How exactly can I split the Child Tax Credit with my coparent after 50/50 custody agreement?

I'm familiar with this situation as I work with many divorced parents during tax season. With 50/50 custody in Texas, you have some flexibility, but there are definite IRS rules that govern this. First, for tax purposes, even with 50/50 physical custody, the IRS still needs ONE parent to be designated as the "custodial parent" each tax year. However, you can absolutely work out an arrangement between you. The most common scenarios are: 1) alternating years where each parent claims both children every other year, or 2) splitting where each parent claims one child consistently or alternating which child each of you claim. For your specific situation, Form 8332 (Release of Claim to Exemption for Child by Custodial Parent) is key if you're releasing your right to claim a child in any given year. This form needs to be signed by whoever is considered the "custodial parent" for IRS purposes and attached to the other parent's return. The medical expenses angle is important too - if one child has significant medical costs, it might make financial sense for the parent who can benefit most from those deductions to claim that child more frequently.

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Something nobody's mentioned yet - make sure you and your ex are clear about other tax benefits beyond just the Child Tax Credit! When my ex and I were splitting this up, we didn't realize that whoever claims the child also gets: - Head of Household filing status (better tax rates) - Child and Dependent Care Credit (if you pay for daycare) - Education credits if they're in college or private school We ended up having to redo our agreement because our youngest has daycare expenses that made it WAY better for me to claim him even though my ex claimed our older child.

Has anyone actually done the alternating years approach? My ex and I just finalized our divorce and we have twins. We're thinking I'll take both kids in odd years, he takes both in even years. We both make roughly the same income so it seems simplest. Do we need to fill out those 8332 forms every single year or can we do one that covers multiple years?