Parent PLUS Loans vs Private Student Loans for FAFSA gap - high interest rate dilemma
I'm stuck in a FAFSA nightmare trying to cover my daughter's remaining college costs after her financial aid package. We have about $18,500 gap to fill per year, and I'm paralyzed trying to decide between Parent PLUS loans and private student loans. PLUS loans have that crazy 8.05% interest rate right now but seem more flexible with repayment options? Private loans have interest rates anywhere from 4.5-13% depending on credit score, but the application process seems WAY more complicated and there are like 50 different lenders! Has anyone recently had to make this decision? What did you choose and why? My daughter starts college this fall, and I'm literally losing sleep over this. The financial aid office just keeps saying "it's a personal decision" which is ZERO help!!
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Ravi Kapoor
I went through this exact situation last year with my son. We ultimately chose Parent PLUS loans despite the higher interest rate, and here's why: the federal protections are significant. PLUS loans offer income-contingent repayment options, potential loan forgiveness programs, deferment/forbearance options, and death/disability discharge that private loans typically don't match. Also, with PLUS loans, you're dealing with one servicer rather than potentially multiple private lenders. Private loans might have lower interest rates if you have excellent credit, but read the fine print carefully - many have variable rates that can increase significantly over time. They also typically lack the flexibility of federal loans if you encounter financial hardship.
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Isabella Oliveira
•Thank you! I hadn't considered the loan forgiveness angle. Do you know if there's a specific income threshold for the income-contingent plan? My income fluctuates year to year.
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Freya Larsen
went with private loans for my kid. big mistake!!! interest rate started at 5.2% but jumped to 9.7% after 2 yrs. plus they dont care if you lose your job or anything. PLUS wouldve been better
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GalacticGladiator
•This is EXACTLY what the financial aid advisors don't tell you! They act like private loans might be a better deal, but they never mention the variable rates that can skyrocket or the lack of hardship options. The FAFSA system basically forces parents into debt either way, but at least with PLUS loans you get some federal protections. The whole system is designed to extract maximum money while providing minimum information.
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Omar Zaki
I did a mix of both for my twins. Took out PLUS loans for about 60% of what we needed and private loans for the rest. My strategy was to take the private loans with the absolute lowest fixed rate I could find (ended up at 4.8% with SoFi) and plan to pay those off first. Then I use the PLUS loans for the remainder because of the federal benefits others mentioned. Something else to consider - PLUS loans have that origination fee (about 4.2% I think) that gets taken right off the top. Private loans usually don't have that fee. Just another thing to factor in.
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Isabella Oliveira
•That's a really smart approach! I hadn't thought about splitting it up that way. Did you find the application process for the private portion really complicated? And do you have to reapply for both types every year?
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Chloe Taylor
•i think theres a max on plus loans tho? like you can only borrow up to the cost of attendance minus other aid. at least thats what i remember from when i looked into it
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Diego Flores
We did Parent Plus loans for my daughter last year and it was super easy to apply for them through studentaid.gov. Just needed my FSA ID and it took maybe 15 minutes? Interest rate is high but honestly idk how much that matters bc I'm never gonna pay off $75k anyways lolol might as well go for the federal benefits
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GalacticGladiator
•This is the tragic reality of the current system. So many parents take on debt they know they'll never fully repay just to get their kids through college. The FAFSA SAI calculation completely ignores the fact that most families are already financially stretched. Then they wonder why student debt is such a crisis!
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Anastasia Ivanova
I'm a financial aid counselor (not at a specific school), and I generally recommend PLUS loans for parents who anticipate any potential financial instability in the future. The federal protections are significant. However, if you have excellent credit (740+), stable high income, and plan to pay off the loans quickly, private loans might save you money. One strategy some families use: Take PLUS loans initially, then after graduation, consider refinancing to a private loan IF rates are significantly better. This gives you the federal protections while in school but potentially lower rates during repayment. Also note that PLUS approval is much easier than private loans. PLUS only checks for adverse credit history (defaults, bankruptcies, etc.), while private lenders scrutinize debt-to-income ratio, credit score, and more.
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Isabella Oliveira
•Thank you for the detailed explanation! I do have good credit (around 780) but my income can vary year to year since I'm partly self-employed. The refinancing option is interesting - I hadn't considered that approach.
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Chloe Taylor
have you talked to your daughters school financial aid office? they should be able to like walk you thru the options better than randos on the internet lol
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Isabella Oliveira
•I tried! They just gave me generic information and said "it's a personal decision" which wasn't helpful at all. I've been calling their office repeatedly but keep getting voicemail or getting transferred around. It's really frustrating.
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Ravi Kapoor
If you're having trouble getting through to the financial aid office, I recently used a service called Claimyr that helped me connect with actual FSA agents without waiting on hold forever. They can walk you through all the Parent PLUS loan details and compare them to private options. I used them when I had questions about my son's PLUS loans last semester. Their site is claimyr.com and they have a video that shows how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ
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Isabella Oliveira
•That's great to know! I'll check it out. I'm getting desperate for some actual guidance from someone who knows what they're talking about.
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GalacticGladiator
•It's sad that we need third-party services just to talk to the government agencies that are SUPPOSED to be helping students. The whole system is designed to be frustrating and confusing. But thanks for the tip - might be worth it just to get actual answers.
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Freya Larsen
whatever u do DONT cosign private loans for ur kid!! my friends daughter dropped out and now shes stuck paying them all herself
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Omar Zaki
•This is an important point. With Parent PLUS, the parent is the only borrower - the student has no legal responsibility. With private loans, if you co-sign, both you AND your student are legally responsible. If you want your student to have some "skin in the game," consider having them take out the federal Direct loans in their name (which have lower interest rates than PLUS), and then you take the PLUS loans for the remainder.
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Isabella Oliveira
Thanks everyone for the great advice! I think I'm leaning toward PLUS loans now, mainly for the federal protections and simplicity. The income-contingent repayment options make me feel better about my variable income. I'll probably apply this weekend. Has anyone had any issues with the credit check part of the PLUS application?
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Anastasia Ivanova
•The PLUS loan credit check is much less stringent than private loans. They're only looking for major adverse credit events in the past 5 years: defaults, bankruptcies, foreclosures, tax liens, wage garnishments, or accounts over 90 days delinquent. They don't consider debt-to-income ratio or credit score numbers. If you don't have those major adverse events, you'll likely be approved without issue.
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