Can a Form 8332 be signed retroactively for past tax years?

This is actually a common issue with split custody arrangements. Form 8332 can technically be completed for prior years, but you're not obligated to sign a retroactive form for all 7 years if you properly followed your agreement for those years. The only year that needs correction appears to be 2021 when your CPA erroneously claimed all four children. Your amended return for 2021 should resolve this issue once processed. The IRS is experiencing significant processing delays for amended returns, so patience is unfortunately necessary. For the other six years, if you followed the decree correctly and only claimed your designated two children, there's no need for you to sign a retroactive 8332 for those years. Your ex should have copies of his filed returns to prove he claimed his designated children during those years.

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I went through this exact situation last year! One thing nobody mentioned yet - if you're the custodial parent (kids live with you more than 50% of the time), then YOU have the default right to claim them unless you release that right with Form 8332. Your divorce decree doesn't automatically change IRS rules. So if you're the custodial parent and your ex is supposed to claim two kids, you must sign Form 8332 for those specific kids for each applicable tax year. If you didn't sign 8332s previously but followed the agreement by not claiming those kids on your taxes, your ex might have been filing incorrectly all along!

Just wondering if anyone can recommend tax software that handles these complicated custody arrangements better? I've been using TurboTax but it gets confused with Form 8332 situations.

As someone who went through a messy custody tax situation, I want to emphasize what others have touched on - you are NOT required to sign retroactive Form 8332s for years where you filed correctly. Your ex is being unreasonable demanding 7 years of retroactive forms. The IRS only cares about correcting actual errors, which in your case appears to be just 2021. For that specific year, you could consider signing a Form 8332 just for 2021 to help expedite resolution, but absolutely do not sign anything for the other 6 years where you followed your agreement correctly. Document everything - keep copies of your divorce decree, your tax returns for all years in question, and any correspondence with your ex about this issue. If he continues to be unreasonable or threatens legal action, this documentation will show you've been compliant with both your agreement and IRS rules. Your amended return for 2021 should eventually be processed (though yes, the delays are frustrating). Stay firm on your position - you're doing the right thing by only correcting the actual error year.