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What expenses can I deduct as a nanny working for just one family on my taxes?

I started a new nanny job about 2 months ago, and I'm completely lost when it comes to doing my taxes. This is actually my first time being paid as a household employee rather than through an agency, and the family pays me directly with a mix of checks and Venmo. I drive the kids to activities sometimes using my own car, buy craft supplies occasionally, and even purchased some special shoes that I only wear at their house. I also had to pay for a new CPR certification before starting. Can I claim any of these things on my taxes? What about my cell phone bill since I use it to communicate with the parents? I'm really confused about what's deductible and what's not when you're a nanny for just one family. Any help would be SO appreciated! I want to make sure I'm doing this right from the beginning.

As someone familiar with household employment, I can clarify this for you. Nannies are typically considered household employees, not independent contractors, which affects what expenses you can claim. If you're a household employee (which sounds like your situation), you'll receive a W-2 from the family, and unfortunately, employee business expenses are no longer deductible on federal tax returns for W-2 employees since the 2018 tax law changes. However, if the family reimburses you for expenses like craft supplies or mileage when using your car for work duties, those reimbursements wouldn't be considered taxable income if they're part of an accountable plan. You should keep receipts and mileage logs and discuss setting up a proper reimbursement system with your employer. If you're actually being treated as an independent contractor (receiving a 1099 instead of W-2), you could deduct business expenses on Schedule C, but this is typically not the correct classification for nannies working regularly for one family.

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But wait, I've been a nanny for years and my tax person always claims my phone, car expenses, and even part of my rent as "home office" deductions. Are you saying that's not legit? And what happens if the family doesn't give me any tax forms at all? That's been my situation before.

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If your tax preparer is claiming those expenses while you're receiving a W-2, that's concerning and potentially not compliant with current tax laws. The 2018 Tax Cuts and Jobs Act eliminated miscellaneous itemized deductions for W-2 employees. If you're not receiving any tax forms, that's a red flag. Families who pay a nanny more than $2,400 in 2023 are legally required to provide a W-2 and pay employment taxes. Some families try to avoid this by paying "under the table," but this can create problems for both parties. You miss out on Social Security credits, unemployment eligibility, and proper work history for future loans or benefits.

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Sorry to jump in late but I've been a nanny for 10+ years and theres one HUGE thing nobody mentioned - if ur family gives you a W-2, you CAN'T deduct expenses like gas, phone, supplies etc. BUT if they classify you as independent contractor (1099), you CAN deduct those things on Schedule C. That's why lots of nannies actually PREFER the 1099 situation even tho technically it's usually not correct classification.

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This is kind of misleading though. If you're a 1099, you have to pay self-employment tax which is like 15.3% on top of income tax. That usually costs WAY more than whatever you save on deductions. Plus the family is supposed to reimburse your expenses anyway if you're a W-2 employee, and those reimbursements aren't taxable.

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You're right about the self-employment tax, and I should have mentioned that. It's definitely a trade-off. In my experience, the deductions can sometimes offset that extra tax if you have a lot of expenses, especially vehicle costs if you drive the kids around a lot. But you're also right that proper reimbursements under a W-2 arrangement would be better. The problem I've found is that many families don't understand or aren't willing to set up proper reimbursement systems. It's definitely a conversation worth having with your employer family to see if they'll do proper reimbursements rather than trying to go the 1099 route.

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For what its worth, I use an app called Stride to track all my nanny-related expenses and mileage. Even though I'm W-2 and cant deduct them federally, some states still allow these deductions on state returns! Also I show the tracked expenses to my nanny family every month and they reimburse me for everything which is way better then trying to deduct them anyway!

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Do u know which states still allow the deductions? I'm in California and wondering if I can deduct my nanny expenses on state taxes even tho I can't on federal?

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As a fellow nanny who went through this exact confusion, I want to emphasize something really important that got buried in all the discussion about tools and classification: **start keeping detailed records NOW** regardless of how your taxes end up being filed. Track your mileage when driving kids to activities, save receipts for any supplies you buy, and document your CPR certification costs. Even if you can't deduct these as a W-2 employee, having this documentation serves multiple purposes: 1. You can present organized expense reports to your family and ask for reimbursements (which aren't taxable income to you) 2. If there's ever a question about your work classification, detailed records help prove the business nature of your expenses 3. Some states do still allow certain deductions that federal doesn't The key conversation to have with your family is setting up a proper reimbursement system. Most families are happy to reimburse legitimate work expenses - they just need you to present it professionally with receipts and clear explanations of how each expense relates to your job duties. Don't let the tax classification confusion prevent you from getting fairly compensated for legitimate work expenses!

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This is such solid advice! I wish someone had told me this when I started. I've been tracking everything in a simple spreadsheet - date, expense type, amount, and what it was for (like "craft supplies for art project with kids" or "mileage to soccer practice"). Even though I'm classified as W-2, my family has been great about reimbursing me once I started presenting them with organized monthly expense reports. It's actually made our working relationship better because they can see exactly what I'm spending on their kids and appreciate that I'm being transparent about it. One thing I'd add - take photos of receipts right away! I've lost so many paper receipts and it's frustrating when you're trying to get reimbursed later. Most phones have built-in document scanners now that work really well for this.

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As a tax professional who works with many household employees, I want to add some clarity to this discussion. The original poster's situation is very common, and there are some key points that will help: First, determine your correct classification. Most nannies working regularly for one family should be W-2 employees, not 1099 contractors. The IRS looks at factors like who controls your work schedule, provides equipment, and directs how you perform your duties. If you're correctly classified as a W-2 employee, you cannot deduct business expenses on your federal return since 2018. However, you absolutely should discuss expense reimbursements with your family. Items like: - Mileage when driving kids (current rate is 67¢/mile for 2024) - Craft supplies and materials for activities - Required certifications like CPR - Any special equipment or clothing needed for the job These reimbursements aren't taxable income to you when properly documented. Create a simple reimbursement request system - track expenses with receipts and submit monthly. If your family isn't providing proper tax documents (W-2) and paying employment taxes, this creates problems for both parties. They're legally required to do this if they pay you over $2,400 per year. You miss out on Social Security credits and proper employment history. Keep detailed records regardless of classification - it protects you and shows professionalism to your employer family.

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