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Grace Thomas

Can I claim my child as dependent and file as Head of Household if my baby is on my girlfriend's Medicaid?

So my girlfriend and I just had our first baby three months ago and we're trying to figure out our tax situation. We're not married but live together in the same apartment. I'm the only one working right now - making about $115k before taxes and 401k contributions. My girlfriend isn't working since the baby was born and she's currently on Medicaid for herself. Here's my question - can I file as Head of Household for this tax year since I'm financially supporting both of them? I'm paying all the rent, utilities, groceries, and baby supplies. The complication is that my girlfriend has the option to add our baby to her Medicaid coverage. If she does that, can I still claim our child as my dependent and file as Head of Household? I'm worried that if the baby is on her Medicaid, it might affect my ability to claim him as my dependent. She could leave the baby off her Medicaid, which I think would definitely let me claim him, but then I'd need to add him to my employer's health insurance plan and pay those premiums which are pretty steep. Just trying to figure out what makes the most sense financially for our taxes while making sure the baby has health coverage. Thanks for any advice!

You can absolutely claim your child as a dependent and file as Head of Household, even if your child is on your girlfriend's Medicaid. Health insurance coverage doesn't determine who can claim a child as a dependent for tax purposes. To claim Head of Household, you need to meet these requirements: 1. Be unmarried at the end of the year 2. Pay more than half the costs of keeping up your home 3. Have a qualifying person living with you for more than half the year Since you're supporting the household financially, and your child is living with you, you meet these requirements. The fact that the child receives Medicaid through your girlfriend doesn't change this. For claiming your child as a dependent, you need to meet the following tests: relationship, residence, support, and more. It sounds like you're providing more than half of the child's support, which is a key factor.

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Grace Thomas

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Thank you so much for the clear explanation! I was worried that having our baby on her Medicaid might automatically make him her dependent for tax purposes. One follow-up question - do we need any kind of written agreement between us since technically both of us could attempt to claim the baby? Also, would it cause any issues with her Medicaid if I claim the baby on my taxes?

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Yes, it's a good idea to have a written agreement between you and your girlfriend about who will claim the child. Since you both live with the child, either of you could potentially claim the child, but only one of you can actually do so on your tax return. The IRS has tiebreaker rules if both parents try to claim the same child, but it's much better to agree in advance. Regarding Medicaid, your claiming the child on your taxes should not affect your girlfriend's or your child's Medicaid eligibility. Medicaid eligibility is based on current income and household composition, not on tax filing status from the previous year. However, it's always good to check with your state's Medicaid office to confirm, as rules can vary slightly by state.

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I went through this exact situation last year! Just to add another perspective - make sure you're documenting everything. Keep records of all the bills you pay, rent receipts, grocery receipts, etc. to show you're providing more than half the support for the household. Also, if your girlfriend has any income at all during the year (even a part-time job), it gets a bit more complicated in terms of who provided more support. But from what you described, you should be fine claiming HOH and your child as a dependent.

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Grace Thomas

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Thanks for the tip about keeping documentation! I hadn't thought about needing to prove this if we get audited. What kind of system did you use to keep track of everything? Did you just save physical receipts or did you have some kind of tracking system?

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I kept it pretty simple. I created a folder in Google Drive where I saved photos of receipts for major purchases (furniture, appliances, etc.) and screenshots of my rent payments and utility bills. For groceries and everyday stuff, I just kept a simple spreadsheet where I logged the date and amount spent. I also made sure to pay for as much as possible with my credit card or bank account rather than cash, so there was an electronic record. And I had my girlfriend sign a simple statement acknowledging that I provided more than half of our household expenses and that she wouldn't claim our child as a dependent. My tax preparer said that would help if we ever got questioned by the IRS.

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Jason Brewer

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One thing no ones mentioned - dont forget to claim the child tax credit too! Its worth up to $2000 per kid and is refundable up to $1400 even if you dont owe any taxes. With your income level you should qualify for the full amount. Plus if this is your first year with a child you might also qualify for the earned income credit depending on your exact income after deductions.

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Also look into the Child and Dependent Care Credit if you pay for daycare or any childcare! With your income, you could get a credit for 20% of your childcare expenses up to $3,000 for one child. That could be an additional $600 back on your taxes.

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Ava Garcia

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Just wanted to add that you should also consider opening a dependent care FSA through your employer if they offer one! Since you mentioned daycare costs might come up, you can set aside up to $5,000 pre-tax to pay for childcare expenses. This would reduce your taxable income and save you money on both federal and state taxes. Also, if your girlfriend does go back to work at some point during the tax year, make sure you recalculate who's providing more than half the support. The IRS looks at the total support provided for the entire year, not just while she wasn't working. But based on your income level and the fact that you're covering all major expenses, you should still easily meet the support test even if she has some part-time income later. Keep all those receipts and records that others mentioned - they're super important if you ever get audited on the Head of Household status!

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Great point about the dependent care FSA! I didn't know about that option. Since I'm making $115k, that $5,000 pre-tax savings could really add up. Do you know if I can sign up for that mid-year, or do I have to wait until open enrollment? Our baby was born in January so I'm wondering if that counts as a qualifying life event that would let me enroll now. Also, really appreciate the reminder about recalculating support if my girlfriend goes back to work. I was planning to just assume I'd qualify for the whole year, but you're right that I need to look at the total picture. With my income level though, even if she works part-time, I should still be providing the majority of support for both her and the baby.

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