EDD interview coming up - can 'change in relationship' termination reason affect my UI benefits?
I got laid off last week from my customer service job after 8 months. My termination paperwork only lists "change in relationship" as the reason. My manager wouldn't give me any other explanation even when I asked directly - just said they were "going in a different direction" and that my "position was being eliminated." I'm filing for unemployment for the first time and have my phone eligibility interview scheduled for next week. I'm really stressed about how to answer the termination questions. Should I just repeat exactly what's on my termination form ("change in relationship") during the interview? Or do I need to explain more about what might have happened? I've never been written up and had good performance reviews, so this came out of nowhere. Does anyone know if this vague termination reason will create problems with my EDD claim? I'm worried they'll think I'm hiding something or that I actually did something wrong.
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Connor Murphy
You should absolutely state exactly what's on your termination paperwork. "Change in relationship" is actually a common corporate euphemism for a no-fault termination. This is actually good for your unemployment claim because it doesn't indicate misconduct, which is what would typically disqualify you. During your eligibility interview, be honest about the circumstances. Mention that you were not given any specific performance-related reasons, had no write-ups, and were told it was a position elimination. The EDD interviewer may contact your employer for verification, so keeping your story consistent with their documentation is important. I went through something very similar last year with my claim and was approved without issue. Just be prepared to answer questions about your work history, last day worked, and whether you're able and available for full-time work.
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Lucy Taylor
•Thank you so much! That makes me feel better. Do you think I should mention the "going in a different direction" comment too, or just stick strictly to the official paperwork wording?
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KhalilStar
BE CAREFUL! My boss put "professional separation" on my paperwork which sounds similar to ur "change in relationship" thing. But then they told EDD I was fired for attendance issues!!!! I had to fight for 3 months to get my benefits approved. Make sure u get EVERYTHING in writing from your employer before the interview!!! The EDD will believe whatever your employer says!!!!
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Lucy Taylor
•Oh no, that's exactly what I'm afraid of! I don't think I can get anything else in writing at this point. They've already stopped responding to my emails.
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Amelia Dietrich
I've helped several coworkers through this process after our company had layoffs. Here's what you need to know: 1. "Change in relationship" typically means a no-fault separation - this is good for your claim 2. In your interview, stick to the facts without embellishment 3. Mention you had no disciplinary action or performance issues 4. If asked why you think you were let go, be honest that they didn't provide a specific reason beyond what's on the paperwork 5. Don't speculate or make assumptions about their reasoning It's important to understand that the burden of proof is on the employer to show misconduct if they want to contest your claim. If they provided no specific reason on your termination paperwork, they'll have a hard time arguing misconduct later. Also, be prepared with your employment dates, final wages received, and make sure you're certifying on time while you wait for your interview.
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Lucy Taylor
•This is so helpful, thank you! I have all my pay stubs and employment dates ready. One more question - my interview is scheduled for 10am-12pm. Will they call at exactly 10am or could it be anytime in that window?
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Kaiya Rivera
same thing happened to my cousin last month!!! she got approved no problem. just tell them exactly what ur paperwork says and ur fine
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Amelia Dietrich
They can call anytime during that window. Make sure your phone is charged, you have good reception, and you're in a quiet place where you can speak freely. Have your paperwork in front of you so you can reference it if needed. They won't expect you to remember exact dates without looking at your documents.
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Lucy Taylor
•Perfect, I'll be ready for the entire window. I've cleared my schedule completely that day.
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KhalilStar
Hey also FYI i waited almost TWO HOURS past my scheduled interview time for EDD to call and then when I called to see what was happening I got the "we're experiencing high call volume" message over and over for days!! So frustrating!!
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Katherine Ziminski
•I had the same issue! Interview was scheduled 1-3pm and they never called. Took me 4 days of constant calling to finally reach someone to reschedule. Missed a whole week of benefits because of it!
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Noah Irving
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Lucy Taylor
•Thanks for the tip! Hopefully my interview goes as scheduled, but I'll keep this in mind if I run into problems.
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Vanessa Chang
Change in" relationship is actually better for your case than if they cited performance issues. I went through something similar in 2023 - the interview was painless and I got approved within 2 days after. Just be truthful and'don t overthink it. Your claim will probably be processed faster than most since this is prettystraightforward.
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Amelia Dietrich
One more important tip: make sure to maintain your work search requirements while waiting for your interview and claim processing. Document all job applications, interviews, and networking activities. You'll need to certify that you're looking for work, and they can ask for this documentation later. Even though your separation reason seems clear-cut, staying on top of work search requirements will prevent any potential issues with your ongoing claim.
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Lucy Taylor
•Thank you! I've already applied to 5 jobs this week and I'm keeping track in a spreadsheet with dates and contact information. I'm hoping to find something soon, but it's good to know my claim should go through without issues in the meantime.
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Kaiya Rivera
wait can they see ur search history?? i havent been keeping track of mine just checking boxes YIKES
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Amelia Dietrich
•They can't see your search history, but they can audit your work search activities at any time and request documentation. You should start tracking specific employers you've applied to, including company names, positions, dates, and how you applied. You don't need to provide this with every certification, but you should maintain records in case they ask.
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The Boss
Just wanted to add some reassurance - I had almost the exact same situation happen to me about 6 months ago. My termination letter said "organizational restructuring" which is similarly vague, and I was also worried about how to handle the EDD interview. The key thing that helped me was having a clear, simple story: I was let go due to company restructuring (or in your case, "change in relationship"), I had no performance issues, and I was ready and able to work. The EDD interviewer was actually very straightforward and didn't try to trip me up or anything. One thing I wish I had known beforehand - they might ask if you received any severance pay or accrued vacation payout, so have those details ready if applicable. Also, if you had any non-compete agreements or other restrictions, they may ask about those. You're doing the right thing by being prepared and honest. The fact that you're worried about doing everything correctly actually shows you're approaching this the right way. Good luck with your interview!
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Chloe Robinson
•This is really helpful, thank you! I didn't even think about the severance/vacation pay questions. I did get paid out for my unused vacation days, so I'll make sure to have that information ready. It's reassuring to hear from someone who went through something so similar. Did they ask you anything unexpected during your interview, or was it pretty much what you anticipated?
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Isabella Martin
I'm in a very similar situation right now - got laid off two weeks ago and my paperwork just says "workforce reduction" with no other details. Reading through everyone's responses here has been incredibly helpful since I have my EDD interview coming up next week too. One thing I wanted to add based on my research - make sure you know your exact last day of work and whether you worked any partial days that week. They'll ask about your final week's earnings and you want to be precise about that. Also, if your employer offered you any other positions before letting you go (even if they were clearly unsuitable), be prepared to explain why you didn't accept them. @Lucy Taylor - your situation sounds totally normal for unemployment purposes. The fact that they put something vague like "change in relationship" on paper instead of citing specific misconduct actually works in your favor. Stay confident going into that interview!
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Jeremiah Brown
•@Isabella Martin Thanks for bringing up the final week earnings detail - I hadn t'thought about that! My last day was a Friday and I worked the full week, so that should be straightforward. They didn t'offer me any other positions, just said my role was being eliminated. It s'actually really comforting to connect with others going through similar situations. The whole process feels so overwhelming when you re'doing it for the first time, but everyone s'advice here is making me feel much more prepared. Good luck with your interview next week too!
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Sean O'Donnell
I just wanted to share that I went through this exact same situation about a year ago. My termination paperwork said "business needs" which is just as vague as your "change in relationship" wording. I was also really anxious about the EDD interview, but it ended up being much more straightforward than I expected. The interviewer asked me basic questions like when I started working there, what my job duties were, my last day of work, and why I was separated from employment. When I said it was due to "business needs" as stated on my paperwork and that I wasn't given any specific performance-related reasons, they just made a note of it and moved on. They didn't press me for more details or act suspicious about the vague wording. The whole interview took maybe 15 minutes, and I was approved for benefits about 3 days later. The key is just being honest and consistent - don't try to speculate about what your employer's real reasons might have been, just stick to what you know for sure. One small tip: have your Social Security number, employer's contact info, and employment start/end dates written down in front of you during the call. It helps you sound more prepared and confident when you can quickly reference the exact information they're asking for.
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NeonNebula
•@Sean O'Donnell This is exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you so much for sharing your experience. It's really reassuring to know that the interviewer didn't push for more details when you had similarly vague termination wording. I've been overthinking this so much, but your description of a straightforward 15-minute call makes it sound much less intimidating. I'll definitely have all my information written down like you suggested - that's a great tip about sounding more prepared and confident. Really appreciate you taking the time to share this!
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Keisha Williams
I've been through this process twice in different states, and your situation actually sounds pretty ideal from an unemployment perspective. "Change in relationship" is corporate speak for "we're letting you go but it's not your fault" - which is exactly what you want on your paperwork for UI benefits. During my interviews, the EDD representatives were very matter-of-fact. They're not trying to catch you in a lie, they just need to establish the basic facts: were you fired for misconduct (no), did you quit voluntarily (no), are you able and available to work (yes). Your clean performance record and the vague, non-misconduct language on your termination papers check all the right boxes. One thing that really helped me during my interview was writing out a simple timeline beforehand: hire date, job duties, any promotions/raises, last day worked, and the reason given for termination. Having it in front of me made me feel more confident and kept my answers concise and factual. You've got this - try not to stress too much about it. The hard part (losing your job) is already behind you.
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GalacticGuru
•@Keisha Williams Thank you so much for this perspective! Writing out a timeline beforehand is such a smart idea - I m'definitely going to do that. You re'right that the vague wording actually works in my favor rather than against me. I keep reminding myself that they terminated me without cause, so there s'really nothing for me to be defensive about. It helps to hear from someone who s'been through this process multiple times that the interviewers are just gathering facts, not trying to trip people up. I really appreciate everyone s'advice here - this community has been amazing!
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