Parent PLUS Loan vs Student Loans for FAFSA - which option is better financially?
I'm trying to figure out the best approach for our family with my daughter's college loans. Her FAFSA is processed and her aid package covers about 60% of costs, but we need to borrow the remaining $14,000/year. I'm really torn between taking out a Parent PLUS loan or having her take out student loans in her name. The Parent PLUS interest rate (7.9%) seems high, but I've heard student loans might have better forgiveness options? Our credit is good but I'm worried about tying up our finances for her education when we're trying to save for retirement. She says she's willing to take on the debt herself, but I don't want her starting life with massive debt. I was looking at Discover as a private lender option but apparently they've stopped offering student loans? Does anyone have experience with either approach and can recommend other lenders with reasonable rates? Is there any significant advantage to one approach over the other?
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Sophia Long
As someone who's gone through this with both of my kids, there are definite pros and cons to both approaches. Parent PLUS Loan pros: - You control the loan (important if you're worried about your child's financial responsibility) - Can potentially be discharged if you become disabled - Income-contingent repayment options exist (though limited) Student loans pros: - Won't affect your debt-to-income ratio for future borrowing - Federal student loans have better forgiveness options (PSLF, income-driven plans) - Students have a longer timeline to pay them back - Lower interest rates on federal student loans than Parent PLUS Big distinction: Federal student loans are almost always better than private loans. Your daughter should max out federal Direct loans ($5,500-$7,500/year depending on year in school) before considering any private options. For private lenders, look at SoFi, Earnest, CommonBond, or Citizens Bank - all have competitive rates currently. But again, exhaust all federal options first!
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Carter Holmes
•Thank you for this breakdown! I didn't realize the interest rates were different between Parent PLUS and federal student loans. Do you know what the current student loan interest rate is compared to the Parent PLUS 7.9%? And I'll definitely look into those lenders you suggested.
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Angelica Smith
•Not OP but federal direct loans for undergrads have 4.99% interest right now. WAY better than Parent Plus! My son just did his FAFSA and we're going this route. less interest = less money paid over time. just sayin
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Logan Greenburg
my parents took out parent plus loans for me and now they're stuck with like 80k in debt they cant afford to pay. it sucks and they resent me for it even tho they insisted at the time. if i could do it over id have just done it all in my name. just something to think about......
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Charlotte Jones
•This is such an important perspective! I work in financial aid counseling and see this ALL THE TIME. Parents take on PLUS loans thinking they're helping, but without clearly discussing repayment expectations. Then when the reality hits of $800+ monthly payments, relationships get strained. OP, whatever route you choose, have an explicit conversation about who will ACTUALLY be making payments. Will you pay the Parent PLUS? Will your daughter reimburse you? Or if she takes loans, is she truly prepared for that responsibility?
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Lucas Bey
THE SYSTEM IS RIGGED!!!! Parents plus loans are a TRAP designed to saddle familes with MASSIVE debt they can never escape. The colleges know they can jack up tuition because the govt hands out these loans like candy. Meanwhile my sisters PLUS loans ARENT eligible for most forgiveness programs!!!! Student loans at least get IBR plans and PSLF. PLUS loans GET ALMOST NOTHING. The SYSTEM is BROKEN.
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Harper Thompson
•While I understand your frustration, there are actually some options for Parent PLUS loans. They can be consolidated into a Direct Consolidation Loan to become eligible for Income-Contingent Repayment (ICR), though admittedly this is less generous than the IDR plans available for student loans. And they are eligible for Public Service Loan Forgiveness if the parent works in qualifying employment. But you're right that student Direct loans offer more flexible repayment options overall, which is something OP should definitely consider.
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Caleb Stark
I was in your daughters exact position 15 years ago and I chose to take out loans in my name. looking back, i would 100% make the same choice. my parents were paying for my brother's college too, so we agreed id take the loans and they would help me if they could after graduation. i consolidated after graduation, used income based repayment when i had a low starting salary, and paid them off in about 9 years. it was MY education and my choice to go to an expensive school, so it felt right for me to take on that responsibility. for lenders, sallie mae is still big in the private loan space, and i had an ok experience with them for the portion that exceeded my federal loan eligibility.
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Carter Holmes
•Thanks for sharing your experience! That's really helpful. I guess I'm worried about my daughter starting her career with so much debt, but it sounds like you managed it well with the income based repayment. Did you find the debt affected major life decisions like buying a home or anything like that?
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Caleb Stark
•honestly it did delay buying a house by maybe 2-3 years, but i don't regret it. it taught me budgeting and financial responsibility early. just make sure she understands what her monthly payments will be after graduation based on the total borrowed. my shock at seeing that number was real! lol
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Jade O'Malley
Have you considered having your daughter apply for more scholarships? My niece got $5k from local businesses that she never would have thought to apply to. Every bit helps reduce what you need to borrow!
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Carter Holmes
•That's a good point. She did apply for a few, but probably not exhaustively. I'll encourage her to look for more local opportunities. Any suggestions on where to find these smaller local scholarships?
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Jade O'Malley
•Check with your local chamber of commerce, rotary club, religious organizations, and even large local businesses! My niece got one from our local credit union and another from a manufacturing company where nobody else had even applied. Also her high school counselor had a list of local options.
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Harper Thompson
One aspect that hasn't been mentioned: Parent PLUS loans require a credit check, while federal student loans don't. With federal student loans, your daughter can borrow up to her annual limit regardless of credit history (limits are typically $5,500 for freshmen, $6,500 for sophomores, and $7,500 for juniors and seniors for dependent students). If you go the route of her taking the loans, definitely exhaust federal Direct loan options first, then consider private. For private lenders since Discover is out, I'd look at College Ave, Ascent, and Earnest - they consistently have competitive rates. Always compare multiple lenders before deciding. One strategy many families use is splitting the burden - student takes federal loans up to their limit, parents take PLUS loans for the remainder, with a clear agreement about who pays what after graduation.
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Carter Holmes
•The splitting approach makes a lot of sense. If she takes the federal maximum, that would cover about half of what we need to borrow, and maybe I could take a PLUS loan for the rest. That feels like a reasonable compromise.
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Angelica Smith
student loans are waaaaay beter for ur daughter! my parents did parent plus and now there stuck with it and my brother who it was for dosnt help them at all with payments. plus bidens doing all this forgiveness stuff for student loans but not parent plus. id say let her take the loans its her education
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Sophia Long
•Important point about loan forgiveness! The recent changes to income-driven repayment with the SAVE plan apply to student Direct loans but not Parent PLUS loans. The SAVE plan can cap payments at just 5% of discretionary income for undergraduate loans, which is incredibly beneficial for new graduates with lower starting salaries.
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Hunter Edmunds
If your trying to get in touch with FSA about loan options, save yourself hours on hold. I had to call them about my daughters SAI calculation and used this service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) - they waited on hold with FSA for me and called me back when an agent was on the line! They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ The FSA agent was actually really helpful in explaining the differences between all the loan options and what would appear on my daughter's aid package vs what I'd need to apply for separately as a parent.
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Carter Holmes
•Thanks for the tip! I've been meaning to call FSA with some questions but kept putting it off because of the wait times. I'll check this out - would be great to get official information directly from them.
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Charlotte Jones
Financial aid counselor here. I always advise families to follow this order: 1. First, max out all federal Direct subsidized loans (no interest while in school) 2. Then federal Direct unsubsidized loans (interest accrues but still has protections) 3. Only after that, consider Parent PLUS or private options The federal Direct loans have the best terms and protections for students, period. The current rate is 4.99% for undergraduate Direct loans vs 7.54% for Parent PLUS. Another consideration: if your retirement timeline is within 10-15 years, taking on Parent PLUS could seriously impact your retirement security. Students have their whole careers ahead to manage their debt, but parents don't have as much time to recover financially. And definitely apply with multiple private lenders if you go that route - rates and terms vary widely, and having your daughter as the primary borrower with you as a cosigner often gets better rates than Parent PLUS.
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Carter Holmes
•Thank you for these insights! The retirement timeline is exactly what's been worrying me - we're about 12 years from when we hope to retire. The cosigner approach sounds interesting - I hadn't considered that option. Would that make me equally liable for the debt but potentially get us a better interest rate than a Parent PLUS loan?
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Charlotte Jones
•Yes, as a cosigner you're equally liable if your daughter can't pay, but with two major advantages over Parent PLUS: 1) potentially lower interest rates if your credit is good, and 2) many private lenders offer cosigner release after a certain number of on-time payments (usually 24-48 months). So you could help her establish credit, get a better rate, but eventually have the loan be solely in her name. With your retirement timeline, I'd be very cautious about taking Parent PLUS loans that would extend into your retirement years. That could force difficult choices between loan payments and retirement needs.
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KaiEsmeralda
As a newcomer to this community, I'm really grateful for all the detailed advice here! I'm actually facing a similar situation with my son's college funding next year, and this thread has been incredibly helpful. One thing I wanted to add - I recently spoke with a financial planner who emphasized looking at the total cost of borrowing over the full repayment period, not just the interest rates. She showed me that even though Parent PLUS loans have higher rates, the shorter repayment timeline (typically 10 years) versus extended student loan repayment plans can sometimes result in less total interest paid overall. That said, reading about the flexibility of student loans with income-driven repayment and forgiveness options really makes me lean toward having my son take the federal loans first. The peace of mind knowing he'd have options if he struggles financially after graduation seems worth a lot. Has anyone here actually used the cosigner release option that was mentioned? I'm curious how smooth that process typically is with private lenders.
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Edwards Hugo
•Welcome to the community! Your financial planner makes a great point about looking at total cost over the full repayment period - that's something I hadn't fully considered when weighing our options. Regarding cosigner release, I haven't used it personally, but I've heard mixed experiences from other parents. Some lenders like SoFi and College Ave seem to have more straightforward processes, while others can be pretty strict about the requirements (like requiring a certain debt-to-income ratio from the student). Definitely something to ask about upfront when comparing lenders - get the specific requirements in writing! The flexibility aspect you mentioned is really what's pushing me toward the student loan route too. Even if the math might work out similarly in some scenarios, having those safety nets with income-driven repayment feels crucial given how unpredictable post-graduation employment can be these days.
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