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Marcelle Drum

Is taking out a Parent PLUS loan our only option? Need advice on FAFSA alternatives

My son just got his financial aid package for fall 2025, and we're completely blindsided. His SAI score came back way higher than we expected (like $18,000 higher!), so his grant money barely covers anything. The school financial aid office suggested we look into Parent PLUS loans, but I'm freaking out about taking on that much debt at my age (52). We make about $62,500 combined income, but have basically no savings and still paying off our own student loans. Has anyone here taken out Parent PLUS loans? Is it a terrible idea? Are there ANY other options we're missing? His EFC from last year was so much lower - I don't understand why the SAI calculation hit us so hard this time around!

Tate Jensen

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Parent PLUS loans aren't ideal but sometimes necessary. They have higher interest rates (currently 7.54%) than direct student loans and fewer forgiveness options. Few important things to consider: 1. Max out Direct Subsidized/Unsubsidized Loans first ($5,500-$12,500 depending on year and dependency status) 2. Have your son apply for private scholarships - even small ones add up 3. Consider asking the financial aid office for a "professional judgment review" if your income has changed or you have unusual expenses 4. Look into payment plans offered directly by the school The SAI calculation is different from the old EFC - it's normal to see significant changes, especially if your income increased even slightly.

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Marcelle Drum

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Thank you for this breakdown. He already got the full subsidized/unsubsidized amount ($7,500), but it's nowhere near enough. Our income only went up by like $3,500 from last year, but the SAI jumped like crazy! I'll definitely ask about that professional judgment review - we have some medical expenses they might consider. Do you know if they ever actually approve those?

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Adaline Wong

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parent plus is what we did. not great but wat else can u do? my kid is junior now and we owe like 45k just from that. the interest is the WORST part tbh. they start charging interest right away not like the subsidized ones. wish someone told me that befor we signed!!!

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Gabriel Ruiz

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OMG the interest is INSANE!! We borrowed $22,000 in Parent PLUS three years ago and somehow owe $28,500 now even though we've been making minimum payments the whole time! I feel like we're drowning and have 2 more years to go 😩

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I've worked in financial aid for over a decade, and I'd recommend exploring a few more options before committing to a Parent PLUS loan: 1. First, appeal your SAI calculation if you have special circumstances (job loss, medical expenses, etc.) 2. Contact smaller private colleges - they often have more institutional aid available than large public universities 3. Consider the community college route for the first two years - dramatically reduces overall costs 4. Look at work-study programs combined with part-time employment 5. Some schools offer income-share agreements as an alternative to traditional loans The 2025-26 FAFSA's new SAI formula has been particularly challenging for many middle-income families in your bracket. The changes to the income protection allowance have affected many families negatively.

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Marcelle Drum

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Thank you for these insights! Unfortunately he's already committed to his school (put down deposits etc), so transferring isn't really an option right now. What documentation would we need for that SAI appeal? Our medical expenses were about $8,200 last year (ongoing treatment for my husband), but we don't have great records because it was spread across so many different bills.

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Peyton Clarke

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We've been using Parent PLUS loans for both our kids for the past 3 years, and honestly regret it. The origination fees are ridiculous (around 4% taken right off the top!) and the interest rates are much higher than what students get. If I could go back, I would have helped my kids find more scholarships or considered a gap year while building up some savings. One option you might look into is a home equity loan if you own your house - rates are usually MUCH better than Parent PLUS. Some families in our situation have also looked into private student loans with a parent co-signer, which sometimes offers better terms, though you lose federal protections.

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Vince Eh

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use a home equity loan instead of Parent PLUS?? that sounds risky AF. at least with student loans they cant take your house if you cant pay!

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I was in a similar situation last year trying to reach someone at FSA to discuss our SAI calculation issues. After weeks of trying to get through on the phone (constant busy signals, disconnects after waiting 2+ hours), I found Claimyr.com which got me connected to an actual federal student aid agent in about 20 minutes. They have a system that navigates the phone tree and waits on hold for you. You can see how it works in their video demo: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ The agent was able to explain exactly why our SAI jumped so much (turned out it was related to retirement account withdrawals we made for home repairs being counted as income). This helped us put together a proper professional judgment appeal with our school's financial aid office.

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Marcelle Drum

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Oh wow, I hadn't heard of that service. I'll definitely check it out because I've been trying to reach someone at FSA for days with no luck. Did they help with the appeal directly or just explained the calculation?

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They just explained the calculation in detail - the appeal itself has to go through your school's financial aid office. But having the FSA agent explain exactly what factors caused our SAI to be so high was crucial for putting together an effective appeal. They pointed out specific sections of our FAFSA that were triggering the higher calculation.

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parent plus loans are PREDATORY!!! the govt knows parents will do ANYTHING for their kids and they take advantage with those ridiculous interest rates. my sister ows almost $90k now for her daughters education and she'll probably die before its paid off. its criminal what they're doing to families!!!

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While Parent PLUS loans do have higher interest rates than Direct Subsidized/Unsubsidized loans, they do offer some benefits like income-contingent repayment options through consolidation and potential Public Service Loan Forgiveness eligibility. They're not ideal, but calling them 'predatory' isn't entirely accurate when compared to private lending options with variable rates and fewer protections.

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Gabriel Ruiz

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Have you looked into whether your son qualifies for any supplemental grants? My daughter got a Pell Grant from her FAFSA results but then also qualified for a state grant we didn't know about until we asked. Also, has he checked with his academic department? Sometimes they have scholarship money that isn't advertised in the general financial aid package!

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Marcelle Drum

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That's a good idea about the department scholarships! He's going into engineering, so I'll have him email the department directly. His SAI was too high for Pell Grant eligibility (which is part of why I'm panicking). I think we're above the state grant threshold too, but I'll double-check that.

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Tate Jensen

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If your son is already committed to this school, and you've maximized scholarships, grants, and direct student loans, you might consider a combination approach to minimize Parent PLUS amounts: 1. Take only what you absolutely need in Parent PLUS loans (partial amount) 2. Use a payment plan through the school for another portion 3. Have your son work part-time during school (10-15 hours/week is manageable) 4. Consider whether you can contribute even a small monthly amount from your current income Many families use Parent PLUS loans as part of their strategy, not the entire solution. Also worth noting that you can deduct up to $2,500 of student loan interest on your taxes, which helps a small bit with the cost.

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Marcelle Drum

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Thank you - I like this combined approach. He's already planning to work part-time, and I could probably manage $250/month from my paycheck if I'm careful. I'll see if the school offers a payment plan for the remaining amount. Might still need some Parent PLUS, but hopefully a much smaller amount.

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Vince Eh

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my cousin got that parent loan and it works ok for them. just dont borrow more than what ur kid will make in thier first year after grauatding. thats wat the financial aid person told us. if they'll make 45k dont borrow more than 45k total

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Marcelle Drum

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Thanks everyone for all the suggestions! I'm going to: 1) Contact FSA to understand why our SAI jumped so much, 2) Request a professional judgment review based on our medical expenses, 3) Look into payment plans + my son's part-time work to reduce the loan amount, and 4) Have him contact his department about additional scholarships. If we still need Parent PLUS loans, we'll keep the amount as low as possible. This has been incredibly helpful!

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Tate Jensen

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Sounds like an excellent plan. One final suggestion - once you do take out any loans, create a separate spreadsheet to track all education debt, interest rates, and payment schedules. I've seen too many families lose track of exactly how much they've borrowed across multiple years, which makes planning more difficult. Good luck!

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Mateo Sanchez

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I'm new here but dealing with a similar situation! Just wanted to add that some schools have emergency grant funds that aren't widely advertised - it's worth asking the financial aid office directly if they have any institutional emergency aid available for families whose financial situations have changed or who are facing unexpected hardships. Also, if your son is interested in work-study, those positions often pay better than regular part-time jobs and the hours are designed around class schedules. The application process varies by school but it's usually through the financial aid office. Don't give up hope - there are often more options than what's initially presented in the aid package!

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