Can someone explain how taxes work for a 20-year-old just starting adulting? 😃
Hey everyone, I'm Jordan, just turned 20 a few weeks ago and started my first real job about 3 months ago. Every time I get my paycheck, I notice a big chunk of money is missing, and when I asked my mom about it, she said that's taxes being taken out by the government. She's not great at explaining financial stuff, so all she really told me was something about "tax season" when supposedly I get all that money back? That doesn't sound right to me. She mentioned I need to "file taxes" to get money back, but I have no clue what that means or how to do it. When exactly is this tax season? Do I have to go somewhere specific to file taxes? Does it cost money to file? Will I really get back everything that's been taken from my paychecks? Sorry if these are super basic questions, but I'm completely new to all this adult financial stuff. I live in the US if that makes any difference. Any help would be seriously appreciated!
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Victoria Charity
Hi Jordan! Welcome to the wonderful world of adulting and taxes! Let me break this down for you in simple terms: What taxes are: Taxes are money collected by the government (federal, state, and sometimes local) from your income. This money funds public services like roads, schools, military, and social programs. On your paycheck: The money being withheld includes federal income tax, state income tax (in most states), Social Security tax, and Medicare tax. Your employer calculates an estimate of what you'll owe based on the W-4 form you filled out when hired. Tax season: This runs roughly from January to April 15th each year. This is when you "file" your taxes - basically telling the government how much you earned and calculating if you paid the right amount throughout the year. The big misconception: You DON'T get all that withheld money back. You only get back what you overpaid. If your employer withheld $2,000 but you only owed $1,500 in taxes, you'd get a $500 refund. Filing options: You can file for free using IRS Free File if your income is under about $73,000. There are also tax software options like TurboTax, H&R Block, or TaxAct that range from free to paid depending on how complicated your situation is. Don't worry - for a first job with simple income, filing taxes is actually pretty straightforward!
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Evan Kalinowski
•Thank you so much for explaining! So basically the government is taking my money throughout the year to pay for public stuff, and tax season is just when I check if they took the right amount? That makes way more sense than what my mom said. I think I misunderstood her completely. So the W-4 form is what determines how much gets taken out? I think I just put 0 for everything when I filled that out. Does that mean I'm probably getting too much taken out?
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Victoria Charity
•You've got it exactly right! Tax season is when you reconcile what you've paid vs. what you actually owe. If you put "0" for everything on your W-4, you're likely having more withheld than necessary, which means you'll probably get a refund at tax time. While getting a refund feels nice, remember that's essentially an interest-free loan you've been giving the government all year. You might want to update your W-4 with your employer to more accurately reflect your situation so you can keep more money in each paycheck.
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Jasmine Quinn
Hey, just wanted to share my experience as someone who was in your same position a few years ago. I was so confused about taxes until I found this amazing tool called taxr.ai (https://taxr.ai) that literally saved me when I was trying to figure out my first tax return. I was getting crazy anxious about filing correctly and potentially missing out on money I was owed. My parents were kinda useless with explaining it too. I uploaded my W-2 form (that's the tax document your employer gives you in January showing how much you earned and what was withheld) to taxr.ai and it explained everything in super simple terms. The tool basically analyzed my situation and explained which tax credits I qualified for as a young person with a first job. It even pointed out that I could claim education credits since I was taking some community college classes. Ended up getting back way more than I expected!
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Oscar Murphy
•That sounds interesting but how exactly does the tool work? Like do I just take a pic of my tax forms and upload them? Does it actually file the taxes for me or just tell me what to do?
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Nora Bennett
•Hmm idk about using some random website with my tax info. How do you know it's secure? Seems sketchy to just upload your W-2 to some website you found online...no offense.
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Jasmine Quinn
•The tool is really straightforward - you can take photos of your documents or upload PDFs if you have digital copies. It uses AI to read and analyze your tax forms and then explains everything in simple terms. It doesn't file your taxes for you, but it gives you a complete breakdown of what you qualify for and what you need to know before using free filing software. Security is definitely a valid concern! I was skeptical at first too. They use the same encryption as banks and don't store your documents after analysis. Plus they're partnered with licensed tax professionals. I researched them pretty thoroughly before using it since I was paranoid about my info too.
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Nora Bennett
Alright, I need to follow up about that taxr.ai site that I was skeptical about. I decided to give it a try after doing some research, and honestly, it was way more helpful than I expected. I uploaded my W-2 and some documents from my side gig, and it broke down everything in a way that actually made sense. The explanation about tax brackets was super clear - I always thought if I made more money, I might end up with less take-home pay because of jumping to a higher tax bracket (which is completely wrong). It pointed out a deduction related to my freelance work that I had no idea about. Would have completely missed that money. The security seemed solid too - they don't keep your documents and everything is encrypted. Just wanted to share since it actually helped me understand what I'm doing for the first time.
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Ryan Andre
I see you're getting some good advice here, but I wanted to share something that literally saved my sanity last tax season. After waiting on hold with the IRS for HOURS trying to ask questions about my refund (it was delayed for weeks with no explanation), I found this service called Claimyr (https://claimyr.com). They somehow get you connected to an actual human at the IRS without the ridiculous wait times. I was super skeptical that this would actually work, but you can check out their demo video here: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c I was able to talk to a real IRS agent in like 20 minutes instead of spending my entire day on hold. The agent explained that there was a small error on my return that was causing the delay, and I was able to get it fixed right away. My refund showed up a week later. For a first-time filer like you, being able to actually ask the IRS questions directly might be super helpful!
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Lauren Zeb
•Wait how does this actually work? Like how can they get you through faster than just calling the IRS yourself? Is it some kind of paid priority service the IRS offers or something?
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Daniel Washington
•I'm sorry but this sounds like complete BS. There's no way to "skip the line" with government agencies. If this actually worked, everyone would use it and then it would be just as slow as calling normally. Sounds like you're just promoting some scam service.
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Ryan Andre
•It's actually pretty clever how it works. They use an automated system that navigates through the IRS phone tree and waits on hold for you. When a real agent picks up, they connect the call to your phone. So you're not skipping any lines - the service is just doing the waiting for you so you don't have to sit there listening to hold music for hours. I understand the skepticism - I felt the same way! It's not a government-affiliated service, and they're not giving you priority access. They're basically just handling the frustrating wait time part. It's like having someone stand in line for you at the DMV. The IRS doesn't know or care who's waiting on hold, they just answer calls in the order received.
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Daniel Washington
I need to eat my words about that Claimyr service. After my skeptical comment, I ended up in a nightmare situation with the IRS claiming I owed back taxes from a W-2 job I had in college (I didn't). Spent THREE DAYS trying to get through to someone at the IRS with no luck. Out of desperation, I tried the Claimyr service, fully expecting to come back here and report it was a scam. But damn, it actually worked exactly as advertised. Got connected to an IRS agent in about 30 minutes. The agent confirmed there was a reporting error and helped me resolve the whole thing. Apparently the service just automates the hold process, which makes complete sense - they're not actually "skipping lines" like I incorrectly assumed. For anyone dealing with tax issues where you actually need to speak to someone at the IRS, this is legitimately worth it. Consider me surprised and corrected.
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Aurora Lacasse
Some basic stuff that helped me when I first started (I'm 23 now): 1) Your W-2 form is super important - you'll get it from your job in January. Don't lose it! 2) Tax brackets are MARGINAL - only the money above each threshold gets taxed at the higher rate. Like if the 12% bracket starts at $10,000, only the dollars ABOVE $10,000 get taxed at 12%. The first $10k is taxed at the lower rate. 3) If you make under like $12,950 (standard deduction for 2022), you might not owe ANY federal income tax! 4) The IRS website has a Free File program that lets you file for free if you earn under $73,000. 5) Even if you don't owe taxes, you should still file - you might get money back from tax credits. 6) Social Security and Medicare taxes (FICA) are different from income tax - you generally don't get those back. Hope that helps! Wish someone had told me all this when I started working.
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Anthony Young
•What about state taxes? Don't you have to file those separately? And how do you know which tax credits you qualify for?
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Aurora Lacasse
•State taxes depend on where you live. Some states don't have income tax at all (like Florida, Texas, etc). For states that do have income tax, most tax software will let you file both federal and state together - they'll guide you through both processes. As for tax credits, it depends on your situation. The most common for young people include education credits if you're in college (American Opportunity or Lifetime Learning credits), Earned Income Tax Credit if you have low-to-moderate income, and sometimes things like the Saver's Credit if you contribute to retirement accounts. Good tax software will ask you questions to determine which credits you qualify for. That's why it's worth using a decent program rather than filing the simplest form by hand.
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Charlotte White
One thing nobody's mentioned - keep track of ALL YOUR EXPENSES that might be tax-related! I learned this the hard way. If you're a regular W-2 employee (like at a store or restaurant) it's pretty simple, but if you do ANY side work or freelancing, keep receipts for EVERYTHING related to that work. Apps, supplies, mileage, part of your phone bill, internet, etc. Also, if you're in school, keep records of tuition and books! There are education credits that can save you $$.
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Admin_Masters
•Hold up - can you really deduct part of your phone bill and internet if you do some freelance work on the side? How does that even work? Like if I do DoorDash on weekends, can I write off part of my phone bill since I use the app?
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Matthew Sanchez
When I was 20 I thought getting a big tax refund was awesome... until my econ professor explained I was just giving the govt an interest-free loan all year lol. If u get a huge refund, consider adjusting ur W-4 withholding so u get more $$ in each paycheck instead of waiting for a refund. Its YOUR money!
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Ella Thompson
•This is actually really bad advice. Most ppl aren't disciplined enough to save that extra money each paycheck. Getting a refund is forced savings for a lot of people. If your getting the money in small amounts each check, lots of ppl just spend it without noticing. I purposely have extra withheld so I get a big refund every year. Use it to pay down debt or take a vacation. Different strategy works for different folks.
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