FAFSA won't cover everything - need advice on private student loans for the gap
So my financial aid package came in yesterday and I'm freaking out a little. After all the FAFSA stuff, grants, and federal loans, I'm still short about $14,500 per year. My SAI score was way higher than expected (thanks, parents' retirement withdrawal 🙄), and now I need to look at private loans to cover the difference. Does anyone have experience with private student loans? Which companies have the best rates? Should I get a cosigner even though my parents' credit isn't great? I'm so lost and the financial aid office keeps pushing me to their "preferred lender list" which feels sketchy. HELP!
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Anastasia Sokolov
I was in the same boat last year. Before jumping into private loans, make sure you've maximized your federal options - Parent PLUS loans are worth considering if your parents are willing, even with mediocre credit. If you must go private, AVOID Sallie Mae - they start at decent rates but jack them up. I got a good deal with Earnest (5.4% fixed) but needed my aunt as a cosigner to get that rate. Without her, it was going to be 10.2%! A good cosigner makes a HUGE difference.
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Diego Rojas
•Thanks for the advice! My parents already said no to Parent PLUS loans because they're trying to get their own finances in order. Did you compare a lot of lenders before picking Earnest? And how does the repayment work - do you have to start paying while still in school?
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StarSeeker
depends on ur major tbh... if ur going into something that pays well private loans can be ok but if not mayb consider community college for 2 years then transfer? i had to take out $22k in private loans and the interest is KILLING me now
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Sean O'Donnell
Private student loans should always be your last resort after exhausting all federal aid options. Here's what I suggest: 1. Double-check your FAFSA to ensure all information is correct - especially if your parents had a one-time retirement withdrawal that inflated your SAI. You can file a special circumstances appeal with your school's financial aid office. 2. Look into institutional scholarships and grants directly from your school. 3. If private loans are unavoidable, get a cosigner with excellent credit if possible (doesn't have to be a parent - could be another relative). 4. Compare rates from multiple lenders: SoFi, Discover, CommonBond, Earnest, and credit unions often have competitive rates. 5. Pay close attention to the terms - fixed vs. variable rates, repayment options during school, origination fees, and prepayment penalties. Remember, your total student loan debt ideally shouldn't exceed your expected first-year salary after graduation.
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Diego Rojas
•Thank you so much for the detailed response! I honestly didn't know about the special circumstances appeal for the retirement withdrawal thing. I'll definitely check with the financial aid office about that tomorrow. If it doesn't work, I'll start comparing those lenders you mentioned. My aunt might be willing to cosign... she has better credit than my parents.
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Zara Ahmed
•THIS IS GREAT ADVICE! I wish someone had told me this before I got $60K deep in private loans with crazy interest. The special circumstances appeal actually worked for me in my junior year when my dad lost his job. Saved me about $5K in loans that year.
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Luca Esposito
The financial aid system is COMPLETELY BROKEN. They calculate these ridiculous "expected family contributions" that no normal family can actually afford, then leave students with no choice but to take predatory private loans. I'm $86,000 in debt from private loans with interest rates that started at 7% and are now over 11%!!! The whole "preferred lender" thing is just kickbacks to the schools. It's criminal and nobody cares. Why should an 18-year-old have to sign up for decades of debt just to get an education? Meanwhile other countries offer free college...
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Nia Thompson
•Preach! My SAI was insane because my parents own a small business that looks good on paper but they barely take home enough to pay their own bills. FAFSA doesn't care about reality.
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Sean O'Donnell
•While there are legitimate criticisms of the financial aid system, I want to clarify that schools are required by law to disclose any relationships with lenders on their preferred lists. Many schools actually negotiate better rates for their students through these partnerships. That said, always compare options outside this list too.
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Mateo Rodriguez
Have you tried calling the Federal Student Aid office to discuss your SAI score? I was in a similar situation where my parents' one-time income boost from selling a property affected my eligibility. I spent DAYS trying to call them to explain my situation - keep getting disconnected or waiting for hours. Finally used Claimyr (claimyr.com) to get through to an actual human at FSA who explained the professional judgment review process. Worth watching their demo (https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ) to see how it works. After speaking with someone, I was able to submit a proper appeal through my school's financial aid office with the right documentation, and they reduced my SAI score significantly.
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Diego Rojas
•I've been trying to call them too! Spent 2 hours on hold yesterday before giving up. I'll check out that site - anything that helps me avoid these private loans would be worth it. Did you have to provide specific documentation for the appeal?
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Mateo Rodriguez
•Yes - I needed to document that the income was a one-time event. In my case, it was property sale paperwork and a letter explaining the situation. For your parents' retirement withdrawal, you'd probably need statements showing the withdrawal and explanation of circumstances. The FSA agent I spoke with walked me through exactly what the financial aid office would need to see.
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Nia Thompson
Just my 2 cents but credit unions sometimes have better rates than the big lenders. I got mine through my local credit union at 2% lower than what Sallie Mae offered. Just hav to be a member but that's usually easy
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Diego Rojas
•That's a good idea! I actually have an account at a credit union already. I'll call them tomorrow and see what they offer. 2% lower would save so much money over time.
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StarSeeker
does the school offer payment plans?? sometimes you can do that instead of loans for some of it
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Anastasia Sokolov
After reading through the thread, it sounds like you have a few solid next steps: 1. File that special circumstances appeal about the retirement withdrawal 2. Talk to your credit union about their private loan options 3. See if your aunt would be willing to cosign One other thing I didn't mention earlier - check if your private loans will allow in-school deferment. Some require immediate payment while others let you wait until after graduation. That makes a huge difference when you're trying to focus on studies. Also, look at the difference between fixed and variable rates carefully - variable might look better now but can increase substantially over the life of the loan.
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Diego Rojas
•Thank you for the summary! I'm definitely going to try the appeal first. I've already texted my aunt about potentially cosigning. The in-school deferment tip is super helpful - I'm working part-time already but couldn't handle full loan payments while taking 18 credits a semester. Will make sure to check the fine print on that!
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GalaxyGuardian
my brother got ripped off by one of those private loan companies few years back... they had all these hidden fees and the interest was wayyy higher than they first said. make sure u read EVERYTHING before signing!!!!
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Sean O'Donnell
Just wanted to add that when comparing private loan options, look beyond just the interest rate. Some important factors to consider: 1. Repayment flexibility - can you get forbearance if needed? 2. Death/disability discharge provisions (federal loans have these automatically) 3. Cosigner release options - how long until your cosigner can be removed? 4. Customer service reputation - check reviews from current borrowers Also, consider taking only what you need for this year rather than borrowing for multiple years at once. Your financial situation might improve, or you might qualify for more aid or scholarships next year.
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Diego Rojas
•These are really good points I hadn't thought about. I was just focusing on getting the lowest interest rate possible. I'll definitely look into the forbearance options and cosigner release timeline. And you're right - I'll just figure out this year for now and hopefully things will be better next year. Maybe I can find more scholarships or work more hours next summer.
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