Confused about paternity leave forms - do doctors sign PFL baby bonding paperwork?
I'm completely lost with my husband's paternity leave paperwork! We submitted his form on 2/18/2025 for baby bonding leave, but when we called the EDD status line, the operator said we "forgot to fill out the doctor side" of the form. But wait - isn't paternity leave for BABY BONDING? Why would a doctor need to sign anything? Also, we didn't know we needed to send our baby's birth certificate. Can we just mail it now with my husband's SSN written on it? We don't have a claim number yet since nothing's been processed. The EDD sent us two different forms originally - do we need to fill out a new SDI form and include the birth certificate? Or should we keep calling until we reach a human who can actually explain what we're supposed to do? We haven't received any letters or emails from them, just this confusing info from the automated status line. So frustrated with this process!!! Any advice would be incredibly helpful.
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PixelWarrior
There's definitely confusion happening here. For PATERNITY LEAVE (baby bonding under PFL), you DON'T need a doctor to sign anything! Sounds like the rep was confusing baby bonding PFL with pregnancy disability. Here's what you should do: 1. Fill out form DE2508 (Paid Family Leave form) NOT the SDI form 2. Include a copy of the birth certificate with SSN written on it 3. If you already submitted the wrong form (DE2501 disability claim), that's probably why they're asking for doctor info Paternity leave is through the Paid Family Leave program, which is different from disability. No medical certification needed - just proof of relationship (birth certificate).
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Liam Fitzgerald
•Thank you so much!! That makes WAY more sense. We must have filled out the DE2501 disability form instead of the DE2508 PFL form. The EDD website is so confusing - we just downloaded what looked right. Should we just submit a new DE2508 form now with the birth certificate? Or call EDD first to cancel that wrong application?
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Amara Adebayo
lol classic EDD mixup, they always confuse the forms. happened to my brother last year too. def sounds like u filled out the pregnancy disability form (DE2501) instead of the baby bonding form (DE2508). just send in the right one asap with birth certificate
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Liam Fitzgerald
•Thanks! Will do that today. Just hoping they don't penalize us for the delay since we submitted the wrong form nearly 3 weeks ago. Do you know if they'll backdate the claim?
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Giovanni Rossi
The EXACT same thing happened to me! Complete nightmare. I spent 3 DAYS trying to reach someone at EDD to explain why my paternity leave claim was stuck saying "medical certification needed" when it was baby bonding! The automated system is terrible and kept giving wrong info. I finally got through using Claimyr (claimyr.com) - saved me hours of redial hell. They got me connected to an EDD agent in about 30 minutes who sorted it all out. Check out their demo video: https://youtu.be/DOLxZQb92wM?si=6N1iCQ3a8Cdb2Ay5 The agent explained that their system sometimes auto-classifies new claims incorrectly. She removed the medical certification requirement from my file and processed my claim right away. Might be faster than starting over with a new application.
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Fatima Al-Mansour
•Is that service legit? Seems weird to pay someone just to call EDD for you...
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Giovanni Rossi
•Totally legit - they don't call FOR you, they just connect you directly to an EDD agent. You still talk to EDD yourself. After spending like 5+ hours redialing and getting hung up on, it was worth it to me. But yeah, try the regular number first if you have patience!
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Dylan Evans
Doctors DO NOT sign paternity leave paperwork!! The EDD rep gave you incorrect information. My husband just went through this in January 2025. For baby bonding (which includes paternity leave), you need form DE2508 and proof of relationship (birth certificate). That's IT. No doctor involved. For PREGNANCY disability, you need form DE2501 with doctor certification. Lot of people get confused because maternity leave is actually TWO SEPARATE CLAIMS: 1. Pregnancy Disability (before/after birth) - requires doctor 2. Baby Bonding PFL (after disability ends) - NO doctor But for dads, it's ONLY baby bonding PFL - no disability claim needed!
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Sofia Gomez
•Actually there's a slight complication - if they already submitted the wrong form (DE2501), they might need to call EDD to cancel that application before submitting the correct DE2508 form. Otherwise the system might flag it as a duplicate claim attempt. The EDD computer system is incredibly unforgiving with these situations.
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Liam Fitzgerald
UPDATE: I finally got through to EDD! You all were right - we submitted the wrong form (pregnancy disability instead of PFL). The agent was really helpful and said we need to: 1. Fill out the DE2508 (Paid Family Leave form) 2. Write "CORRECTION - REPLACES ERRONEOUS DE2501" at the top 3. Include baby's birth certificate 4. Write my husband's SSN on everything She said they'll link it to our original submission date once they process it. Thank you all for your help!!
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StormChaser
•How did you even get through to them?? I've been calling for days about my own PFL issue and can't get a human!
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Liam Fitzgerald
•Honestly, I used that Claimyr service someone mentioned above. After trying for 2 days on my own (and getting disconnected 6 times!), I gave in and tried it. Got connected to an agent in about 20 minutes. Not ideal to pay for something that should be free, but I was desperate!
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Fatima Al-Mansour
this is why the whole system is broken. my wife handled all our baby paperwork cause when i tried it was just too confusing. why cant they just make ONE FORM for baby leave??? why does it matter if its the mom or dad??? so stupid.
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Dylan Evans
•It's because the programs are funded differently. Pregnancy disability comes from the State Disability Insurance (SDI) fund while baby bonding comes from Paid Family Leave (PFL). But I agree - the way they explain it on their website is TERRIBLE. They should have a simple questionnaire that directs you to the right form.
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Sofia Gomez
For the benefit of others finding this thread later, here's a quick reference for EDD forms related to new children: - DE2501: State Disability Insurance (SDI) - Used for pregnancy, childbirth recovery, or your own medical condition. Requires doctor certification. - DE2508: Paid Family Leave (PFL) - Used for bonding with new child (mothers AND fathers) or caring for ill family members. NO doctor certification needed for baby bonding, just proof of relationship (birth certificate). Dads only use DE2508 for bonding. Moms typically use DE2501 first (pregnancy/recovery), then DE2508 for bonding after recovery period ends. Common mistakes: 1. Using wrong form 2. Missing proof of relationship document 3. Not including SSN on all documents 4. Filing too early (must file within 41 days after leave begins, not before
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Liam Fitzgerald
•This is super helpful! I wish they'd put this clear explanation on the EDD website. Thank you!
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Megan D'Acosta
Just wanted to add - make sure you keep copies of EVERYTHING you send to EDD! I learned this the hard way when they "lost" my first submission and I had to prove I'd sent it on time. Also, when you write your SSN on the birth certificate copy, use a pen (not pencil) and write it clearly in the top right corner. The processing center sometimes has trouble reading handwriting and will reject documents for being "illegible." One more tip - if you're mailing the corrected DE2508 form, send it certified mail with return receipt. It's a few extra dollars but gives you proof of delivery date, which can be crucial if there are any timing disputes later. Good luck with the rest of your claim process!
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Ravi Malhotra
As someone who just went through this exact situation last month, I can confirm everything everyone else is saying - you definitely filled out the wrong form! The EDD rep who told you about needing a doctor was completely wrong about paternity leave. Here's what worked for me when I had the same mix-up: 1. Called EDD and explicitly told them I needed to "withdraw my incorrect DE2501 disability claim and file a new DE2508 PFL claim for baby bonding" 2. They gave me a withdrawal confirmation number (write this down!) 3. Submitted the correct DE2508 form with birth certificate copy 4. Made sure to reference the withdrawal in my cover letter The whole process took about 2 weeks once I submitted the correct paperwork. Don't stress too much about the delay - they backdated my claim to when I originally started my leave, not when I filed the correct form. Pro tip: When you call, ask specifically for the "PFL department" not just general EDD. They transfer you to agents who actually know the difference between disability and family leave programs.
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Zainab Mahmoud
•This is exactly the kind of detailed advice I was looking for! Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I'm definitely going to ask for the "PFL department" specifically when I call - that's a great tip I hadn't heard before. Getting a withdrawal confirmation number is smart too. Really appreciate you taking the time to walk through the whole process step by step!
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Ravi Choudhury
Just went through this nightmare myself 2 months ago! The confusion between disability and PFL forms is SO common - EDD really needs to fix their website because it's not clear at all which form to use. A few things that helped me get through it faster: 1. When you resubmit the DE2508, include a brief cover letter explaining the mix-up. Something like "This DE2508 PFL application replaces the incorrect DE2501 disability claim submitted on [date]." 2. Make sure to sign AND date the new form - I forgot to date mine the first time and it got rejected. 3. If you have your baby's Social Security card already, include a copy of that too along with the birth certificate. Some processors ask for it. 4. Don't panic about the 3-week delay - they're pretty understanding about form confusion and will backdate your claim. Just be prepared for the whole process to take 4-6 weeks total once you submit the correct paperwork. The system is frustrating but you'll get through it! Hang in there.
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LilMama23
•Thank you for all these practical tips! I especially appreciate the advice about including a cover letter explaining the mix-up - that seems like it could really help the processors understand what happened. Quick question - do you remember if they required you to include your baby's SSN on the new DE2508 form itself, or just on the supporting documents? I want to make sure I fill everything out correctly this time so there are no more delays! Also really glad to hear they were understanding about the form confusion and backdated your claim. That takes a lot of stress off knowing they won't penalize us for their confusing website!
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Dmitry Popov
Hey there! I just went through this exact same confusion with my partner's paternity leave claim last month. You're absolutely right to be frustrated - the EDD system is incredibly confusing and their reps often give conflicting information. From my experience, here's what likely happened: you submitted the DE2501 (State Disability Insurance) form instead of the DE2508 (Paid Family Leave) form. The disability form requires doctor certification because it's meant for people who can't work due to their own medical condition. But paternity leave is about bonding with your baby, not a medical disability, so no doctor signature needed! A few things that helped us resolve this quickly: 1. Called EDD and specifically asked for the "Paid Family Leave department" (not just general customer service) 2. Explained we needed to "correct a form submission error" rather than just asking about claim status 3. The agent walked us through withdrawing the incorrect claim and filing the right one 4. They gave us a reference number for the withdrawal - definitely get this if you call! For the birth certificate, yes you can mail it now with the SSN written clearly in the top right corner. Use a pen, not pencil, and consider sending it certified mail so you have proof of delivery. Don't worry about the timing - they backdated our claim to when the leave actually started, not when we figured out the paperwork mess. The whole thing was resolved in about 3 weeks once we submitted the correct DE2508 form. You've got this! The system is broken but you'll get through it.
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QuantumQuester
•This is incredibly helpful, thank you so much! Your step-by-step breakdown makes everything so much clearer. I love that you specifically mentioned asking for the "Paid Family Leave department" - that seems like such a crucial detail that could save hours of getting transferred around to clueless reps. The reference number for withdrawal is definitely something I'll make sure to get. And it's such a relief to hear that they backdated your claim to when leave actually started rather than when the correct paperwork was filed. That was one of my biggest worries! One quick follow-up question - when you sent in the corrected DE2508 form, did you need to include any documentation referencing the withdrawal, or did the EDD system automatically link everything once they processed the new form? Thanks again for taking the time to share all these practical details. It really helps to hear from someone who just went through the exact same situation!
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Emma Johnson
•This is exactly the kind of detailed guidance I was hoping to find! Thank you for breaking down the whole process so clearly. I'm definitely going to ask specifically for the "Paid Family Leave department" when I call - that tip alone could save me hours of frustration. Just to make sure I understand correctly: when you called to withdraw the incorrect DE2501 claim, did you need to have any specific information ready (like confirmation numbers from the original submission), or were they able to find it just using your SSN and basic details? Also, when you mailed the corrected DE2508 form with the birth certificate, did you include any kind of cover letter mentioning the withdrawal reference number, or did their system automatically handle the connection between the withdrawn claim and new application? Really appreciate you sharing your experience - it's giving me so much more confidence that this will actually get resolved!
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Ella rollingthunder87
I went through this exact same confusion back in November 2024 when my daughter was born! The EDD website is absolutely terrible at explaining which form to use - I ended up submitting the wrong paperwork too. Here's what I learned: For paternity/baby bonding leave, you need form DE2508 (Paid Family Leave), NOT DE2501 (State Disability Insurance). The disability form is only for when YOU have a medical condition that prevents you from working - like pregnancy, surgery, illness, etc. Baby bonding is completely different and doesn't require any medical certification. The good news is that EDD is pretty understanding about this mix-up since it happens ALL the time. When I called to sort it out, the agent told me they see this mistake multiple times per day! A few practical tips: - Call and ask specifically for "Paid Family Leave claims" to get to the right department - Get a confirmation number when you withdraw the incorrect claim - Include a brief note with your new DE2508 explaining the correction - Send everything certified mail with tracking They backdated my claim to my original leave start date, so don't stress about losing benefits due to the delay. The whole process took about 3 weeks once I submitted the correct form. Hang in there - you're almost through the worst part!
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Samuel Robinson
•Thank you so much for sharing your experience! It's honestly such a relief to hear that this mix-up happens multiple times per day - makes me feel way less stupid about the whole thing. Your tip about asking specifically for "Paid Family Leave claims" is gold - I can already tell that's going to save me from getting bounced around between different departments who don't know what they're talking about. I'm definitely going to follow your advice about including a brief note explaining the correction when I submit the DE2508. Did you just write something simple like "This corrects the incorrect DE2501 submitted on [date]" or did you go into more detail about the mix-up? Also really appreciate you mentioning the 3-week timeframe - gives me a realistic expectation for when this might actually get resolved. The certified mail tip is smart too. At this point I'm willing to spend the extra few dollars for tracking just to have peace of mind that they actually receive everything! Thanks again for taking the time to help out a fellow confused parent! 😅
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Luca Ferrari
This is such a common problem with EDD! I went through the exact same confusion when my son was born in December 2024. The website makes it sound like all baby-related leave needs medical certification, but that's completely wrong for dads. Here's what I wish someone had told me upfront: Paternity leave = baby bonding = form DE2508 = NO DOCTOR NEEDED. The only people who need doctors to sign anything are birth mothers using disability benefits for pregnancy/recovery (form DE2501). When I called to fix my own mix-up, I found the magic phrase is to say "I need to correct a baby bonding PFL claim that was incorrectly filed as disability." That gets you to the right department immediately instead of being transferred around. One thing nobody mentioned yet - make sure your baby's name on the birth certificate copy matches EXACTLY what you write on the DE2508 form. They're picky about spelling and will reject for any discrepancies. You'll get through this! EDD's system is frustrating but they do eventually get it right once you jump through all their hoops.
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Zainab Ibrahim
•This is incredibly helpful - thank you for that magic phrase! "I need to correct a baby bonding PFL claim that was incorrectly filed as disability" sounds like it cuts straight to the point and gets you to someone who actually understands the difference between the programs. The tip about making sure the baby's name matches exactly between the birth certificate and DE2508 form is something I definitely wouldn't have thought of, but knowing how picky government agencies can be about details, that could totally cause a rejection. Better to double and triple check everything now than deal with more delays later! I'm feeling much more confident about tackling this now that I have a clear game plan from everyone's experiences. Going to call tomorrow armed with all these tips and hopefully get this sorted out once and for all. Really appreciate everyone taking the time to help out a confused new parent! 🙏
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AstroAlpha
Just wanted to add my experience from last month - I made the exact same mistake! Filed DE2501 instead of DE2508 and spent two weeks wondering why they kept asking for medical certification for my paternity leave. The key thing that saved me time was when I called EDD, I immediately said "I accidentally filed a disability claim but I need paid family leave for baby bonding." The agent knew exactly what happened and fixed it in one call. Also pro tip - when you resubmit the DE2508, write your original submission date somewhere on the form. The agent told me this helps them backdate properly so you don't lose any benefit days. Don't let this process discourage you! The actual PFL program is great once you get past the paperwork nightmare. You'll be getting those benefit payments soon!
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Simon White
•Thank you for that tip about writing the original submission date on the DE2508 form! That's such a smart detail that could really help with the backdating process. I never would have thought to include that information, but it makes total sense that it would help the processors connect everything properly. Your opening line about immediately explaining the mix-up is perfect too - "I accidentally filed a disability claim but I need paid family leave for baby bonding" gets right to the heart of the issue without any confusion. I'm going to use that exact phrasing when I call tomorrow! It's so reassuring to hear that once you get past the paperwork nightmare, the actual PFL program works well. That gives me hope that all this frustration will be worth it in the end. Thanks for sharing your experience and keeping things positive - as a new parent dealing with this mess, I really needed that encouragement! 😊
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Freya Ross
Just dealt with this exact same nightmare in February! The EDD system is absolutely terrible at explaining the difference between disability and family leave - I also submitted the wrong form initially and got the same confusing "doctor signature needed" message. Here's what worked for me: Called EDD and said exactly "I need to withdraw an incorrect disability claim and file a new baby bonding PFL claim." Got transferred to the right department immediately. The agent explained that paternity leave is ONLY form DE2508 (Paid Family Leave) and requires zero medical input - just proof of relationship. A couple extra tips based on my experience: - When you mail the corrected DE2508 + birth certificate, write "CORRECTED SUBMISSION" at the top of the form - Include a simple cover letter: "This DE2508 replaces incorrect DE2501 filed on [date]" - Get a confirmation number for withdrawing the old claim - They'll backdate to your actual leave start date, not when you fix the paperwork The whole mess took about 4 weeks to resolve but they paid everything retroactively. Hang in there - you're definitely not the first person to fall into this form trap!
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Natasha Volkova
•This is exactly the roadmap I needed! Thank you for spelling out the specific language to use when calling - "I need to withdraw an incorrect disability claim and file a new baby bonding PFL claim" is so much clearer than trying to explain the whole confusing situation. I love the tip about writing "CORRECTED SUBMISSION" at the top of the DE2508 form - that seems like it would immediately signal to the processor what's happening without them having to dig through files to figure it out. The 4-week timeline is really helpful to know too. Even though it feels like forever when you're waiting for benefits, at least now I have a realistic expectation instead of checking the status every day wondering what's taking so long! Really appreciate you sharing all these specific details. It's amazing how much clearer this whole process becomes when you hear from people who actually went through it recently. Definitely feeling much more prepared to tackle this tomorrow! 🙏
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Carmella Popescu
Had the EXACT same issue with my wife's maternity leave last year! The EDD website is so poorly designed - it's like they want people to file the wrong forms. What helped us was calling first thing in the morning (around 8:01 AM) when the phone lines open. Way better chance of getting through than calling later in the day. Also, if you get disconnected, call right back immediately - sometimes you get lucky and slip through. For the birth certificate, definitely mail it certified with your husband's SSN written clearly in the top right corner. We learned the hard way that regular mail sometimes gets "lost" in their system. One more tip - keep detailed notes of every call including agent names and confirmation numbers. EDD reps sometimes give conflicting info and having documentation helps if you need to escalate later. The good news is once you get the right form (DE2508) submitted with proper documentation, the PFL benefits are actually pretty reliable. Just getting past their terrible intake process is the hard part!
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Jayden Hill
•Thank you for the tip about calling right at 8:01 AM! I've been trying to get through at random times during the day and getting nowhere - definitely going to set an alarm and call first thing tomorrow morning. The advice about calling right back if you get disconnected is smart too, I wouldn't have thought of that. Keeping detailed notes with agent names and confirmation numbers is such good advice. I can already see how having that documentation could be crucial if stories start changing between different reps. Going to start a dedicated notebook just for this EDD mess! Really glad to hear that once you get past their terrible intake process, the actual PFL benefits work reliably. That gives me hope that all this frustration is just temporary. Thanks for sharing these practical tips - they're going to make a huge difference in how I approach this tomorrow! 🙏
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Hailey O'Leary
This thread has been incredibly helpful! I'm dealing with a similar situation right now - submitted what I think was the wrong form for my paternity leave about 2 weeks ago and keep getting confusing messages from the EDD automated system. Reading everyone's experiences, it sounds like the key things are: 1. Call early in the morning (8:01 AM) and ask specifically for "Paid Family Leave department" 2. Use the magic phrase: "I need to withdraw an incorrect disability claim and file a new baby bonding PFL claim" 3. Get a withdrawal confirmation number 4. Submit DE2508 (NOT DE2501) with birth certificate and clear documentation One question for those who've been through this - when you called to withdraw the incorrect claim, were you able to do that and file the new claim in the same phone call? Or did you have to wait for the withdrawal to process before submitting the DE2508? Thanks to everyone sharing their experiences - this is exactly the kind of real-world guidance that the EDD website completely fails to provide!
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Jamal Wilson
•Great question! From what I've seen in this thread and my own research, it sounds like most people were able to handle both the withdrawal and new application in the same phone call. The EDD agents seem pretty familiar with this specific mix-up since it happens so often. Just make sure to get that withdrawal confirmation number before you hang up - that seems to be the key piece that links everything together when you submit the corrected DE2508 form. And definitely follow everyone's advice about including a cover letter that references the withdrawal when you mail in the new paperwork. You've got a solid game plan there! The 8:01 AM call time seems to be the secret weapon for actually getting through to a human. Good luck - sounds like you're way more prepared than most of us were when we first tackled this mess! 🤞
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