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Isabella Ferreira

Need emergency housing assistance for first month's rent/deposit as single mom with 3 kids - CalFresh enough?

Just left my husband and desperately trying to get on my feet with 3 kids (8, 6, and 3 years old). I applied for CalFresh last week and was approved for emergency benefits, but our current situation is staying with a friend who can only keep us for another 10 days max. I found an apartment that would work for us ($2,100/month) but I need to come up with first month's rent plus $1,800 security deposit ASAP. Does CalFresh offer any housing assistance programs? Or are there other emergency programs I should apply for that could help with these upfront costs? I have about $500 saved and my first paycheck from my new job won't come until next month. Any advice would be so appreciated - I'm trying to keep it together for my kids but running out of options fast.

Ravi Sharma

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CalFresh is strictly a food benefit program and doesn't provide rental assistance. But you should definitely look into these programs: 1. Housing Choice Voucher Program (Section 8) - long waitlists but worth applying 2. CalWORKs - can provide cash aid for families with children AND has a homeless assistance program that can help with temporary shelter costs or move-in costs 3. Emergency Solutions Grants (ESG) program - can sometimes help with deposits 4. Local Housing Authority emergency programs Call your county human services office ASAP and ask specifically about the CalWORKs Homeless Assistance program. They can sometimes provide payment for temporary shelter and/or permanent housing assistance with security deposits and last month's rent. The fact that you have children will make you higher priority.

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Thank you so much for this info! I'll call about CalWORKs first thing tomorrow morning. Do you know if they can actually help within 10 days? That's all the time I have left with my friend.

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NebulaNomad

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been there done that hun. when i left my ex I got help from a local DV shelter even tho it wasnt exactly DV situation. they helped me with deposit + 1st month through their emergency funds. call 211 they will connect u with ALL the resources not just the gov ones. sometimes churches and nonprofits have faster help than the county programs. good luck mama stay strong for those babies!!!

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Thank you for the suggestion! I didn't think about calling 211 or checking with DV resources. I'll definitely try that route too. Did you have to show proof of domestic violence to get help? That's not exactly my situation either.

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NebulaNomad

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nope! i just explained i needed to leave for safety of kids and myself. they didnt make me prove anything. some places have funds specifically for families in crisis not just DV. def worth trying!

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Freya Thomsen

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As others mentioned, CalFresh is nutrition assistance only, but there are housing resources specifically designed for your situation. I recommend applying for multiple programs simultaneously since timelines vary: 1. CalWORKs Homeless Assistance Program can provide temporary shelter payments and/or permanent housing assistance. With three children, you qualify for higher payment amounts. They can sometimes expedite in emergency situations. 2. Reach out to the California Department of Housing and Community Development's Emergency Solutions Grant programs. They fund local agencies that provide rapid rehousing assistance. 3. Look into TANF (Temporary Assistance for Needy Families) emergency funds. 4. For your CalFresh benefits, make sure you reported your new household size (just you and the children) so you get the maximum benefit amount. Also, when calling about these resources, be sure to mention your 10-day timeline repeatedly to emphasize the urgency of your situation.

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Thank you for the detailed information! I'll apply to all of these tomorrow. For CalFresh, yes, I applied as a household of 4 (me + 3 kids). The worker mentioned I qualified for the maximum amount because of our situation.

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Omar Fawaz

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Have you tried HousingIsKey.com? It's California's rental assistance portal and they sometimes have emergency funds available. When my cousin needed help last year they covered her deposit but it did take like 3 weeks to process. Also definitely check with Catholic Charities and Salvation Army - both helped me with utilities when I was in a similar spot.

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I haven't heard of HousingIsKey.com - I'll check it out right away! 3 weeks might be cutting it close though. Did your cousin have to stay somewhere else while waiting or did her landlord agree to wait for the payment?

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Chloe Martin

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Thank you so much for this tip! I've been trying to get through to someone all morning with no luck. I'll check out Claimyr - at this point I just need to talk to a real person who can help. 48 hours sounds amazing compared to what I was expecting.

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Diego Rojas

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I've used Claimyr too for my CalWORKs issues and it does work to get through, but just make sure you have all your documentation ready when they connect you. They'll ask for ID, children's birth certificates, income verification and proof of your housing situation. Also be super clear that it's an emergency situation with the 10-day deadline.

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CalFresh doesnt cover housing but have u applied for CalWORKs? Thats what helped me when i left my ex. They have special programs for homeless or at-risk families and can help with deposit + first months rent!! Also if ur in LA county theres a program called Beyong Shelter that specifically helps single moms get housing fast. What county r u in??

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I'm in Sacramento County. I haven't applied for CalWORKs yet but will do that immediately! Do you remember how long it took from application to getting help with housing? I'm worried about the timeline since we only have 10 days left where we're staying.

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In my case it took about 2 weeks BUT i told them it was emergency and had nowhere to go. They gave me hotel vouchers for a week while they processed everything! Definitely tell them its urgent and ur about to be homeless with 3 kids. Sacramento has good resources actually, try calling Sac Steps Forward too!

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Diego Rojas

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A lot of good suggestions here. One thing to consider - when you apply for CalWORKs, your child support situation will come up. They will typically require you to cooperate with child support services to pursue support from your children's father unless you have good cause not to (like domestic violence concerns). This doesn't stop you from getting help, but it's something to be prepared for when applying. Also, as a stopgap measure, check with local churches and organizations like St. Vincent de Paul who sometimes have emergency funds that can be approved much faster than government programs. Sometimes they can help with a portion of the deposit while you're waiting for the larger assistance programs to come through.

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That's good to know about the child support requirement. I don't have any concerns about that - I'm definitely planning to pursue child support once I get more stabilized. I'll check with St. Vincent de Paul tomorrow too. At this point I'm willing to piece together help from multiple sources if needed.

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Ravi Sharma

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One more critical tip based on my experience working with families in transition: If you've found an apartment that works for you, talk to the landlord/property manager DIRECTLY about your situation. Some landlords will work with you if they know assistance is coming, especially if you can get an agency to provide written verification that you're approved for assistance but awaiting disbursement. I've seen landlords agree to accept the deposit in two payments or allow families to move in with partial payment. Having the conversation upfront is better than waiting until the last minute. Bring any approval letters from CalFresh or other programs to show you're actively securing assistance.

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THIS!! When I was in this situation my landlord actually waived half the deposit and let me pay the rest over 3 months when I showed him my approval letter from CalWORKs! Some landlords are actually decent humans if u just explain ur situation!

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Thank you both for this suggestion. I was afraid to mention my situation to potential landlords thinking it would make them less likely to rent to me. But I'll try having that conversation - worst they can say is no.

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Deana Welch

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I a single mother with 3 children ages 3,4,5 I'm on welfare I'm having trouble finding a home for us we have been squatting in a abanned house I need to find a good safe home for my children and i

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Paolo Ricci

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@Deana Welch - I m'so sorry you re'going through this difficult situation. Since you re'already on welfare, you should definitely reach out to your caseworker immediately about emergency housing assistance. Many of the resources mentioned in this thread apply to your situation too - CalWORKs homeless assistance program, calling 211, and contacting local shelters. With three young children, you ll'be priority for emergency housing. Please call your county human services office first thing tomorrow and explain you re'literally homeless with small children. They have emergency programs specifically for families like yours. Stay strong mama - there is help available!

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