Can I claim Child Tax Credit for my kids who live overseas? Foreign dependents eligibility question
I'm working on my taxes and have a situation I need help with. My ex-wife and our two kids moved to Spain about 18 months ago after our divorce. I still financially support them by sending monthly payments for living expenses, school, etc. - around $1,650 every month. The kids are 7 and 9, both US citizens. I'm trying to figure out if I can: a) claim them as dependents on my taxes b) qualify for the Child Tax Credit I've heard conflicting things about this. My ex says I can't claim them since they don't live in the US anymore, but a coworker who has a similar situation with kids in Mexico says I might still be eligible. I'm really confused about what the rules are for children who live abroad. Does anyone know if I can claim them as dependents and/or get the CTC? This would make a big difference for my tax refund this year.
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Andre Dupont
You actually can claim qualifying children who live abroad as dependents and potentially for the Child Tax Credit, but there are specific requirements you need to meet. For claiming them as dependents: They need to be your qualifying children (relationship, age, and support tests), and either be US citizens, US nationals, or US residents. Since you mentioned they're US citizens, that part is covered. You also need to provide more than half their support for the year, which it sounds like you're doing with your monthly payments. For the Child Tax Credit specifically: The rules changed a bit recently, but generally your children must have a valid Social Security Number to qualify for the CTC. The residency requirement doesn't mean they have to physically live in the US all year - there are exceptions for temporary absences. However, since it sounds like they've permanently moved abroad, this could be trickier. You might want to look into the Foreign Earned Income Exclusion rules and how they interact with the CTC. Your situation has some nuances that would benefit from a closer look at your specific circumstances.
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Zoe Papadakis
•So if the kids are US citizens but living abroad permanently, can they still qualify for CTC? And does it matter if my ex-wife is filing taxes in Spain, possibly claiming some kind of child benefits there too?
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Andre Dupont
•For US citizen children living abroad permanently, they can still qualify as your dependents if you meet the support test and other requirements. However, for the Child Tax Credit specifically, the IRS typically requires the child to have lived with you in the US for more than half the year. There are exceptions for temporary absences, but a permanent move abroad generally doesn't qualify as temporary. As for your ex claiming benefits in Spain, that adds another layer of complexity. The US has tax treaties with many countries to address these situations, but you'll need to look at the specific US-Spain tax treaty. Generally speaking, if your ex is claiming the children on Spanish tax returns and receiving Spanish benefits, it could affect your ability to claim certain US tax benefits, though not necessarily your ability to claim them as dependents.
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ThunderBolt7
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Jamal Edwards
•How exactly does this work? Do you have to provide all your financial documentation or just explain your situation? I'm in a similar boat but with kids in Canada and I'm worried about privacy.
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Mei Chen
•I'm skeptical of these tax tools for complicated international situations. Did it actually give you different advice than you would've gotten from a regular tax preparer? And were you able to verify the information was correct?
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ThunderBolt7
•You don't have to upload all your financial docs - just the ones relevant to your question. In my case, I uploaded proof of my support payments and some documentation about my kids' citizenship. You can also just describe your situation in detail and the AI will analyze based on that, though having some documentation helps get more precise answers. The big difference from a regular tax preparer was the cost and the specificity. The few preparers I talked to either wanted to charge me hundreds for an international tax consultation or gave me very general answers. This gave me specific guidance based on my exact situation with citations to the relevant tax code sections, which I then double-checked myself. That's how I verified it was correct - I could see exactly which rules they were applying to my case.
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Mei Chen
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Liam O'Sullivan
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Amara Okonkwo
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Giovanni Marino
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Fatima Al-Sayed
Just wanted to add something important that nobody mentioned yet - make sure you have documentation to prove you're providing financial support! My brother got audited last year over his kids in Mexico. The IRS wanted to see bank transfers, receipts, etc. to prove he was actually providing over half their support. Also, do your kids have Social Security Numbers? That's absolutely required for the Child Tax Credit - no exceptions. If they only have ITINs (Individual Taxpayer Identification Numbers), you might be able to claim them as dependents but not for the CTC.
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Carmen Sanchez
•Yes, both kids have SSNs since they were born in the US. And I've been keeping good records of all my bank transfers to my ex for support payments, plus I pay their international school tuition directly. Is there anything specific I should be documenting beyond the money transfers?
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Fatima Al-Sayed
•That's good you have the SSNs and bank transfer records! Beyond money transfers, try to document any major expenses you pay directly (like that school tuition - perfect example). Also keep records of communications where you and your ex discuss the children's expenses and your contributions. If you have a formal support agreement or divorce decree that outlines your financial responsibilities, keep that handy too. The IRS might also want to see evidence that the children are US citizens, so having copies of their passports or birth certificates is helpful. Basically, you want to be able to clearly show that you're providing more than half of their total support for the year.
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Dylan Hughes
Lots of good advice here, but I want to add something important! The foreign earned income exclusion that your ex might claim could potentially affect your situation. If your ex is excluding foreign earned income on her US tax return, it can impact how the IRS views the support calculation.
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NightOwl42
•Actually this is super important. When my sister moved to Germany with her kids, her ex-husband in the US tried to claim them but it got complicated because of her foreign earned income exclusion. The IRS calculates "support" based on certain rules that can get weird with international situations.
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Sofia Rodriguez
•This gets even more complicated if there's a tax treaty involved between the US and Spain. Some treaties have specific provisions about which parent gets to claim certain tax benefits when the parents live in different countries. Check out Article 26 of the US-Spain tax treaty if you want to get into the real technical details.
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Liam Mendez
This is such a complex situation! From what I've learned dealing with similar tax issues, you're likely able to claim your kids as dependents since they're US citizens and you're providing over half their support with those monthly payments. The Child Tax Credit is trickier though - the IRS generally requires the child to live with you in the US for more than half the year, and a permanent move to Spain probably doesn't qualify as a "temporary absence." One thing I'd be careful about is making sure your ex isn't also claiming them on her US tax return if she's still required to file here. That could create problems. Also, since Spain has a tax treaty with the US, there might be specific rules about which parent gets certain benefits when you're in different countries. Given all the international complications everyone's mentioned - the foreign earned income exclusion, treaty provisions, documentation requirements for audits - this might be worth getting professional help with. The potential refund difference could easily justify the cost of a consultation with someone who specializes in international tax situations.
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Zara Malik
•I'm new to this community but dealing with a somewhat similar situation - my kids are with their mom in Canada. One thing that helped me was getting copies of all the relevant IRS publications upfront. Publication 501 covers dependents and has a whole section on children living abroad, and Publication 972 explains the Child Tax Credit rules in detail. What I found confusing at first was that the "support test" calculation can be tricky when there are different costs of living between countries. The IRS looks at the total cost of supporting the child for the year, not just what you personally contribute. So if living expenses are cheaper in Spain, that could actually work in your favor for meeting the "more than half support" requirement. Also wanted to mention - if you do end up needing professional help, make sure you find someone who specifically deals with international tax situations. Regular tax preparers often don't have experience with the treaty implications and foreign residence rules that apply to your case.
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Freya Christensen
Carmen, I went through something very similar when my daughter moved to the UK with her mother two years ago. Here's what I learned from my experience and research: You can likely claim your kids as dependents since they're US citizens and you're providing over half their support with those $1,650 monthly payments. The key is documenting everything - keep those bank transfer records, tuition payments, and any other support you provide. For the Child Tax Credit, it's more restrictive. The IRS typically requires children to live with you in the US for more than half the year. Since your kids moved to Spain permanently (not temporarily), you probably won't qualify for the full CTC. However, you might still be eligible for other credits or deductions. One important thing to check: make sure your ex isn't also claiming them as dependents on her US return if she's still required to file here. That would create a conflict. Also, since you mentioned she moved to Spain, look into whether the US-Spain tax treaty affects your situation - it has specific provisions about dependent claims in cross-border situations. Given the complexity and the potential tax savings involved, I'd honestly recommend getting a consultation with a tax professional who specializes in international situations. The peace of mind and potential refund increase would likely cover the consultation cost, especially with $1,650/month in support payments at stake.
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Dallas Villalobos
•@Carmen Sanchez This is really helpful advice! I m'curious about one thing though - when you mention the US-Spain tax treaty having specific "provisions about dependent claims in cross-border situations, do" you know if there s'a particular section or article number to look at? I ve'been trying to navigate these treaty documents but they re'pretty dense and technical. Also, regarding the consultation with an international tax professional - any tips on finding someone qualified? I ve'called a few local CPAs but most seem to shy away from international cases or want to charge consultation fees upfront just to determine if they can even help. The documentation point is so important too. I ve'been keeping my bank transfer records but didn t'think about getting formal documentation of other expenses. Should I be asking my ex to provide receipts for things like housing, food, medical expenses to help calculate the total support amount?
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CosmicCaptain
Carmen, I've been following this thread and there's some excellent advice here. I want to add a practical perspective as someone who went through IRS scrutiny on a foreign dependent situation. The key thing that saved me during my audit was having a comprehensive support calculation worksheet. You'll want to document not just what you pay, but estimate the total cost of supporting each child for the year. This includes housing (their portion of rent/utilities in Spain), food, clothing, medical expenses, education, transportation - everything. Then you show that your $1,650/month ($19,800/year) plus direct tuition payments represent more than 50% of that total. The IRS agent actually appreciated that I had done this math upfront rather than just pointing to my bank transfers. One thing I haven't seen mentioned yet - if your kids visit you in the US during the year, document those stays too. While it probably won't change the Child Tax Credit eligibility since they're permanent residents of Spain, it does help establish the ongoing parent-child relationship for dependency purposes. Also, make sure you have their current Spanish address documented. The IRS sometimes wants to verify where dependents actually live, especially in international cases. Having utility bills or school enrollment documents with their Spanish address can be helpful if questioned. The investment in getting this right is definitely worth it - between the dependency exemption and any partial credits you might qualify for, you're looking at potentially significant tax savings.
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