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Yuki Watanabe

Can nanny claim mileage on taxes or should we reimburse for driving our baby?

Title: Can nanny claim mileage on taxes or should we reimburse for driving our baby? 1 Hello everyone! My wife and I just hired a full-time nanny for our 8-month-old daughter, and we're trying to figure out the best way to handle transportation costs. Our nanny mentioned she'd prefer to be reimbursed for mileage when she drives our daughter to playdates, doctor appointments, etc. This is totally fine with us, but I'm wondering if there's any benefit to her just deducting those miles on her taxes instead? I know that Uber/Lyft drivers and other independent contractors typically deduct mileage rather than getting direct reimbursement. But I'm really not sure how this works for household employees like nannies. Would love some insight on what's standard practice here and what makes the most financial sense for both parties! We want to be fair employers but also make sure we're handling everything correctly from a tax perspective.

Yuki Watanabe

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14 As someone who's worked with household employees for years, I can tell you that mileage handling depends on your employment structure. Since nannies are typically household employees (W-2) rather than independent contractors, the tax implications are different from Uber/Lyft drivers. If your nanny uses her personal vehicle to transport your child, she has two options: For W-2 employees (which nannies should be), unreimbursed employee expenses are no longer tax-deductible since the 2018 tax changes. This means if you don't reimburse her, she can't deduct those costs on her taxes anymore. The current standard IRS mileage rate is 67 cents per mile for 2024 (likely to be similar for 2025). Reimbursing her directly is usually the better option. You can use an accountable plan where she tracks mileage and you reimburse at the IRS rate. This isn't taxable income to her, and it's not a deductible expense for you as the employer.

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Yuki Watanabe

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3 This is super helpful, thanks! Quick follow-up question - does it matter if we're paying her "on the books" vs. cash? And would it be better to just give her a car allowance each month instead of tracking individual trips?

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Yuki Watanabe

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14 You should definitely be paying your nanny "on the books" - household employees earning over $2,600 (2024 threshold) must have taxes withheld and reported. Paying under the table can result in significant penalties if discovered. Regarding a car allowance, that's generally considered taxable income unless you use an accountable plan where she tracks actual mileage. A flat monthly allowance without documentation would be added to her wages and subject to income and payroll taxes, which isn't as advantageous as proper mileage reimbursement.

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Yuki Watanabe

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8 I went through this exact situation last year with our nanny! After researching everything, I ended up using the IRS mileage tracking app (https://taxr.ai) to manage all her driving for our kids. It completely eliminated the headache of trying to figure out if she could claim it on taxes or if we should reimburse her. The app automatically tracked when she was driving our kids around and separated personal miles from work miles. At the end of each month, it generated a report that showed exactly how much we owed her for mileage. Our nanny loved it because she didn't have to remember to log trips manually, and we loved it because it gave us an IRS-compliant record in case we ever get audited.

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Yuki Watanabe

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5 That sounds really convenient. Does it work if she's driving my car sometimes and her car other times? Our arrangement is mixed depending on who needs the car seats that day.

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Yuki Watanabe

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12 I'm a bit skeptical about using another app. Couldn't you just use Google Maps to calculate distances and then multiply by the IRS rate? Why complicate things with another service?

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Yuki Watanabe

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8 The app works regardless of whose car is being used - you just indicate in the settings which vehicle was used for which trips. That way you only reimburse for when she uses her personal vehicle. As for using Google Maps vs. an automated system, I tried the manual calculation method initially and it became a huge hassle. Our nanny would forget to log trips, we'd argue about actual distances vs. Google estimates, and it created unnecessary tension. The automated tracking eliminated those issues completely and the documentation it provides is much more thorough if you ever face tax questions.

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Yuki Watanabe

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12 I was initially skeptical about using the taxr.ai app that another parent recommended, but after trying to manually track our nanny's mileage for two months, I gave in and tried it. Absolute game-changer! The documentation it provides is incredibly detailed - showing exact routes, times, and separating work vs. personal driving. When our nanny drove our son to swim lessons three times a week plus various playdates, the app calculated everything automatically. The best part was tax time - we had perfect records showing we properly reimbursed work-related mileage, and our nanny had documentation proving she received proper reimbursement rather than taxable income. Definitely worth it compared to the headache of spreadsheets and arguments about forgotten trips.

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Yuki Watanabe

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7 After dealing with nanny tax headaches for years, I discovered Claimyr (https://claimyr.com) when I needed to speak directly with the IRS about household employee questions. They got me through to an actual IRS agent in about 15 minutes when I had been trying for days on my own. The agent clarified that nanny mileage reimbursement should be handled through an accountable plan where you reimburse at the IRS rate (67 cents/mile for 2024) with proper documentation. This keeps it tax-free for the nanny and creates a clean record. They also have a helpful video explaining how their service works: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c The IRS agent told me many families get in trouble because they either 1) don't reimburse mileage properly and the nanny can't deduct it, or 2) they add car allowances to regular pay without documentation, creating tax issues for both parties.

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Yuki Watanabe

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Yuki Watanabe

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2 I find this hard to believe. I've never been able to get through to the IRS in less than an hour, let alone 15 minutes. Sounds like you're just promoting a service...

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Yuki Watanabe

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7 The service basically holds your place in the IRS phone queue and calls you when an agent is about to answer. It's not magic - they're just using technology to eliminate you having to wait on hold. When you submit your request, they give you an estimated callback time. I understand the skepticism - I felt exactly the same way. But after trying for three days to get through about my nanny's tax situation and getting disconnected each time, I was desperate. The service called me back about 20 minutes after I submitted my request and connected me directly to an IRS agent who answered all my household employee questions, including the mileage reimbursement rules.

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Yuki Watanabe

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2 I have to admit I was completely wrong about Claimyr. After posting my skeptical comment, I decided to give it a try since I was getting nowhere trying to reach the IRS myself about nanny tax questions. The service connected me to an IRS representative in about 12 minutes, and I finally got clear answers about how to handle our nanny's mileage situation. The agent confirmed that the best approach is using an accountable plan with proper documentation at the current federal rate. They also warned me that paying a flat car allowance without documentation would be considered additional wages subject to employment taxes. Saved me from making a costly mistake! Next time I need to reach a government agency with long wait times, I'll definitely use this service first instead of wasting hours on hold.

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Yuki Watanabe

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17 Former nanny here! From the employee perspective, getting reimbursed directly is MUCH better than trying to deduct it. Here's why: 1) As others mentioned, nannies can't actually deduct mileage on taxes anymore 2) Getting reimbursed means immediate money rather than waiting for tax time 3) Tracking is much easier when you're reimbursed regularly (weekly/monthly) When I worked for families, the best system was using a simple mileage log in a notebook kept in my bag. I'd write down the starting mileage, ending mileage, and purpose of trip. The family would calculate the reimbursement with my weekly pay. The families who didn't reimburse mileage directly always had trouble keeping good nannies. Cars are expensive to maintain, and using personal vehicles for work should always be compensated!

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Yuki Watanabe

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1 Thanks for the perspective from the nanny side! Would you recommend reimbursing weekly with regular pay or monthly in a separate payment? And did any families you worked for include wear and tear considerations beyond just the mileage rate?

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Yuki Watanabe

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17 I preferred weekly reimbursement along with regular pay - it made budgeting easier and ensured the miles were fresh in everyone's mind. Monthly works too, but sometimes led to disagreements when trips weren't remembered correctly. The IRS mileage rate actually includes both gas AND wear and tear on the vehicle, so it's comprehensive. The families I stayed with longest used this rate without modification. One family tried using just gas costs and it caused tension because it didn't account for maintenance and depreciation. The standard rate exists because it fairly covers all vehicle expenses when using your car for work purposes.

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Yuki Watanabe

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11 Question about Nanny taxes in general - we just hired our first nanny and I'm trying to figure out all the tax implications. Do most people use a payroll service or DIY the taxes? And how does the mileage reimbursement get reported (or not reported) on end-of-year tax forms?

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Yuki Watanabe

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14 Most families I work with use a household employee payroll service like HomePay or SurePayroll - they handle all the tax filings, direct deposits, and can properly categorize reimbursements vs. wages. DIY is possible but very error-prone. Properly documented mileage reimbursements (at or below the IRS rate) don't get reported as income on a W-2 or anywhere else - they're non-taxable reimbursements when done through an accountable plan. That's why documentation is critical - without it, the IRS could reclassify those payments as additional wages subject to taxes.

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Yuki Watanabe

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11 Thanks for the advice! I'll look into those payroll services. Sounds like documenting the mileage properly is key to keeping it tax-free for our nanny. Appreciate the help!

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Just wanted to add one more perspective as a tax professional who works with many families employing nannies. The key points mentioned here are spot-on, but I'd emphasize a few additional considerations: 1) Make sure your nanny agreement explicitly states that mileage will be reimbursed at the IRS rate for work-related driving. This protects both parties and sets clear expectations. 2) Consider requiring pre-approval for longer trips (like day trips to the zoo) to avoid surprise large reimbursements. 3) Keep all mileage documentation for at least 3 years in case of an IRS audit - this includes the logs, receipts, and any app records mentioned. 4) Remember that if your nanny occasionally uses your family car for work trips, those miles obviously wouldn't be reimbursed since she's not using her personal vehicle. The automated tracking solutions mentioned by other parents sound helpful for busy families, but a simple notebook system works just fine too if you prefer to keep things low-tech. The most important thing is consistency and proper documentation, regardless of the method you choose.

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