on it. The unified credit is basically your lifetime exemption from gift and estate taxes. As of 2025, you can give away up to $13.61 million during your lifetime (or at death) before any actual gift or estate taxes are owed. The term "unified" means this exemption applies to both gifts during life and transfers at death. For your situation with the $120,000 for your son's down payment, you'd need to file a gift tax return to report the amount over $18,000, but you wouldn't owe any actual tax unless you've already used up your lifetime exemption of $13.61 million. The gift tax return essentially just keeps track of how much of your lifetime exemption you've used.

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Just to add another wrinkle to this conversation - if you're married, you and your spouse can "split" gifts, effectively doubling the annual exclusion amount to $36,000 per recipient. My wife and I helped our three kids with down payments last year, and we were able to give each of them $36,000 ($18k from each of us) without filing any gift tax forms at all. If you're helping with $120k for a house, you and your spouse could give $36k this year, $36k next year, $36k the year after, and $12k in the fourth year to avoid filing any paperwork. That said, if you need to give it all at once, filing the 709 form isn't that complicated. Just remember the filing deadline is the same as your regular tax return.

I'm wondering if anyone knows whether paying someone's medical bills or tuition directly counts towards this gift tax limit? My parents paid about $30k directly to my son's college last semester.

This is such a helpful thread! I'm dealing with a similar situation where I want to help my daughter with a business loan down payment. From what everyone's explained, it sounds like the key takeaway is that the annual $18k exclusion is more about paperwork convenience than actual tax liability. So if I understand correctly - I could give my daughter $75k all at once, file Form 709 to report the $57k over the annual limit, and as long as I haven't already given away $13.61 million in my lifetime (which I definitely haven't!), I won't owe any actual gift tax. The $57k just gets tracked against my lifetime exemption. One thing I'm still unclear on though - does the recipient (my daughter) have any tax obligations on gifts received? I want to make sure I'm not accidentally creating a tax burden for her by trying to help with her business.

This thread has been incredibly helpful! I'm in a similar boat - planning to help my granddaughter with her wedding expenses (around $45,000) and was totally confused by all the gift tax rules. From reading everyone's explanations, it sounds like I have a few options: I could spread it out over a couple years to stay under the annual exclusion, or just give it all at once and file Form 709 to report the excess against my lifetime exemption. Since I'm nowhere near that $13.61 million limit, I won't actually owe any taxes. What really puts my mind at ease is learning that my granddaughter won't have any tax burden from receiving the gift. I was worried I might accidentally create problems for her while trying to help. One quick question though - if I'm giving money specifically for wedding expenses, do I need to document what it's being used for, or can it just be a general gift? I want to make sure I handle the paperwork correctly.