FAFSA only awarded $5500 - need advice on remaining college payment options
Just got my daughter's financial aid package and I'm honestly in shock. FAFSA only awarded her $5500 in federal loans for her freshman year, which barely makes a dent in the $32,000 annual cost at her dream school. We're looking at a $26,500 gap and I have no idea how to cover this. We make too much for need-based aid but not nearly enough to pay this out of pocket (thanks middle-class trap). What options do we have for covering the rest? Are Parent PLUS loans the only way? Do colleges typically offer payment plans? Any private loan companies that don't have predatory interest rates? This whole financial aid system seems designed to drown families in debt. Any advice from parents who've navigated this nightmare would be so appreciated.
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Caleb Stark
That $5500 is likely the maximum federal direct loan amount for first-year dependent students - it's not really an "award" but just what any freshman can borrow. For the rest, you typically have these options: 1. Parent PLUS loans (federal, but in your name) 2. College payment plans (most schools offer 10-12 month plans with a setup fee) 3. Private student loans (your daughter would need a co-signer likely) 4. Outside scholarships (though it's getting late for fall 2025) I'd start by contacting the financial aid office directly. Sometimes they have institutional scholarships or grants they can offer that weren't in the initial package.
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Harper Thompson
•Thanks for clarifying that the $5500 is just the standard loan amount. That makes more sense now. Do you know if most schools' payment plans charge interest or just an administrative fee? I'll definitely contact the financial aid office tomorrow to see if there are any additional institutional options.
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Jade O'Malley
we went thru this last yr with my son. the payment plans r usually NO interest just a fee like $75-150 to set it up. thats what we did for part of it + plus loan for rest. the fin aid office can tell u exactly what the paymnt plan looks like most divide it over 10 months
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Harper Thompson
•That's really helpful to know! A small setup fee sounds much better than taking on more loans if we can manage monthly payments for some of it. Did you find the Parent PLUS application process difficult?
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Hunter Edmunds
When it comes to Parent PLUS loans, they do have a higher interest rate than Direct Subsidized/Unsubsidized loans (currently 8.05% vs 5.50%), and they also charge an origination fee of about 4.2% that's taken from the loan amount. Private loans might have lower advertised rates for excellent credit, but lack the federal protections like income-driven repayment options. I always recommend families look into these options in this order: 1. Payment plan for what you can afford monthly 2. Parent PLUS loans 3. Private loans as a last resort Also, make sure your daughter filled out any institutional aid forms beyond FAFSA - many schools have their own financial aid applications that can unlock additional money.
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Ella Lewis
•Wait a minute, I'm confused. I thought the Parent PLUS loan interest rate was around 6%? When did it jump to 8.05%? That seems really high... And do these rates change year to year or are they fixed for the life of the loan?
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Hunter Edmunds
•Parent PLUS loan rates are set each July for the upcoming academic year. The rate for 2024-2025 is indeed 8.05%, and yes, that's high historically speaking. Once you take the loan, that rate is fixed for the life of that specific loan. But each year you take a new PLUS loan, it will have whatever the new rate is for that academic year.
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Andrew Pinnock
I've been through this nightmare with two kids and let me tell you, the system is BROKEN. That $5500 "award" is a JOKE. They expect middle-class families to somehow come up with $25K+ per year?? My advice is to seriously consider whether this "dream school" is worth potentially $100K+ in debt. My oldest went to his dream school and now at 27 is still living at home because his loan payments are crushing him. My youngest chose the state school with a scholarship and graduated debt-free. Guess which one is thriving now? Not what you want to hear probably, but sometimes the best financial decision is walking away from the dream school.
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Brianna Schmidt
•THIS!!! 100% agree. The name on the diploma matters way less than everyone thinks. My kid is at our state school on a partial scholarship and living at home. Not as glamorous as her friends' Instagram posts from fancy private colleges, but she'll graduate with zero debt.
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Harper Thompson
•You make a really good point. We've been so focused on making her dream school work that we haven't fully considered the long-term impact of that much debt. She did get accepted to our state university with a $7K/year merit scholarship, which would bring the annual cost down to about $15K. Maybe we need to have a serious conversation about whether the prestige is worth the price difference.
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Alexis Renard
One option nobody's mentioned yet is appealing the financial aid offer. If your financial situation has changed since you filed FAFSA (job loss, medical expenses, supporting other family members), you can request a professional judgment review. My daughter's aid package increased by $6,500 after we appealed and explained some financial hardships that weren't reflected in our tax returns. Also, have you looked into outside scholarships? There are literally thousands of them, even small ones can add up. My daughter got about $3k from local organizations and her dad's employer had a scholarship program too. Check with your employer!
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Harper Thompson
•I didn't realize appealing was an option! We did have some significant medical expenses last year that weren't reflected in our 2023 tax return (which is what the 2025-2026 FAFSA used). I'll definitely look into the appeal process. And good reminder about employer scholarships - I'll check with my company's HR department tomorrow.
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Ella Lewis
Try calling Federal Student Aid directly to see if there's anything else your daughter might qualify for. I spent DAYS trying to get through to someone when we had a similar issue last year... constant busy signals and disconnections. Super frustrating. I finally used this service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that helped me get through to a real person at FSA in about 20 minutes instead of waiting on hold forever. They have a video that shows how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ The agent I spoke with found that my son qualified for an additional $2000 in unsubsidized loans that wasn't showing in our initial package, plus gave us detailed guidance on the appeal process. Definitely worth making that call.
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Jade O'Malley
•does that service cost money?? i tried calling fsa 4 times last month and never got thru. kept getting disconnected after 30+ mins on hold 😡
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Caleb Stark
Circling back to your original question about payment plans - most colleges offer them through services like Nelnet Campus Commerce or TouchNet. They typically let you spread payments over 10-12 months with a setup fee of $50-150 depending on the school. No interest, just the flat fee. Regarding private loans, if you go that route, look for: 1. Fixed interest rates (not variable) 2. No origination fees 3. Forbearance options 4. Cosigner release after certain payment period 5. Death/disability discharge provisions Top-rated private lenders currently include Earnest, SoFi, and College Ave, but rates and terms change frequently. Always compare several before deciding.
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Harper Thompson
•This is exactly the kind of specific information I needed, thank you! I had no idea what terms to look for in private loans. Do you happen to know if these payment plans require any credit check or if they're available to all families?
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Caleb Stark
•Most payment plans don't require credit checks - they're available to any family willing to pay the setup fee. Some schools might check for history of returned payments, but it's not a typical credit check. They're designed to be accessible since it benefits the school to get their money reliably.
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Brianna Schmidt
my daughters school had somthing called tuition insurance too. like if she had to withdraw for medical reasons after the refund deadline we'd get most of the money back. might be worth asking about especially with how much ur paying
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Harper Thompson
•I've never heard of tuition insurance before. That's actually a really smart idea given the cost. I'll add that to my list of questions for the financial aid office. Thanks for mentioning it!
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Andrew Pinnock
One more thing - watch out for the financial aid bait-and-switch many schools pull. They give decent aid freshman year to get you in the door, then reduce it sophomore year when you're already committed. Ask SPECIFICALLY about guaranteed renewable aid for all four years. Get it in writing if possible. My son's "renewable" merit scholarship somehow shrank by $3k in year two because "funding changed" 🤬
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Hunter Edmunds
•This is excellent advice. Many families don't realize that aid packages can change year to year. Always ask if scholarships and grants are guaranteed for all four years (assuming GPA requirements are met), and get the terms in writing. The financial aid office should be able to provide you with the specific renewal criteria for each component of the aid package.
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Harper Thompson
Thank you all SO much for the helpful advice. I'm feeling a bit less overwhelmed now with a clearer path forward. Tomorrow I'm going to: 1. Call the financial aid office to discuss payment plans and possible additional institutional aid 2. Start the appeal process based on our medical expenses 3. Check with my employer about possible scholarships 4. Have a serious conversation with my daughter about the state school option I really appreciate everyone taking the time to share your experiences and knowledge. This system is so complicated to navigate without guidance from others who've been through it.
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Alexis Renard
•Sounds like a great plan! One more suggestion - ask the financial aid office about any department-specific scholarships related to your daughter's major. Sometimes those aren't advertised broadly and require a separate application. Good luck!
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Lucas Parker
As someone who just went through this process with my oldest child last year, I wanted to add one more resource that might help. Many states have their own student aid programs beyond federal aid that families don't know about. Check your state's higher education website - some offer need-based grants or low-interest loan programs that can bridge the gap between federal aid and college costs. Also, if your daughter is considering any specific career paths, look into professional associations in those fields. Many offer scholarships to students entering their industry. For example, if she's interested in healthcare, engineering, education, etc., those professional organizations often have scholarship programs with fewer applicants than the big national scholarships everyone applies for. The financial aid office should also be able to tell you about work-study opportunities if those are available at her school. It won't cover huge amounts, but every bit helps, and campus jobs are usually flexible around class schedules.
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Liam Duke
•These are fantastic additional resources! I had no idea about state-specific aid programs - I'll definitely check our state's higher education website tonight. My daughter is planning to study nursing, so I'll look into healthcare professional associations for scholarship opportunities. That's a great point about them having fewer applicants than the big national scholarships. Work-study is something we hadn't really considered either, but you're right that every bit helps. Thank you for adding these options to my growing list!
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Amina Toure
Since your daughter is planning to study nursing, there are actually quite a few nursing-specific scholarships and loan forgiveness programs you should look into! The Health Resources and Services Administration (HRSA) has the Nursing Scholarship Program that covers tuition, fees, and provides a monthly stipend in exchange for working in a critical shortage facility after graduation. Many hospitals also offer tuition assistance programs where they'll help pay for nursing school if you commit to working for them for a certain period after graduation. Additionally, check if the nursing program at her school has any clinical partnerships with local hospitals - sometimes these partnerships come with scholarship opportunities or guaranteed job placement that can make the financial commitment more manageable. The American Nurses Association and your state's nursing association likely have scholarship databases too. Given the strong job market for nurses and the various loan forgiveness programs available in healthcare, the investment in nursing school often has better long-term financial outcomes than many other majors. Just make sure to research all the strings attached to any scholarship or loan forgiveness programs before committing!
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Elliott luviBorBatman
•This is incredibly helpful information about nursing-specific opportunities! I had no idea about the HRSA Nursing Scholarship Program - that sounds like it could be a game-changer with the tuition coverage and monthly stipend. The idea of hospital partnerships for tuition assistance is really appealing too, especially if it comes with job security after graduation. I'll definitely research both the American Nurses Association and our state nursing association scholarship databases. It's reassuring to hear that nursing has better long-term financial outcomes given the job market. I'll make sure to read all the fine print on any programs we consider. Thank you for pointing us toward these nursing-specific resources!
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Isaiah Cross
One more thing to consider - if your daughter is set on that dream school but you're concerned about the debt, you could look into the "2+2" transfer option. She could do her first two years at a community college (which would be much cheaper) and then transfer to complete her nursing degree at the four-year school. Many community colleges have guaranteed transfer agreements with four-year universities, and she'd still graduate with a degree from her dream school but at a fraction of the cost. Also, since nursing is such a hands-on field, make sure to factor in the quality of clinical rotations and hospital partnerships when comparing schools. Sometimes a less prestigious school actually has better clinical opportunities that lead to job offers. The connections and experience during clinicals often matter more than the school name on the diploma in healthcare fields.
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Alicia Stern
•The 2+2 transfer option is brilliant - I hadn't even thought about that possibility! Starting at community college for prerequisites could save us probably $20K over two years, and she'd still end up with the same degree. I'll need to research which community colleges in our area have nursing prerequisites and transfer agreements with her dream school. Your point about clinical rotations is really important too. We've been so focused on rankings and prestige that we haven't looked closely at the actual clinical partnerships and hands-on learning opportunities. That's definitely something to investigate when comparing the programs. Thanks for this practical perspective!
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Royal_GM_Mark
Just wanted to add another avenue you might explore - have you looked into your state's nursing workforce development programs? Many states offer loan repayment or scholarship programs specifically to address nursing shortages in certain regions or specialties. For example, some states will pay off nursing student loans in exchange for working in rural areas or underserved communities for a few years after graduation. Also, don't overlook credit unions if you end up needing private loans. Many credit unions offer student loans with better rates and terms than traditional banks, and some have special programs for healthcare students. My neighbor's daughter got a much better rate through their local credit union than any of the big lenders were offering. One last thought - if your daughter is academically strong, she might want to look into accelerated BSN programs. They're intense but shorter, which means less total tuition costs. Some are designed for students who already have prerequisites done, so the community college route could set her up perfectly for this option.
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Demi Lagos
•These are all excellent additional resources! I'll definitely look into our state's nursing workforce development programs - working in underserved areas for loan forgiveness could actually align well with my daughter's interests in community health. The credit union suggestion is really smart too - I hadn't thought to check there for student loans, but you're right that they often have better rates than big banks. The accelerated BSN program idea is intriguing as well, especially if she does the community college route first for prerequisites. It sounds like there might be a path that combines several of these strategies - community college for basics, then accelerated BSN, with potential loan forgiveness through state programs. This gives us so many more options to explore beyond just taking on massive debt! Thank you for adding these creative solutions to the mix.
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Ruby Blake
I'm a newcomer here but wanted to share what worked for us when facing a similar gap. One strategy I haven't seen mentioned is reaching out directly to the admissions office (not just financial aid) to discuss your situation. Sometimes they have discretionary funds or can connect you with alumni scholarship programs that aren't widely advertised. Also, since your daughter is interested in nursing, many hospitals offer "earn while you learn" programs where students work as nursing assistants or patient care techs during school and the hospital helps with tuition costs. It's great experience and income at the same time. Finally, don't forget to check if either parent's employer offers dependent tuition benefits - some companies provide this perk but employees don't always know about it. Worth checking with HR!
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Nia Harris
•Welcome to the community! These are really valuable suggestions, especially the idea of contacting admissions directly. I hadn't thought about them having separate discretionary funds from the financial aid office. The "earn while you learn" hospital programs sound perfect for nursing students - getting both income and relevant experience while in school is brilliant. I'll definitely check with my HR department about dependent tuition benefits too. My company is pretty large so there might be programs I'm not aware of. Thanks for jumping in with these practical tips from your own experience!
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Kolton Murphy
As a newcomer here, I wanted to add one more option that helped us bridge a similar gap - look into your state's 529 education savings plan tax benefits if you have any savings you could move around. Some states offer tax deductions for contributions made in the same year, and you can often use the funds immediately for qualified education expenses. It's not a huge amount, but every bit helps when you're facing a $26K gap. Also, if your daughter has any AP credits or dual enrollment credits from high school, make sure the college will accept them to potentially reduce the total credit hours (and semesters) needed to graduate. Graduating even one semester early could save you thousands. One thing I learned the hard way - if you do end up taking Parent PLUS loans, you can request the exact amount you need rather than the full cost of attendance. This helps minimize the debt and interest you'll pay over time.
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Javier Morales
•Welcome to the community! These are excellent points about maximizing existing resources. The 529 plan tax benefit tip is really smart - even if it's just a few hundred dollars in tax savings, every bit counts when facing such a large gap. I should check what our state offers for same-year contributions. Great point about AP credits too - my daughter did take several AP classes and dual enrollment courses through our local community college. I need to make sure the dream school will accept all of them and that we're getting full credit value. And thank you for the tip about Parent PLUS loans - I didn't realize you could request a specific amount rather than the maximum. That could definitely help us avoid borrowing more than absolutely necessary.
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Makayla Shoemaker
As a newcomer to this community, I wanted to share something that might help with your situation. Have you looked into whether your daughter qualifies for any state-specific grant programs? Many states have need-based grants that are separate from federal aid and have different income thresholds than FAFSA. Also, since she's going into nursing, I'd suggest checking if any local healthcare systems offer pre-graduation employment contracts. Some hospitals will provide tuition assistance in exchange for a commitment to work there after graduation - it's like getting paid to go to school with a guaranteed job at the end. One more thing - if you're considering the state school option, don't just look at the sticker price difference. Factor in things like living costs, transportation, and whether she could live at home to save on room and board. Sometimes the "cheaper" option ends up being significantly more affordable when you account for all expenses. The gap you're facing is unfortunately very common for middle-class families. You're definitely not alone in feeling frustrated with the system!
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Omar Fawzi
•Welcome to the community! Your point about state-specific grant programs is really important - I definitely need to dig deeper into what our state offers beyond just federal aid. The pre-graduation employment contracts with hospitals sound like a win-win situation, especially for nursing where job security is so important. And you're absolutely right about factoring in all the costs when comparing schools. The state school option would allow her to live at home, which could save us probably $12-15K per year in room and board costs alone. When I add that savings to the $7K merit scholarship, the gap becomes much more manageable. Thanks for the reminder that we're not alone in this - it's frustrating to feel stuck in that middle-class trap where you make "too much" for aid but not nearly enough to pay these costs comfortably. Your perspective helps put things in better context!
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Mikayla Davison
As a newcomer here, I wanted to share something that really helped us when we faced a similar situation last year. Have you considered looking into whether your daughter's intended school participates in the Yellow Ribbon Program or has any veteran/military family benefits if that applies to your situation? Even if you're not military, some schools extend similar benefits to families of federal employees or first responders. Another avenue worth exploring is contacting local nursing homes, assisted living facilities, and home healthcare agencies in your area. Many of these employers are desperately short-staffed and offer tuition reimbursement or scholarship programs for students who will work part-time during school and commit to full-time employment after graduation. It's not as well-known as hospital programs, but the healthcare shortage extends to all levels of care. One last suggestion - check if your daughter's high school guidance counselor maintains a database of local scholarships. Our counselor had a whole list of smaller community scholarships ($500-2000 each) from local businesses, Rotary clubs, and community foundations that many students overlook because they focus on the big national scholarships. These smaller ones often have fewer applicants and can really add up. The financial aid system definitely feels overwhelming, but you're asking all the right questions and exploring every option. That persistence usually pays off!
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Giovanni Rossi
•Welcome to the community! These are fantastic suggestions I hadn't considered. We're not military, but I work for the state government so I should definitely check if there are any public employee benefits that extend to dependents' education. The idea of reaching out to nursing homes and assisted living facilities is brilliant - you're right that the staffing shortage extends beyond hospitals, and these employers might be more flexible with scheduling around classes too. I never would have thought to ask our high school guidance counselor about local scholarship databases, but that makes perfect sense. Those smaller community scholarships probably have much better odds than the huge national ones everyone applies for. I'm starting to feel like there might actually be a path through this that doesn't involve crushing debt. Thank you for the encouragement - it really helps to hear from someone who successfully navigated this process!
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Amara Chukwu
As a newcomer to this community, I wanted to add one more resource that might be helpful in your situation. Have you looked into whether your daughter's school offers any emergency financial aid or hardship grants? Many colleges have discretionary funds available for students who experience unexpected financial challenges, and while these are typically smaller amounts ($1,000-3,000), they can help reduce the overall gap. Also, since you mentioned nursing, I'd encourage you to research the NURSE Corps Scholarship Program through HRSA. This is different from the general nursing scholarship program mentioned earlier - it specifically covers tuition, fees, and other educational costs in exchange for working in a Critical Shortage Facility. The application deadline is usually in April, so you might still have time for the next cycle. One thing I learned when my son was applying is that some colleges will actually match or improve upon aid offers from comparable schools. If your daughter has acceptances from other schools with better aid packages, it's worth presenting those to the financial aid office and asking if they can review their offer. Sometimes called "financial aid leveraging," this doesn't always work, but it costs nothing to ask. The community college to four-year transfer route that others mentioned is really smart for nursing. Many nursing programs are actually designed to accommodate transfer students since the prerequisites are fairly standardized. Just make sure any community college credits will transfer seamlessly to avoid extending the time to graduation.
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Asher Levin
•Welcome to the community! These are all excellent additional resources. I hadn't heard of emergency financial aid or hardship grants before - that's definitely worth exploring with the financial aid office. The NURSE Corps Scholarship Program sounds like it could be a perfect fit since it covers tuition and educational costs. I'll need to research the Critical Shortage Facility requirements to see if that would align with my daughter's career goals. The financial aid leveraging idea is really smart too - we do have the state school offer with the merit scholarship that I could potentially use as leverage. Your point about nursing programs being designed for transfer students is reassuring - it sounds like the community college route might be more seamless than I initially thought. I'm creating quite a comprehensive action plan from all these suggestions! Thank you for adding these resources to my growing list of options to explore.
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Paolo Esposito
As a newcomer to this community, I wanted to share something that helped us last year when we faced a similar financial aid gap. Have you looked into whether your daughter's intended major department offers any work-study or research assistant positions specifically for nursing students? Many nursing programs have faculty research projects or community health initiatives that need student assistants, and these positions often pay better than typical campus jobs while providing valuable experience for her resume. Also, I'd suggest checking with your local hospital systems about their volunteer programs. While unpaid, many hospitals give preference in hiring (including for those tuition assistance programs others mentioned) to students who have volunteered with them. It's a way to get your foot in the door and build relationships before she even starts the nursing program. One more thing - if your daughter has strong grades, ask about becoming a peer tutor or teaching assistant once she gets into her nursing courses. These positions are often well-paid and highly valued by employers since they demonstrate both academic excellence and leadership skills. The financial burden is definitely overwhelming, but nursing is one of those fields where the various income and assistance opportunities during school can really help offset costs while building her professional network at the same time.
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