Parent PLUS loan vs other options for my daughter's freshman year - need advice
I'm completely lost with all these college loan options for my daughter who's starting at State University this fall. The financial aid package covers about 60% of costs, but we still need around $18,000 for the first year. Her FAFSA SAI score was higher than we expected, so she didn't qualify for as much aid as we hoped. I see the Parent PLUS loan option in her award letter, but I've heard mixed things about interest rates and repayment terms. Are there better alternatives? My credit score is decent (710) but I already have a mortgage and car payment. Would it be better for my daughter to take out additional Direct loans instead? We're trying to make a decision by June 1st so we can confirm her enrollment. Any parents who've gone through this process recently? What did you choose and why?
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Daniel Washington
I went through this last year with my son! Few things to know about Parent PLUS loans: - Higher interest rates than Federal Direct loans (currently 8.05% compared to 5.50% for undergrad loans) - Credit check required but not as strict as private loans - YOU are responsible for repayment, not your daughter - Full cost of attendance can be borrowed minus other aid Key question: do you want to take on the debt yourself or have your daughter be responsible? Direct loans in her name are capped at $5,500 for freshmen, so that won't cover your $18k gap. Private loans are another option but usually have variable rates and fewer protections. We ended up doing Parent PLUS for half and having our son take private loans (with us as cosigners) for the rest to split the burden.
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Lauren Zeb
•Thank you for explaining! The $5,500 Direct loan cap is the issue - she's already getting that amount. I didn't realize the Parent PLUS interest rate was so much higher than her Direct loans. Does the Parent PLUS loan have any benefits that private loans don't? And can we switch to different loan types in future years?
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Aurora Lacasse
i got parent plus loans for both my kids and REGRET IT SO MUCH!!!! the interest is crazy and they don't qualify for most of the forgiveness programs that student loans do. plus they starting making me pay back while my youngest was still IN college!! wish i had just cosigned private loans with better rates
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Anthony Young
•This is why we made our son take out his own loans! Parents need to stop bankrupting themselves for college. Kids have their whole lives to pay it back, we only have a few years until retirement.
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Lauren Zeb
•That's definitely one of my concerns - I'm 52 and trying to catch up on retirement savings. How much were your monthly payments on the PLUS loans? Did they at least let you choose your repayment plan?
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Charlotte White
Have you looked into the CSS Profile schools? My daughter got way more institutional aid from schools that required CSS Profile than just FAFSA. It's not too late to apply to some schools for fall with better aid packages.
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Lauren Zeb
•She's pretty set on State University because of their engineering program, but you make a good point. Maybe we should look at some CSS Profile schools as transfer options for sophomore year if the finances become too much of a strain.
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Admin_Masters
Before you commit to any loans, call the financial aid office directly and explain your situation. Many schools have additional institutional funds they can offer if you explain your circumstances. My daughter's SAI was also higher than expected, but when I explained our actual financial situation (ongoing medical expenses not captured on FAFSA), they found an additional $5,000 in grants. I spent three days trying to reach someone at financial aid during decision time. Frustrating, but when I finally got through, it was worth it. If you're having trouble reaching them, I used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected to a real person in about 10 minutes instead of waiting on hold forever. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ Regarding loans - Parent PLUS does have income-contingent repayment options if you consolidate them later, which private loans don't offer. Important to keep in mind.
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Lauren Zeb
•Thanks for the tip about calling financial aid! I'll definitely try to reach them before making any decisions. And thanks for the Claimyr suggestion - I've been on hold with the financial aid office twice already and gave up after 45+ minutes each time. I'll check out that service. I didn't know about the income-contingent options for Parent PLUS - that's definitely something to consider.
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Matthew Sanchez
My daughter is graduating next month and we used a mix of Parent PLUS and private loans. One thing NOBODY told us: if you take Parent PLUS loans, check if you qualify for the REPAYE plan after consolidating. We're saving $340/month this way!!! Also consider how much total college will cost for ALL FOUR YEARS. Our biggest mistake was not planning the full amount. Every year we had to scramble to find more money as tuition went up.
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Ella Thompson
•What's REPAYE? Is that different from the standard 10-year repayment plan? I thought Parent PLUS loans weren't eligible for income-driven plans.
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Matthew Sanchez
•REPAYE = Revised Pay As You Earn. Parent PLUS loans aren't directly eligible for income-driven plans, BUT if you consolidate them into a Direct Consolidation Loan, they become eligible for Income-Contingent Repayment (ICR). Not REPAYE though - I misspoke. ICR caps payments at 20% of discretionary income. Saved us a ton when our income dropped.
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Anthony Young
dont forget to check if your employer offers any college benefits! my company gives $5k/yr for dependents education and i didnt even know about it until my daughters sophomore year!
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Lauren Zeb
•That's a great point! I work for a large healthcare company - I'll check with HR tomorrow. Even a partial benefit would help reduce what we need to borrow.
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Ella Thompson
We're finishing year three with two in college. Our approach: 1. Students take max federal direct loans ($5,500 freshman, $6,500 sophomore, $7,500 junior/senior) 2. We pay what we can from savings/income 3. Parent PLUS loans for remaining gap 4. Students work part-time during school (~10 hrs/week) and full-time summer to cover books and spending money For us, the federal protections of Parent PLUS outweighed the higher interest rate compared to private loans. If something happens to me or my job, there are deferment options not available with private loans. Also, has your daughter looked for additional outside scholarships? Many local organizations offer $1-2k scholarships that can help reduce the gap.
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Lauren Zeb
•Thank you for sharing your plan - this is really helpful! She's already committed to working 12 hours a week in the campus library ($13/hr) and has a full-time internship lined up for summer ($18/hr). She got about $3k in outside scholarships, but most were one-time awards. I like your systematic approach to covering the costs.
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Daniel Washington
Something else to consider: look at the loan fees. Parent PLUS loans currently have a 4.228% origination fee that's taken from the loan amount. So if you borrow $18,000, you'll only receive about $17,239 - but you'll repay the full $18,000 plus interest. Private loans typically have no origination fees, which can make a meaningful difference in the total cost over time, sometimes offsetting the higher interest rate. Also, since your daughter is pursuing engineering, consider that her earning potential after graduation will likely be strong. This might make it more reasonable for her to take on some of the debt burden through private loans (with you as cosigner) that you could help her repay later if needed.
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Lauren Zeb
•I had no idea about the origination fee! That's significant - over $750 that just disappears. You make a good point about her future earning potential in engineering. Maybe we should split the burden between Parent PLUS and private loans with me as cosigner. I'll run the calculations both ways before deciding. Thank you!
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Aurora Lacasse
does anyone know if parent plus loans affect your debt-to-income ratio for mortgages?? we want to downsize next year but have 45k in plus loans
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Matthew Sanchez
•Yes, they absolutely do! We tried to refinance our home last year and the Parent PLUS loans were counted in our DTI ratio. The monthly payment amount is what matters to mortgage lenders, not the total balance. If you're on an income-driven plan with lower payments, that can help.
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Charlotte White
I think everyone should be calling Congress about these ridiculous college costs instead of going into debt! In the 80s my parents paid my tuition from their regular salaries. Now we're all talking about taking out MASSIVE loans like it's normal. It's not normal!!!
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Anthony Young
•100% agree! My son's college costs 4X what mine did (adjusting for inflation). Makes me so angry that we accept this as just the cost of education now.
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Lauren Zeb
•You're not wrong! The cost increases are insane. I've actually written to our representatives several times about college affordability. But in the meantime, we still need to figure out how to pay for it. I don't want my daughter starting her adult life with crushing debt.
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AstroAdventurer
As someone who works in financial aid administration, I want to add a few key points that might help with your decision: 1. **Appeal Process**: Definitely call the financial aid office as others suggested, but also submit a formal appeal in writing if your family's financial situation has changed since filing FAFSA (job loss, medical expenses, etc.). Many schools have additional institutional aid they can award through appeals. 2. **State-specific programs**: Check if your state offers any grant programs for residents attending in-state schools that you might have missed. Some have later deadlines or supplemental applications. 3. **Payment plan options**: Many schools offer interest-free monthly payment plans that can help spread costs over 10-12 months instead of taking loans. This might reduce how much you need to borrow. 4. **Tax benefits**: Don't forget about the American Opportunity Tax Credit (up to $2,500/year) and potential state tax deductions for college expenses - these can offset some costs. Given your situation, I'd suggest: maximize her Direct loans first ($5,500), explore private loans with you as cosigner for better rates, and use Parent PLUS only as a last resort due to the higher rates and fees. The key is keeping total debt reasonable across all four years - engineering programs often require 5 years, so plan accordingly!
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Connor O'Reilly
•This is incredibly helpful, thank you! I didn't know about the formal appeal process - we do have some medical expenses that weren't captured on the FAFSA. I'll definitely submit a written appeal along with calling them. And you're right about planning for possibly 5 years - I hadn't considered that engineering programs often take longer. The payment plan option is also something I should ask about when I call. Really appreciate the insider perspective on maximizing aid before taking on debt!
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